I always remember that there was a poet who made me very uncomfortable, I was shopping with my friends in the downtown area, suddenly someone tapped on the shoulder, looking back, a little girl holding a begging tool, babbling and painting me, signaling me to donate money, because I was still studying, the economy was not independent, and there was no extra money to support others, so I was momentarily embarrassed on the spot.
Seeing my hesitant look, a passerby who was watching the hilarity opened his mouth, boy, can you have some love? People are deaf and mute, next to a big aunt also echoed, that is, it is not easy for people to go out to beg for life on hot days, you should donate a little! Hearing these words, my heart is even more uncomfortable, this is a naked moral kidnapping!
Unreasonable, unprincipled advocate of goodness, demanding others in the name of the giving of love, but being indifferent to oneself, such people deserve only to be called hypocritical good people.
If you pay attention to observation, you will find that such scenes are particularly common in life, you go to the cinema to watch a movie, the child sitting behind you keeps kicking the back of your chair, and even sprinkles popcorn on your head, you can't bear to look back, but the people around you advise you to forget it, he is still a child, what is the matter with the child? When you go to the supermarket to buy things, when you check out, an old man is in line in front of you without any trouble, if you and he theorize that there will be people who stand up and say, respect the old man does not understand it, you will also have an old day, give yourself some virtue.
No bottom line, no principle to persuade others to tolerate kindness, forgiveness is a kind of utter hypocrisy, for the essence of tolerance, to put it bluntly is to be happy with others, because naughty children do not bully their heads, so they advise others to "don't worry about children," because the square dancing mother did not put the loudspeaker downstairs in her own house, so she dared to say "respect the elderly"; because she did not want to donate money, so she left a message under the star Weibo, making so much money and not donating more? "Really stingy"... On the surface, there is a benevolent heart, and everything loves to stand on the moral high ground to evaluate others, but when he is really at the center of the incident, the person involved is replaced by another face.
Kindness is not asking others to do anything? Instead, know what you should do? Truly cultivated people, never point fingers at other people's lives, have not experienced the same pain, why in the name of kindness and generosity, help others make decisions?
Do not do unto others, do not openly plunder blind goodness in the name of the sun in the dark, without principled generosity, without illogical matters interfering in the lives of others, is often more terrible than evil.
Thank you to my friends who supported me, thank you for your kind and attention!