Ma Zhenge is 68 years old, before retirement was the people's police, retirement salary 5800, the family has a 155 square house, his wife died seven years ago, and now he wants to find a wife to live with, but such good conditions are called suitable for a person's life, Ma Zhenge What problems in the end cause him to not find a favorite wife?
Ma Zhenge has a son and a daughter, after retirement he helped take care of his grandchildren, alone to see the children as big, is also a rare diligence and ability, the family is clean, Master Ma does not smoke or drink, usually like to use the sewing machine to make some things, the small bags on his body, the big bags he carries on weekdays are made by himself.
There are three small sofas in the family is also Made by Ma Zhenge himself for his grandchildren, Ma Zhenge has strong hands-on ability, there is nothing he will not do, he especially cares for the family likes children, super grandpa can also press on him, the three juniors in the family out of the moon to live with him, feeding, dressing, bathing, changing diapers, Ma Zhenge is doing an orderly job, daughters and sons are praising him, the child handed over to the grandfather there is no uneasy.
Now that the children have grown up and the youngest granddaughter is in kindergarten, Ma Zhenge finally has time to think about his personal problems when he is quiet, he says that he does not care how much money the woman has, he can support his own family, mainly depends on whether the two have feelings and whether they can get along happily.
Good health, love to do housework, have a retirement salary and housing, such conditions and then find a wife should be very easy to find, but Ma Zhenge has some trouble. Why? Both blind dates rejected him.
The first Aunt Li Xiujuan is 63 years old, her retirement salary is 2600, there is a house of more than 90 square meters, she also lives alone on weekdays, when she was young, she did not like her husband together, and then the man cheated, Li Xiujuan thought about the gossip of outsiders, she did not have any feelings for her husband, in the current words, she used cold violence against her husband, so she also forgave her husband, and the two still lived together.
The result is that the man is more and more unscrupulous, and makes a mess of the family, the children tell her that as long as she is not at home, the aunt will come to the house to cook for her father, which makes Li Xiujuan unable to continue to endure, the two choose to divorce, Li Xiujuan brought up the children alone.
Now that Li Xiujuan is retired, she has no burden, and finding someone to live is not only to block the gossip outside, but also to meet a person who really likes, and the two cherish the present and live a good life.
Ma Zhenge and Red Niang came to Li Xiujuan downstairs, before they met he began to pick faults, how Li Xiujuan was not waiting for the Red Lady below, Red Niang explained that Li Xiujuan was originally waiting downstairs, it was Ma Zhenge who went to pick up his grandson before coming, she was worried that the weather was too frozen and bad, and proposed that Li Xiujuan wait at home.
When the two old people met, Ma Zhenge's first impression was not very good, he felt that Li Xiujuan was too dark to have no eye edge, Li Xiujuan liked it very much, looking at Ma Zhenge's very atmospheric appearance, Li Xiujuan took the initiative to chat and introduced her situation. Because her ex-husband cheated and chose to divorce, she did not hide it, and Ma Zhenge was even more unhappy.
Ma Zhenge quietly said to the red lady that this man's cheating on the woman's responsibility, the woman must be responsible, the man's return to the woman's no happy appearance he is definitely not happy, this time he is more cold to Li Xiujuan.
Li Xiujuan is real, only feel that Ma Zhenge is not very active, she will be generous to talk more, she mentioned her hobbies, like hiking and swimming, the two slowly chatted, Ma Zhenge was finally willing to chat, but as soon as he opened his mouth, he mentioned his grandchildren, mentioned that every week the children have to come to the house to gather, he also likes to see the children.
Li Xiujuan is not very satisfied with this, there are too many children, Ma Zhenge is burdened, saying that she has put down the children, but her heart has always been worried, to pick up the children every day, on the weekend we have to make a bunch of delicious waiting for the children to come, such a noisy life is not what she expected.
Li Xiujuan felt that Ma Zhenge did not listen to what he said, he asked how his body was, she smiled and said that there was no serious illness, that is, the head lacked oxygen and some dizziness, Ma Zhenge said that the cerebellum was atrophied, Li Xiujuan had a physical examination every year, Ma Zhenge's words were really speechless. Ma Zhenge saw that Li Xiujuan was not satisfied with the child, and he was even more reluctant to continue to talk, and the two did not talk about it.
It is normal that a blind date does not come, and the second Aunt Li Limei is very attractive to Ma Zhenge's eyes, he likes this temperamental woman, so what will they not talk about between them?
Li Limei is also a people's policeman, 59 years old retirement salary of 4900, she is a divorced one living, the family is neatly packed, there should be a lot of common language between the two peers.
Ma Zhenge saw Li Limei on TV, very satisfied with her situation, Li Limei came to Ma Zhenge's home a little shy, Ma Zhenge changed the last time did not take the initiative, this time he was very enthusiastic to recommend himself, saw the red lady in Ma Zhenge also sent the red lady to wash the fruit, so that he and Li Limei chatted freely.
Li Limei looked at the kind Ma Zhenge also liked, the two have a lot of common topics, nagging what is very natural, Ma Zhenge likes to clean up the housework, the advantages of self-cooking are also very appreciated by Li Limei, in Li Limei's view, this age man is still willing to do housework, she feels very rare.
When she heard Ma Zhenge talk about the children and grandchildren in the family, Li Limei did not feel much disgust, she also had her own children, and it should be a natural thing to get along. But Li Limei made a request, which made Ma Zhenge unable to agree.
Li Limei asked about Ma Zhenge's emotional aspects, Ma Zhenge said that his wife died of nasopharyngeal cancer seven years ago, Li Limei said that the police retired, but her timidity, thinking that this big house is Ma Zhenge's ex-wife lived and died here, she proposed that she hoped that Ma Zhenge could change a house, the size does not matter, the two of them can live together again, she also has her own house, and does not covet Ma Zhenge's house.
Ma Zhenge originally liked Li Limei and was also actively promoting himself, and as soon as he heard the request to change the house, he immediately changed his face. Ma Zhenge said that this request was not appropriate, who did not live and die of old age, he also lived in this house. Ma Zhenge is not willing to change the house, first, he is old and does not want to toss, second, this house is close to his son's home, it is very convenient to pick up his grandson to kindergarten, he can not agree to Li Limei's request.
Li Limei saw that Ma Zhenge was unwilling to change the house, she would not say more, the two could not talk about it, even so Ma Zhenge still wanted to invite Li Limei to eat a meal and then leave, only to say that the two could not be husband and wife as friends.
Ma Zhenge's two blind dates have ended in failure, in fact, his conditions are very good, but he is really difficult to say, some machismo, the attachment to the children and grandchildren is particularly heavy, and he refuses to make any concessions for the woman, rather than saying that he wants to find a wife to live, it is better to say that he wants to find a free nanny to take care of a big family with himself.
For Li Xiujuan, whose conditions are not as good as his, his attitude is arrogant and various provocative, saying that men who cheat must have the responsibility of women, which is really not heard, which shows that Ma Zhenge's machismo is very serious, and he has his own identification of the standards and style of behavior.
He is indeed very attentive to his grandchildren, such a grandfather must be liked, but this does not mean that the woman will also like him, and too much contact with the children will definitely make the woman who joined later a little uncomfortable, the woman hopes that the two can live a quiet and ordinary life, so that the life of the chicken flying dog jump is not what the woman expects. Therefore, it is obvious that Ma Zhenge's expectations have failed.
At the age of 68, if he still wants to find a suitable wife to live well, then he must change his mind, truly accept a woman into his life, and also learn to make changes and compromises for the woman, otherwise, Ma Zhenge will live well alone, with children around, get along without pressure, and live freely.