Recently, there are media reports that the "love psychology" lecture opened by Wuhan University is full, there are female students carrying stools from the window into the classroom, there are boys sitting directly on the windowsill to listen, the classroom is already full 50 minutes before the lecture starts, many students are lined up, holding the "love" number plate. Teacher Yu Feng said that he hoped that everyone would talk about a healthy relationship and start and maintain a positive relationship.
What is the world? Orthodox people hung windows. In recent years, many domestic colleges and universities have successively opened open courses or elective courses related to love, but the names of courses are different, such as "Psychology of Love", "Love and Life Happiness", "Life Happiness Class", "Intimate Relationship" and so on. Judging from the situation of love classes in colleges and universities, there is a general situation of being in the market, which is quite hot and popular with college students, the classrooms are full, and it is not uncommon for people to be crowded on the corridors.
The popularity of college love courses fully shows that college students have a strong demand for love courses, and it is very necessary to open love courses in universities, which meets the actual needs of the majority of college students. In October 2020, a survey by China Youth Daily showed that 88.23% of college students supported the opening of love classes in universities.
Marriage and love are major events in life, the pursuit of love and belonging is the essential need of human beings, and it is normal for college students as adults to have needs for love. However, in recent years, there have been more and more negative news about marriage and love on the Internet such as PUA, infidelity, and domestic violence, especially some self-media have deliberately provoked gender antagonism in order to attract people's attention and attract traffic, causing social marriage anxiety and gradually spreading to the "ivory tower". This directly brings confusion and blindness to college students in love, do not know how to start love, blindly start to love, etc., and to a certain extent, promote the extreme trend of college students' marital anxiety, "unmarried" and "non-love" have grown in the university campus environment.
At the same time, in the process of love and communication, some conflicts and contradictions between couples are inevitable, but college student couples do not know how to solve love conflicts and contradictions due to lack of experience, and some college students choose extreme methods, resulting in tragedies and ruining their lives and their other half's lives. Moreover, some surveys have shown that the biggest impact on the mental health of college students today is emotional relationships, especially heterosexual relationships.
In this case, colleges and universities set up courses related to love marriage and teach love marriage knowledge, not to teach college students to become love masters and "sea kings", but to let college students have more understanding of love, emotions, interactions, and marriage, pass on correct and scientific concepts and concepts of love and marriage to college students, alleviate the anxiety of contemporary young people in marriage, and help them have the ability to deal with specific problems in the process of love and marriage in the future, and avoid regrets and tragedies.
Therefore, the author believes that whether it is to help college students form a correct and scientific concept of love and marriage, or to meet the needs of college students for love classes, the hot college love class can not just blindly applaud, the key is to build and improve the college marriage and love education system as soon as possible, it is recommended that the college love class from the current elective course to the compulsory course, so that more students in the society before making up for the important lesson of life.
Zhang Limei Source: China Youth Daily
Source: China Youth Daily