#2021开年演讲 #
Since entering the Internet era, social competition has become increasingly intense. Whether it is a worker or an entrepreneur, after the epidemic, it will be found that it is becoming more and more difficult to make money.
There are also many friends, during the epidemic period, unfortunately lost their jobs or experienced entrepreneurial failures, the loss of original contacts, and the economy is stretched.
Faced with high-intensity and high-standard competition, do you feel that you have mediocre qualifications and no way to start? Caught in endless confusion and anxiety? Insomnia, haggard face, life, makes you exhausted? This article will refine the three steps to help you find the answer to get out of adversity and complete the counterattack.
Let's start with the news that this influencer model drives a bus.
Beautiful appearance, the collision of the Internet and traditional industries, and the fresh elements in boring work, these can make people shine. Internet celebrities who are not worth mentioning in the media have lowered their identity and immediately become fragrant food in the bus industry.
But is not the dilemma that everyone is facing at present, but also as long as you demote your identity, casually find a blue-collar profession that sells personal strength and time, it will be solved?
No, no, no, too naïve.
First of all, let's start from the beginning, in each of the 360 lines, each line follows this underlying law: the ability to eat and the wealth obtained are eternally matched. Occasionally someone can make money by luck, but in the end, there is no reliable skill, and no matter how much money is earned, God can still make him double his spit back.
Whether there is the idea of self-help or the desire to turn over, God will not give anyone face, and in the end will only match the money and resources to the people who are competent in all aspects of vision, ability, motivation, and endurance.
We have to face the reality that unemployment or entrepreneurial failure is rooted in the fact that our comprehensive ability is weaker than that of our peers, especially the ability to perceive the situation.
Any industry or occupation, after doing it for a long time, will always produce a kind of inertia, begin to rely on experience, feeling and habit of doing things, and will slowly slack off learning and thinking. In the words of the political books of my childhood, this is: headache heals the head, foot pain heals the foot.
But headaches, can light be a problem of the head? Cervical spondylitis can also cause headaches, but without the medical knowledge of instruments and systems, you may not necessarily know the disease, know and cannot be diagnosed, and will not be treated if diagnosed.
To solve problems, we must have systematic thinking. Trapped in the innings, you must first know the situation. To put it simply, since we live in a three-dimensional world, we cannot use a linear thinking to solve the problem, otherwise we will fall into the dead cycle of "getting busier and poorer, exchanging life for money, having money and no love, and changing careers and being poor", and we will never come out.
So the first step in the three-step process of getting rid of adversity:
First understand the situation, first break the gossip array.
To get out of the predicament and change the status quo, we must first see that there are two paths. It's like on the road to a happy future, there is a gossip ecstasy array, there are eight doors, two paths, one to life, seven to death.
1, dead door: optimization of surface state
Suppose that the young lady in the photo, who originally worked in the factory, envied the high income of internet celebrities, felt that everything was better than the factory, and resigned to enter the bureau. If you can't make money by shooting videos, you will participate in the Internet celebrity training class, the effect is not fast, and you will spend money to ask someone to operate it on your behalf. Halfway through, I heard my girlfriend say that doing micro-business can make a lot of money, and I started a micro-business. As a result, it did not stop, crashing all the way, like a headless fly trapped in a dead door.
2, Shengmen: the underlying thinking optimization
Similarly, suppose that the little sister can not make money by shooting videos, can stop to calculate the account, and soon find that the input and output are extremely unbalanced, and she actually does not like to sing, dance, shoot videos, or like simple and stable work, just the boyfriend is recruiting bus drivers, the monthly salary is acceptable, and she also meets the recruitment requirements.
So she began to fully understand the differences between the two jobs, began to think again, carefully analyzed her strengths and preferences, and saw which job was more suitable for her? Which industry has an advantage in itself?
Finally, she found that although the bus work is ordinary, it allows her to obtain a sense of accomplishment in the interaction of convenient passengers; the previous factory experience can help her survive boredom; the kind and lively, love to communicate, and the helpful nature can help her quickly mingle with passengers, colleagues, and leaders; the innate appearance value has become a natural plus, which can amplify the achievements, increase everyone's tolerance for her, and speed up the promotion. Then, perhaps, to make the choice in the photo, is to enter a life gate.
Those who pass through the first level, xi ti equipment, armed forward; those who go to the door of death, enter the cycle of death, and the water and food are scarce until they are exhausted.
After passing the first level, the road gradually widened and suddenly opened up. But soon you will find that next, you have to pass through a pyramid to get out of trouble.
The pyramid is divided into 4 layers:
The first level is faith,
The second level is thinking,
Layer 3 is behavior,
Layer 4 is the result.
Faith, that is, each person's values, contains the meaning she personally gives to her life, is the cornerstone of the pyramid, faith carries thinking, thinking carries behavior, behavior carries results, and results connect the future. Only with firm conviction can we avoid a whim and go to Qin Twilight.
Many people say that to strengthen the belief of changing lives, you must read more books. Is reading useful? useful! But the role is limited, can only be regarded as a flashlight.
The pyramid of the second level must be connected through beliefs, thoughts, actions, and results. The long corridor, gloomy and damp, is full of dangers. With a flashlight, you can certainly avoid many dangers and reach the upper floor faster. But you have to make sure that the flashlight you get is fully charged and can really shine; more importantly, the direction is not wrong, you must know that there are forks in the road.
Anyway, congratulations, because being able to reach the pyramid means that you have passed the 1st level, officially entered the second step of the three-step process, and began to sprint to the 2nd level.
The second step is to solve the situation and rush out of the pyramid.
Here, in order to reward you for insisting on seeing here, first send the clearance cheats:
1- Insight into the bottom layer, starting from the second layer, understanding the structure and law of each layer layer by layer,
2- Bring a flashlight as much as possible, find the right guide, and go with a partner
3- Firm direction, diligent marking, focus on the front of the eyes, pay attention to the feet.
In particular, it is necessary to be diligent in asking questions when moving forward. The question is the eye of the answer, and asking the right question is already half successful, and the effect is like you find the right one at several forks in the road.
Back to real life, if you are too poor, you must first understand the root of your own poverty, the reason why others are rich, just like marking the right and wrong along the way on the Yongdao, so that you will not turn back stupidly and take the wrong road;
Poor health, often fever and cold, total anxiety or depression, then seek help guides, accumulate health knowledge, keep pace non-stop, is the solution to the grasp, can not always stand still, resigned to fate;
Busy to die, but the old can not make money, first of all, is it crazy into a dead end? Then don't hit the south wall, hurry up and make a mark while turning back, water and food are limited, and small lives are important.
Considering that it is easier to know and difficult to do, although there are customs clearance cheats, in order to improve the odds, reduce losses, and speed up, under the premise of possibility, we still have to bring more water, prepare more flashlights, and find the right guide or companion. They must be well-wishers who have walked through this pyramid countless times, not robbers or thieves at the bottom, otherwise, they will lose their wealth or perish.
It is really difficult to distinguish between them, so there is really not enough wisdom to distinguish, but also to have the courage to go on the road alone and overcome all difficulties. In reality, Tang Xuanzang also walked alone for a long time, and only with his accumulated talent and kindness did he meet trustworthy friends.
The third step is to break the old game, enter the new game, and enter the six reincarnations
After walking for so long, practicing the golden eye of fire, dodging the temptation of the white bone essence, and experiencing eighty-one difficulties, we finally cultivated the right results, the unity of knowledge and action, broke away from the pyramid at the bottom of the valley, and successfully reached the top. And through the exit from the top of the tower, we came to the top of Hallelujah Mountain.
Bordering the summit is a vast green grassland. The water and grass are abundant, the cattle and sheep are flocked, and there are many explorers like you who have settled down here.
Finally, you and your partners have also lived a happy and beautiful life here.
But it won't be long before you find that more and more explorers have come to this comfortable and pleasant paradise.
The original order was destroyed, the original resources were plundered, and the quiet mountain village became a noisy small town, surrounded by water, land, houses, cattle and sheep, and began to have daily conspiracies and battles.
You have no intention of fighting, because a steady stream of explorers continues to pour in, winning this today, and coming that tomorrow, and the growth rate cannot catch up with the consumption and division of resources.
At this point, you will understand that the original step 3 of the game-breaking journey is a continuous reincarnation of the forward journey, and the price of stopping will be an endless Red Sea war, until all your resources are exhausted again.
At the end of the grassland, there is another maze, and behind the charm, there is a pyramid built in a deep valley. In the new journey, although there are still all kinds of difficulties and obstacles, but after the last round of baptism, then your eyes will be full of determination, the road of exploration, you will also know how to use the smallest cost of trial and error, mark.
Interestingly, with the passage of time, although some partners can't keep up with your pace, they prefer to be frogs in warm water and give up moving forward. But there will always be more powerful people to meet, and there will always be better equipment reserved for you. Just like in reality, cars replace carriages, WeChat replaces text messages, and phone calls replace telegrams. The future journey, because of these fresh elements, is full of science and technology and fun, with a different scenery from the present, as long as it moves forward, it will always be encountered.
Then the focus of the third step of knocking on the blackboard is to recognize the current situation of the circular puzzle, not to be uneasy about the status quo, not to be lazy in thinking, not to indulge in pleasure, not to be pessimistic and admitting; good at learning the new technology of the moment, paying attention to excellent new partners, preparing for the worst and the best, and constantly accumulating potential energy and resources for the next expedition.
Back to reality, you need to do: do not fall into the cliché of changing big houses and luxury cars, do not increase unnecessary financial liabilities, do not easily devote themselves to projects that do not understand, do not despise the compound interest of every small amount of money, Taoguang and obscure, thick accumulation.
Then, as long as you are wise and capture the right opportunity, you can beat the drum and start again. After a long period of dancing chickens, waiting for the pillow, getting rid of adversity, and smoothly reaching the other side of the more beautiful shore, how difficult was it for you at that time? What is there to fear about the six reincarnations?
The future has come, sing the trilogy, Xiaoyou and you, go forward together.