The claws of sexual harassment reaching out to the office are not new, and for young people who have just stepped out of the ivory tower and entered the workplace, it has become an unspeakable experience for the superior to use his power to inflict sexual harassment on subordinates. Due to their lack of social experience, they have difficulty distinguishing between care, ambiguity and harassment, and often swallow their anger because they are worried about their personal image and career development, and eventually choose to be patient or forced to leave.
Recently, Japanese female singer Ai Neri sued the male executives of the former owner for sexually harassing themselves. It is understood that Eneri cuisine recently formally sued the former company's founder and producer of the male executives, saying that they have endured sexual harassment in the workplace for more than 10 years, the two are often subjected to abnormal physical contact with each other when they are alone, and sexual harassment language, for the sake of the singer's career can only endure, extreme stress environment led to her health deterioration, to her claim of 10 million yen (about 600,000 yuan).
However, for the sexual harassment sued by the former employee this time, the former company of Ainerai's former company Being responded that after an internal investigation of the company, there is no such thing. At present, the case is still in the prosecution stage, whether there is sexual harassment is still uncertain, flipping through the resume of Ai Neri, Ru Ye found that her life is also extraordinary.
In Japan, Ainerai is a very famous singer, she learned piano at the age of 5, very talented in music, officially stepped into the music scene in 2000, galloped in the music world for ten years, just when the red resolutely quit the entertainment circle, held a concert in 2015, renamed "Kanuchi Yoshiko" officially came back, but soon retired again.
Eneri has sung songs for the anime Conan many times, such as "I can't stop my love for you" in episodes 271-305, OP "MAGIG" in episodes 547-564, and "Dream xDream" in the theatrical version of "Detective Conan: The Magician of Silver Wings".
Two of the top ten songs selected by 420,000 people selected by the "Favorite Conan Songs" released a few days ago were sung by Ai Neri. And the Chinese people are familiar with her, it is precisely because she has sung the song of "Conan".
Later, due to physical reasons, he quit the showbiz circle of love of inner cuisine, because he loved pets, opened a pet shop, and also founded a pet dog brand "Bon Bon Copine", treating dogs, selling dog food, the business is getting bigger and bigger, with an annual profit of 50 million yen, equivalent to nearly 3 million yuan.
Therefore, if any netizen speculates that she sued her former boss for sexual harassment because of her economic situation, in order to claim tens of millions of yen, this obviously does not make sense. After all, there are 50 million yuan in the income of the enamel dish every year, and it is impossible to disregard your reputation for a mere ten million. Therefore, sexual harassment is likely to be true.
In recent years, sexual harassment in the workplace is not a new thing, according to the number of judgments of Chinese courts on different occasions from 2001 to 2018, the number of sexual harassment cases in the workplace is the largest.
However, most people in the workplace choose to be silent after encountering sexual harassment because they are afraid, afraid that they will not be believed, afraid that they will be stigmatized from now on, and most importantly, afraid that their work will be affected.
In fact, for professionals who have experienced or are experiencing sexual harassment, patience is a big taboo. When you feel that there are early signs of sexual harassment, quickly strangle, do not have a fluke mentality, thinking that this time patience will pass, to know that it is human nature to be inching forward.
Sexual harassment generally has two ways, one is verbal: such as the following stream of language to tease the other party, tell them personal sexual experience, adult jokes and other content; and then the way of action: deliberately touching, colliding, kissing the sensitive parts of the other party;
So how do we reject sexual harassment?
1. Resist harassment
In the face of some verbal sexual harassment, women should learn to refuse in a clever way, such as adopting an avoidant attitude, or indicating that they have a boyfriend, or resolving it with humor, and the interesting will be restrained. In the face of some tough bosses, you need to show your inviolability as soon as possible, be honest with your principles and attitudes, and never tolerate it.
2. Avoid being alone
Do not easily stay with the opposite sex, especially the boss stays alone in the office for too long, try to choose a place where there are others, hindered by the face, the other party is not good at moving. Be cautious about invitations to receptions or banquets for no reason, and pay attention to drinking as early as possible to avoid drinking as much as possible, so as not to strengthen the courage of others, and finally have their own words of suffering.
3. Collect evidence
For some entangled harassers, it is necessary to actively collect their harassment evidence in private, such as recording their provocative words, etc., on the one hand, they can use this to blackmail the other party and ask the other party to restrain their words and deeds, on the other hand, it is also convenient to put legal aid into in the future and protect their own interests as much as possible.
Remember not to react the first time he does something to you, then your acquiescence is the reason for him to inch in next time. This kind of thing cannot be eliminated in the workplace, but as long as we work together to say no to sexual harassment and face it bravely, we can also reduce the occurrence of such things with a high probability. Therefore, if you are really unfortunate enough to encounter sexual harassment in the workplace, you must learn to use legal weapons to protect yourself.