Some time ago, the girl who played the ice lemon in "Happy Planet" announced the news of her license, and she did not expect that after more than 1 month, she would "quickly" become a mother.
Everyone is still stuck in the sigh of "Grandpa Green Knot", and the impression is that she is still the little girl who is meaty and does not want her to marry so soon. But Zhang Zhaoyi has indeed grown up, and she is 27 years old after 90, and it is also suitable to talk about marriage.
After telling everyone the news of her baby this time, it was somewhat surprising, but after Zhang Zhaoyi received the blessing, she also received many ridicule and questions, the reason is nothing more than the speed of "flash marriage and flash life".
In fact, Zhang Zhaoyi's due date is still a period of time, but the situation of the fetus is not very good, the fetal movement is not good, the amniotic fluid is not enough, it was left by the hospital, so her baby was born early and became a "Virgo" baby.
At the beginning, everyone was blessing, lamenting that Zhang Zhaoyi still looked like a child, teasing her that she had not changed much from when she was a child, and gradually there were more and more questions.
"After only 15 months of knowing her, will the man cherish her?" Most of the couples who used to flashed together ended up flashing away."
"The time of knowing is too short, I don't know if I really understand each other, so it is too silly to entrust my life"
In the face of these doubts, Zhang Zhaoyi may not have expected that she was in the middle of the month and directly replied to the doubts of netizens. Zhang Zhaoyi said that he is a person who works very fast, and he has already received a certificate when he is in a public relationship online, and he is pregnant with a baby when he officially announces that he is in a relationship.
As for the "unmarried pregnancy" that everyone suspects, Zhang Zhaoyi said that it is indeed a baby conceived before receiving the license, but she does not think that this is a factor of unhappiness.
From the text of her reply, it can be seen that she is angry at the malicious speculation of some people and exhorts some people to "be merciful under the mouth".
People always have their own set of standards for the definition of happiness, some people feel that they are in love for more than a few years to get married, otherwise they are too hasty to be emotionally unstable together, but another part of the people question why couples are together for 5 or 6 years before they get married, or are they unhappy?
Looking back at Zhang Zhaoyi's experience, it is really unnecessary to conclude now that she will not be happy in the future.
Seeing the truth outside the delivery room, Zhang Zhaoyi's husband accompanied her throughout the whole process
In the process of Zhang Zhaoyi's birth of a baby, there can only be one person left around, all things are done by her husband alone, and Zhang Zhaoyi can feel that her husband is very hard.
On the other hand, the in-laws who can't accompany them are also very anxious, which shows that Zhang Zhaoyi is not only loved by her husband, but also cared for by the man's parents, which may be the happiness that many girls want, not necessarily the degree that can be achieved after many years of love.
Zhang Zhaoyi said that she does everything very quickly, perhaps she does not want to drag it out for too long, it is her personal choice, and others do not need to ridicule and do not need to follow suit.
Zhang Zhaoyi and his brother have worked hard together for a long time and already have a fixed income
After "Happy Planet", she did not shoot too many dramas, that is to say, she could not make money through acting, but Zhang Zhaoyi opened a shop after they were together.
As the business gets better and better, their income gradually stabilizes, and as far as the current state is concerned, it is not difficult for the two to live in economic conditions and raise children. And this one condition is not how long after falling in love and getting married to pass, or it depends on personal choice and effort, as well as strength.
Zhang Zhaoyi domineeringly replied: Happiness does not lie in when to get married, but in the management of two people
Just after giving birth to the baby should have had a good rest, but Zhang Zhaoyi faced all kinds of doubts and ridicule, domineeringly looked back at the past, mentioning a view of his own feelings.
Perhaps she is a little too advanced in getting pregnant before marriage, but in her view of feelings, whether the love between two people is long-lasting and the time to enter marriage sooner or later is not the main issue.
Zhang Zhaoyi feels that in the future, the two people's emotional stability and how their lives will be lived need to be jointly and managed by the two people, and the important thing is that both parties should be careful together.
In fact, there are a small number of malicious people, and everyone is just worried that such a girl, who they have known since childhood, will be bullied and wronged in the future.
Rational analysis, the speed of two people's love marriage is too fast, and there are indeed some drawbacks. But in this process, it is also important to protect yourself and operate with your heart, otherwise, as people say, unhappy people will still be unhappy after nine years of love and marriage, so what is the standard?
【Today's topic】Do you think that the happiness of a girl's marriage is related to the length of time in love?
#张兆艺 #