The video of Wang Lei, a fish seller who recently brushed up to a popular character on the Internet in 2020, tells the story of himself climbing ashore from being deeply involved in the quagmire of gambling to finally repenting from the heart. To be honest, this story that others have personally experienced is very touching to me, because there are too many people around me who are addicted to it and cannot extricate themselves, and the serious ones are even reduced to the point of family destruction and fragmentation, of course, some people finally find the right direction again in the thick fog and start to be down-to-earth and good people again.
Speaking of deep feelings, then I have to say about my real family experience: when I was young, it was about six or seven years old, and most of the things at that time can't be remembered clearly, but my dad and my mom quarreled because of my dad's gambling, but I still remember a lot, it was two thousand years at the time, at that time my mom found that opening a mahjong hall to make money was a very good plan, but it was the act of opening a mahjong hall that really ruined my dad's half life, my dad was a person, when he was young, he liked to play cards. But at that time, everyone didn't have much money, so they just played casually. So he sat at the mahjong table on the first day of my mother's mahjong hall and didn't play, maybe he had better luck that day and won a lot of money. But that's how he stepped into the abyss step by step
The immediate cause of gambling addiction is that people have a strong interest in anything unknown, which reminds me of a TV show I watched as a child – Curiosity Kills Cats. It is also because he has tasted the sweetness of winning money, he gradually began to indulge in it, usually in addition to going to work and sleeping most of the time is basically playing cards and mahjong, but gambling this kind of thing. Play for a long time will eventually lose, at home mahjong hall found that playing around to earn not much, and then simply run to other people's street to operate gambling places to play big, of course, this kind of gambling places have a characteristic - in order to be able to harvest new people for a long time to the end of the squeeze, at the beginning of a period of time will let you have been able to earn, and then let you taste the sweetness after you will lose a long time to win a hand, but the average person still will not know how to close, just to enjoy the pleasure of winning that one, unfortunately, my dad is not able to stop In the first day or two, he really won a lot of money, and then bought new clothes for my mother to take our family to the restaurant to eat, but from the beginning, he has been in a state of losing money, and soon lost his spare money. So what if you lose money? Of course, it was trying to get money to continue, and I don't know where he came into contact with the loan shark, my mother knew that one night there was a crazy knock at the door at home, and when he opened the door, he was a very burly man with an unusually sharp machete in his hand, and the opening was, ** (my father's name) is at home? Today if he doesn't pay him back, he'll cut off his hand! Two thousand years and more that will be very chaotic society, this kind of usury above is generally covered, reported to the police is useless, can not manage, my mother is also forced to helpless, do not let things continue to make a big fuss out of the family spare money part of the account to pay off, that night they quarreled very fiercely, they closed the door in the room, I can not hear too much, so many years basically can not remember, should my father is outside also owe a lot of money, after this incident, my mother closed the mahjong hall, help him pay off the foreign debt My dad also had a few years of honestly not having gambled for a few years, but with the rapid development of science and technology, the gradual development of the Internet has spawned the product of online gambling, which has really hurt many people, including my dad. Originally thought that the family helped him pay off the gambling debts, have a relaxed and high-paying job, a happy family, originally a big family thought that life was slowly getting more and more moist, an envelope from the bank suing my father broke this life.
I remember that it was 2014, a mediocre day, the family received a letter, at that time the family also thought that my grandfather's hometown of Henan relatives sent over, but after opening it was indeed a letter of complaint from a certain bank, suing my father in their bank loan and has not repaid the money for many periods, this fuss almost did not send my mother away, my mother was found to have high blood pressure in 2012, no medicine before the treatment of blood pressure has been around 200, can not stand too much stimulation, That night my mother was sent to the hospital for emergency treatment, to the hospital for more than half a month to recover some state, this time my father owed money to his sister to help repay, so after this experience, he stopped for more than a year, originally we thought he was going to change completely, but he still could not hold back his inner desire, but then something happened to himself did completely change his concept
One day in 2016, my dad played cards until the middle of the night, slept in the middle of the night until half of the body suddenly felt that half of the body lost consciousness, he made a movement in a state of pain to wake up my mother, so my dad was rushed to the hospital for treatment in the middle of the night, I got up in the morning or was pulled to the hospital by my grandma to visit my dad, and when I arrived at the hospital, I learned that half of my dad's body was unconscious because there was a blockage of lipids in the blood vessels of his head, but fortunately it was not very serious. The doctor said that the cause of his disease should be a long-term irregular life. No wonder, he often after the night shift does not sleep and runs to play cards, the doctor told us that his lucky blood vessels are not completely blocked, there are many people with disordered life and rest who have this disease is the head to be operated on or directly not saved, and even the opportunity to leave a last word. My dad this is fortunate that the head does not have to operate, play the kind of drug that clears the blockage in the blood vessels and then live in the hospital for a while, during the period of his hospitalization, my mother has been taking leave to accompany him, take care of the living, he constipation can not come out My mother used Kaiselu to assist him to pull out. During his hospitalization we asked him if you would continue to obsess over gambling in the future, and as he said never again, tears of remorse flowed from his eyes. Nearly half a hundred people in the near future have left real emotional tears because of one thing, how difficult it is!
Since then, my father has never encountered this kind of gambling that forces people's lives to hang on the line, and since then he has worked seriously, lived a down-to-earth life, usually housework is now done by him, and will accompany me and my mother and mother for a walk at night. I sometimes ask him, "What do you think of a life without particular stress?" He said: "No debt life, very happy, what you want to buy and wear, food can be achieved, no longer have to live a life of unsightly as before!"
It is true that in the past, when my father was addicted to gambling, he was reluctant to buy anything he ate and wore, but as soon as he won a little money, he would take me and my mother to eat a good meal, or buy some good dishes to make at home. Now that he has successfully landed, he can live comfortably and easily in the future.
Of course, not everyone can walk out of this muddy water, my uncle's family is a typical example, my uncle used to go to Macau for a period of time every year, why go to Macau? Naturally, it is a gamble, after all, in Macau, this is a legal entertainment activity. One of the things my uncle used to say was: "Fight, bike by bike", or: "Fight a fight, four or two thousand pounds" but in the end he earned it? No, how can a gambler possibly make money? Listen to my mother said that he still owes a lot of money outside, his son now finds a girlfriend and does not dare to take home, all live outside, because my uncle has been gambling for a long time, and now his spirit is a little abnormal, it seems that he has a bit of schizophrenic symptoms, although now he has not been to Macau for a year or two, but he is still mixed in the mahjong hall every day, or uses his mobile phone to play "baccarat" This kind of gambling software, he is now old and has no ability to work, it is my aunt who works alone to provide him. It's a pity that his foundation is from the class, my uncle is a chemical engineering major at Hunan University, but unfortunately he did not embark on a good road, otherwise life would not be like this.
When I was in college, there were also many classmates who fell into the quagmire of gambling at a young age, I took the art exam in high school, but it was a pity that I was almost admitted to the desired undergraduate college and helplessly read a provincial key college, but it is said that the provincial key college actually accounts for most of the students who mix the days, and there are many high schools that have not been admitted to the secondary school to read, of course, a large part of the college people will have the vices accumulated before, like there are six or seven in our class who play cards in the dormitory. And now they send money on WeChat, and it is basically difficult to find traces of gambling. But as the saying goes, often walk by the river, where there are not wet shoes, once when they played cards, the table for playing cards was not hidden, the people who were inspected found, all were punished, I also had a classmate in the same class, the Internet gambling owed thirty thousand loans by the teacher to know, and finally the whole school reported criticism. Then I play CSGO, the skin can be freely traded, generally I want what skin to buy is to buy directly, but I a classmate, he told me what is the open box network, the explosion rate is quite high, draw to do not want to play can be sold to continue to smoke, unlike the official box to smoke what is what. I said I don't play, I don't open the official box, gamble, I'm afraid I'll hurt me. He didn't ask me later, but as soon as he drew any good things, he would tell me, I remember when he was at his best, he recharged more than 10,000 people by relying on the welfare red envelopes received on New Year's Day in 2021 to draw a gun with a market price of five thousand and two guns with a market price of about five hundred, and eight yuan to draw a knife of more than twelve hundred, 15 to more than six hundred knives, anyway, it was quite a lot, and then he did not report the results of the battle with me and then the equipment became less and less, I asked him why your equipment is getting less and less, and I don't see you making new equipment? As a result, he told me that he still owed more than 10,000 yuan in online loans. Alas, this is what man's greed is doing.
Now there is a widely circulated saying - "Man, stained with yellow, gambling, poison is almost ruined", life should be beautiful, for the sake of family happiness, gambling or do not touch it! Also for their own life to live a free, comfortable. In short, not gambling is the best way to make money, that is, the best way to give to your loved ones. Debt-free and light, I hope that all gamblers who are still in the vast fog can find the direction of the light as soon as possible, and re-reform themselves and become a bright and upright person from the beginning.
———— tell everyone that you must not be contaminated with the vice of gambling, be a good person, and if you do not gamble, it is the greatest contribution to social stability