"Age-equal, male marriage and female marriage" is in line with the social ethical relationship of the marriage and love relationship, of course, in our actual life there is no lack of some age differences in the "year-old love", everyone has different views on "year-long love", some people say that as long as it is based on love", there is no problem, and some people feel that "year-old love" is often mixed with various factors, not worth advocating.
The combination of Xiaofang and Uncle Zhang once caused quite a stir in the ten miles and eight townships.
The reason for the sensation is not how much the love story of the two people is twisted and turned, but the age gap between the two people is too large, and the "28-year-old girl marrying the 73-year-old grandfather" itself makes many people feel incredible, which makes the combination of the two people full of criticism.
The 73-year-old Uncle Zhang can be said to be the same generation as Xiaofang's grandfather, and how did Uncle Zhang, who has been poor all his life and practice medicine in the village, attract a girl who is at a wonderful age? Xiaofang said that she really married Uncle Zhang because of love, because Uncle Zhang gave her warmth when she was most helpless, and she felt that no matter her age, the other party was a good man worthy of trust.
Xiaofang's father has been sick and bedridden for many years, and Uncle Zhang, as a village doctor, often comes to help Xiaofang's father see a doctor, because the poor father in the family is still sick for a long time, and Xiaofang has taken on the burden of supporting the family at a young age, which makes her feel very insecure in her heart.
And Uncle Zhang is very caring for Xiaofang, often chatting with her, explaining her inner distress, and even giving Xiaofang some help in life, Xiaofang was touched by Uncle Zhang's long-term concern, and love sprouted between the two people.
When Xiaofang chose to marry Uncle Zhang, she still got the opposition of the people around her, but she bluntly said that she would not regret today's choice, the two people held a simple and warm wedding, and on the day of the wedding, Xiaofang felt that she had found a home for a lifetime.
At that time, after many years, Xiao Fang, who was determined to marry a man in his 40s, how is life now?
When she saw Xiaofang again, her face already had some years of wind and frost, but it was still difficult to hide the look of happiness, she said that she was very satisfied with her current life, she and Uncle Zhang also had a son after marriage, and now she mainly takes the children at home to do housework, and Uncle Zhang is still doing village doctors, and the family of three lives happily.
The story of Xiaofang and Uncle Zhang can be regarded as one of the few couples with happy endings who have "year-old love", and many men and women in our lives who are "year-old love" are often unable to enter a happy life hand in hand because of various current obstacles, which is regrettable.
Love into marriage, from the sky into the mortal world, in real life, ordinary couples still have to face the tedious chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea, "forget the year" couple if they enter the marriage, what different difficulties may they face?
1, it is difficult to go to the end of life together
Just like the combination of Xiaofang and Uncle Zhang, because of the disparity in age, it is difficult for two people to walk together through most of the road of life, if there is no accident, Uncle Zhang will die first of Xiaofang, leaving the still young child and the lonely Xiaofang to continue the remaining life path, but the pressure of life will all be pressed on these two people, often affecting the subsequent quality of life of Xiaofang and the child.
2. Affect the quality of life of the next generation
If the two are combined, the physical quality of the older party will greatly affect the innate physical health of the child because of the older party in terms of childbearing, and the probability of the next generation of healthy couples of the right age is much higher.
3, it is easy to have contradictions in life because of different concepts
After all, in actual life, if the age gap between two people is large, they will have inherent ideas and concepts because of the difference in the growth environment and the times, and when dealing with problems, they will have their own opinions because of differences in concepts, thus causing contradictions and quarrels and affecting family harmony.
"Love first" is the most important factor in the union of many men and women, but for the sake of a happy married life and the health of the next generation, we still encourage the combination of men and women of the right age, of course, for the "yearless love" should also be fully understood and blessed.