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Recently, a very good friend of mine and I had a casual conversation about our love life, and I met her husband some time ago, and I said to her, "You two don't look like a family, and you don't have any husband and wife." My friend smiled and said, "I'm really sad that you say that about me." I then said, "Just say it, don't go to your heart." ”
A friend said: "My former ex-boyfriend, he and I are in love, mutually agreeable, but it is also strange to say, the two of us live together, it began to be awkward, always so awkward, and finally separated, and then there was a boy who attracted me, but I was very scared, because I and he are not the same person." 」 It is also at this time that my current husband appeared in front of me, my two predecessors, one on the left, one on the right, and my husband is impartial, just stuck in the middle, and finally chose my current husband, there is no big wind and waves along the way, life is also stable.
I smiled and said to her, "Your choice is correct, and some of my experiences are very similar to yours." "What I hate most is the warm man who is particularly hot now, my dad is such a warm man, and the image of my dad in my eyes is a man who fights in the kitchen all day in the apron stove." In my eyes, the man should know astronomy and geography, learn to be rich in five cars, and know everything. I have also been looking for my idea like this, and no one can persuade me to jump into it.
Women's growth is rapid, when my three views began to change, in the society to learn a little skill, carry a mortgage, car loan, children are also born, I began to feel a little tired. Life thus makes a little fairy worldly and realistic. The man is actually quite sad, he is still the same him, but you are no longer the original you.
The feeling of love is not good, love is too full, it will require the other party to respond to everything, the heart is perfect, you can not see the shortcomings of the other party. Love that is not so loving can be more objective and calm, and can be more calmly accepted. When I met my current husband, a man who was very different from my ideal man, he warmed me with a hot heart, and I couldn't hear any rhetoric in his mouth, but I was serious about doing every little thing in life.
This also let me know that I am also an ordinary man, it is impossible to achieve a shocking love, and I can only grow old with this loyal and honest man. Holding hands with each other and going out for a walk, the husband and wife cook together, I cook, he comes to wash the dishes, he goes to the mall, he has a big bag, but I am holding his arm with both hands.
The love that I once liked and was willing to sacrifice everything for this has slowly gone away from me, and God has given me a happy rest of my life, not to take away all my talents. Ha ha! I don't mind people saying I'm ugly looking and that I can afford to be talented.