Love, a seemingly beautiful word, is love, is compassion, is even if the encounter should not be recognized, is invincible to a drunkenness
The so-called hot love period is mainly a kind of physical habits, thinking habits, behavior habits of the intersection, but also every couple in the process of love is the most glue-like paint, difficult to give up the stage, in this period of both sides of the dopamine secretion is exuberant, only the eyes of each other, as if falling into the honeypot.
Don't indulge
Many girls always can't hold their hearts, and they indulge in love if they are not careful. There are statements that as the time two people spend together, the love of boys declines in a counter-proportional proportion, while as a female student it rises in a positive proportion. It seems to be doomed at some tipping point where girls love more than boys. When girls feel this threat, they will feel that boys do not love themselves anymore, and begin to find various reasons to make unreasonable noise for attention, and the result will only get worse and worse. The best way is to have a little control over your love, not to spend too much time thinking about or disturbing the other person, but to learn to be independent and improve yourself.
2. Don't give unilaterally
Love requires the joint efforts of both parties, whether it is the unilateral payment or demand of either party, it is pushing the relationship into the abyss. An unequal relationship is deformed, if you want to maintain a long-term relationship, you must distinguish the division of labor between the two to a certain extent, after all, love is not your own business Love needs to be paid by both parties, whether it is unilateral payment or take by either party, it is pushing this relationship to the abyss. An unequal relationship is deformed, if you want to maintain a long-term relationship, you must distinguish the division of labor between the two to a certain extent, after all, love is not your own business.
3. Reject suspicion
This is extremely important, whether you are to him or he is to you. Don't be too nervous and sensitive to suspect the other party, such as who are you eating with if you didn't answer the phone today? Not returning to WeChat tomorrow is deliberately snubbing me? A thousand times of suspicion is better to ask him directly why and to talk about it. Similarly, many guys don't have enough delicate thoughts to pay attention to your petty temper if he asks you "Why are you angry?" "Just take a proper detour and tell him bluntly why you're unhappy, otherwise both sides will be tired."
4. Don't skimp on praise
Many girls are very accustomed to unconsciously belittling their boyfriends, but they do not know that the more you degrade, the more your boyfriend will go in the direction of your depreciation. Try to praise him more, subconsciously give him a boost, so that when he stops, he thinks of your expectations and encouragement, and can also be used as spiritual food, and then stick to it.
5. Learn to be a proper spoiler
Being strong is a good quality, but when you swallow everything, the other party may be accustomed to your concessions, and then take the sheep and constantly refresh your bottom line. Learning to be appropriately willful and spoiled, proposing your dissatisfaction to him and resolving it will not only make the relationship between the two people not dead, but also make him have a protective desire for you.
6. Don't be mourned
Keep happy, don't spit bitter water every time people, people are infectious, not to mention that two people together, both love each other deeply, he is more worried about you. But over time, everyone will be exhausted.