How much is the emphasis on education today? This can be seen in various training advertisements. Parents are particularly willing to spend money on their children's education, no matter how much, as long as the academic performance is good, they will sign up, as long as it is good for their children. I feel that I will feel at ease and ashamed to spend money on my children. Parenthood is also a conscientious duty. The rest is your child's own business, the parents have paved the way for you, and it is your business to go what you want. Successfully transferred the responsibility to the child. The child was burdened with heavy responsibilities and began to run on the road to the cram school. After this festival, catch up with the next festival, morning here afternoon there. Most of the people who run on the road on holidays are children and parents. Some don't even have time for lunch. Run, kid, if you don't run now, you will be left behind, and you can't lose at the starting line.
I'm not complaining, I'm just seeing anxiety. Not the anxiety of the child, but the anxiety of the parent. Worry about the child is not excellent, worry that the child will not be admitted to college, worry about the child's future, and perhaps worry about their own facelessness. Everyone wants to make their child their pride, is it only to have a child so that he can become a capital for themselves to show off? The answer is definitely no, when every child comes into this world, parents expect him to be healthy and happy, happy for a lifetime. But why does it turn out to be the result of letting children wander through the cram school all day? What is most important for children? Are grades really that important? What if you don't end up getting the results you want?
Life is long, and grades are important but not everything. The physical and mental health of children is worthy of our attention, and a small body may not be able to withstand so much pressure, but it is counterproductive. Parents are actually the best teachers for children, and their words and deeds are deeply rooted in their children's minds. If you want your child to be excellent, you can also make yourself excellent with your child.