A good word is warm in three winters, and a bad word hurts people in June.
Don't arbitrarily evaluate the appearance of others, it is not advisable to comment in person or behind your back.
Some people say that I laugh at myself for being ugly, because this is my own appearance, and I can evaluate it any way I want. But I don't laugh at someone else's appearance because that's someone else's thing, and I don't have the right to criticize or hate.
Being ridiculed by others for your appearance, regardless of age, self-confidence will be hit. It is worth noting that if you are ridiculed by others from a young age, it will lead to more and more inferiority from a young age, and over time you will lose self-confidence, which not only affects learning, but even affects life.
When they grow up, some people choose to move their faces, part of which may be that they do not look in line with the public aesthetics, and some of them may be because of the remarks of others, and some malicious comments on their appearance.
I know a lot of girls who have had plastic surgery, and to be honest, their original appearance is not bad, but they all choose to go to plastic surgery. As for the reasons, some are not satisfied with the appearance brought out of their mother's womb, and some are hurt by the judgment of others.
Like what:
When you are taken by a friend to meet others, your appearance will become a private talking point for others; for example, when you go on a blind date, you can't help but feel that the other party is suitable for you, and as a result, you are replied by the middleman that the blind date object dislikes your appearance; for example, when you go to interview some industries, people will reply to you, and your appearance does not meet our requirements...
You have no idea what impact your evaluation will have on others, and the person you evaluate will change dramatically in emotions and even in life because of your evaluation.
So when they return from their beauty, they go to the party every time in the most exquisite dress, and other people's talk is to praise their beauty; when they are introduced to a blind date, they are the first to refuse; even the profession they have always wanted to do is not willing to go, because their beauty is enough to find a better career...
What does this mean? It shows that when you first talk about others, you may have contempt and ridicule, but your contempt and ridicule make others better and better, and you are still stagnant.
It really confirms that sentence: Yesterday's I love to answer, today's me you can't climb high.
Some reviewers may say: I said you are for your own good, after you know your own shortcomings, try to change your shortcomings.
But looks are innate, and if you want to become beautiful, you have to pay a price, including money, pain, etc., and such a price is not something that everyone can bear.
And, have you ever thought about it? When you are evaluating others as good or bad, you may also be someone else's talking point, and you may also encounter a "look threshold", because there are many people who have an advantage over your appearance.
Have you, or the people around you, ever been judged by others? What impact has it had on you? Welcome to discuss!