"Instigated" on the hot search of Yu Huanshui
"I Am Yu Huanshui" is on fire.
Compared with the handsome and golden male protagonist image in other TV series, Yu Huanshui is not only greasy and decadent, but also instigated to the point of not being able to do it.
It was called by netizens as the first man in history to "instigate" hot searches.
How provocative is Yu Huanshui?
On a rainy day, I wanted to take a leave of absence to pick up the child, but I was scolded by my boss:
"Pick up what child, you still have a face to pick up the child, the more you live, the less personal you have heard this sentence?"
It's you guy! ”
Although it was furious, it could only be like an ostrich with its head raised high and quietly retracted, just staged an inner drama of desperately fighting back, and the clenched fist could only be silently withdrawn.
In the end, only one person can hide in the toilet, silently swallowing all the grievances.
The performance of the month is at the bottom, and the apprentices brought out by their own hands also fall into the well and ridicule everywhere:
"This man, it's okay to hurt your leg, don't hurt your brain!"
Although he didn't want to cause trouble, things could always easily find him.
Smiling at the brother-in-law's family, bowing their heads and showing kindness, they are still scorned by all kinds of ridicule;
In the company, he was bullied and excluded by his superiors and colleagues, withheld wages and fined cleaning, but he could only pretend that the clouds were light and the wind was light and he did not care;
Friends borrow money and do not pay it back, but do their best to be sarcastic, Yu Huanshui did not have the courage to resist, full of grievances can only hold the headache and cry alone.
Went to the hospital for examination, found out that he had cancer, because there was no family, the doctor did not tell him the result, alone he helplessly gave the pancake seller two hundred yuan, asked her to help as a family member, and was also angry;
Husband and wife centrifugal, friends turning faces, work is not going well, physical collapse...
Wang Xiaobo said: "Life is a slow process of being hammered. ”
Yu Huanshui, who was hit hard by the hammer of life, did not have the meaning of his name, and he was full of joy, and some of them were just sighs about life.
The embarrassment of the middle-aged man, little by little, was slowly displayed in the camera by the instigated and miserable Yu Huanshui, slowly withdrawing.
Don't laugh, you and I are Yu Huanshui
Obviously, it is a black comedy, but many people cry when they look at it.
"The character of Yu Huanshui is too real."
"Except for not having cancer, I'm the one who says it."
"Everyone laughs at Yu Huanshui, and everyone is Yu Huanshui."
Adult life always has too much involuntariness and sadness.
The more I live, the more I feel lonely and powerless.
I remember in "Little Joy", fang yuan who suffered unemployment suddenly heard that Mr. Jin Yong died and said:
"I've wanted to be a martial artist since I was a child, and the most detrimental thing to me is to be Ling Hu Chong and Yang Guo, even if it's a little worse, at least guo Jing, but how can I become Yue Yue now?"
In a word, I don't know how many people have been stabbed.
When we were young, we had dreams, about literature, about love, about traveling across the world, and now we drink late at night, and when the cups touch together, it's all the sounds of broken dreams.
I know that a netizen shared such a thing:
A middle-aged woman in her forties at a company, behind the scenes of her colleagues, called her "a working machine without emotion":
Because she never complains about the hard work of overtime, the complexity of work, never participates in any party of the company and the private, never asks for leave, and the error rate of the work is almost zero.
Although everyone was full of curiosity and admiration for her, no one could really get close to her, get to know her, she was always faint, keeping a distance from everyone.
One day, she suddenly began to miss work for no reason, and she did not answer the phone.
There was a lot of talk, and no one knew what was going on.
Two days later, the unexpected leader sent an assistant to her house to ask why, and only then did he learn:
Because of the lack of cerebral blood supply due to long-term malnutrition, her daughter lived at school and was not at home, and she died alone in the unknown.
Her daughter cried and recounted:
A few years ago, Dad was sentenced to prison for intentional injury causing serious injuries.
Her grandparents advised her to divorce and remarry, but she refused, broke off contact with her mother's family, and her former friends also alienated her.
For the sake of this broken home, she has not excluded overtime, and she is even more frugal in herself.
Three meals a day are all rice + pickles, and only on weekends when you go home will you make a few decent dishes.
Even if it is difficult, I have never told or complained to anyone even a little.
There is a saying:
"The snow that falls on a person's life, we can't see it all.
Everyone spends the winter alone in their own lives. ”
Those sudden losses, those sudden arrivals, those protracted torments are just the repetitions that you and I who live in this world have to experience day by day.
Life is hard, learn to cheer yourself up
There is a saying in "The Moon and Sixpence": "I have lived an ordinary life with all my strength." ”
Last year, Park Shu sang "Farewell" in a certain program and cried bitterly, he said:
"Sometimes I feel like life is like purgatory, it's very difficult.
But in music, even singing the saddest songs is a treat. ”
You see, no one has ever been spared by life, and no one has lived any easier life than anyone.
In our twenties, without much work experience and vast network resources, we can only work hard and wait for the day when we will get out;
In our thirties, we have to work hard to promote in the workplace, and at the same time, we have to make enough milk powder money for our children;
Forty years old, family, parents, children, mortgages, car loans, we are overwhelmed;
......
In the movie "Marley and Me", there is a scene that impressed me:
After having children, the male protagonist moved to a new home and also asked the editor-in-chief of the newspaper for a promotion and salary increase.
His wife resigned to become a full-time housewife, and life looked hopeful.
When the man drove home at night, he did not get out of the car immediately, but sat silently in the car for a long time.
Looking at the lights in the house, the expression is decadent and sluggish, dazed and fragile.
But when he finally opened the car door, his expression immediately became strong, confident and happy.
He was still the strong, reliable husband and father.
Not the one who had just sat in the car, the one who looked vulnerable.
The day before yesterday overtime until two o'clock in the morning, busy work open Weibo just happened to see @ classic famous scene bot push a topic for the # world panic, but the picture of a few pieces of silver # video:
Source: Weibo @ Classic Famous Scene Bot
The smile at the end of the video suddenly made my eyes wet.
In fact, when people reach middle age, it is not shameful to live as Yu Huanshui, and it is not shameful to be unable to do so.
Every ordinary you and me who have exhausted all their strength, every you and I who have been beaten by life and still have the responsibility and courage to maintain life, deserve to be sincerely admired.
The long road of life is always full of thorns.
But even if we fall occasionally and hurt from time to time, we will still get up and continue to walk.
Just like this uncle of a migrant worker bouncing on the street, even if life is hard and tired, he still has to find happiness for himself.
Just like this uncle from Xuzhou who was trapped in Wuhan, he spent his 60th birthday by picking up food, and when the reporter interviewed, he said:
"I miss my grandchildren and homesickness, but what I want to do most now is to lift the ban on work."
For every Yu Huanshui who has experienced the tempering of the years, although life is only forbearance, strong support and suffering.
But as long as you don't admit defeat, even if you are bitter, you will eventually usher in a desperate situation like the Yu Huan water lottery!
Even in the darkness, we must learn to look up at the stars and find strength and courage for ourselves to move forward.