People will always be in some special circumstances, special events, need to express their innocence to people, some people argue on the basis of reason, some people frankly show their comments, and some people keep silent to let time to solve the problem, but more extreme people choose the way of self-harm to show their innocence, in the end which way is the most reasonable, since some people commented, let's first look at how Cao Cao's personal doctor Ji Ping did it when he was suspected.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="2" >01 Dong Cheng suspects that Jiping is Cao Cao's secret agent</h1>
Through the method of temptation, Dong Cheng successfully gathered a group of loyal ministers who were willing to restore the Han dynasty for Kuang and intended to kill Cao Cao, in addition to Wen Chen, the military generals were Xiliang Ma Teng and Liu Bei. However, Liu Bei could not do anything under Cao Cao's eyes, and in order to strengthen his power as soon as possible, he found a suitable opportunity to leave Cao Cao. Xiliang Ma Teng was also discouraged when he saw Liu Bei leave, and followed back to Xiliang. Dong Cheng's team lacked military strength, the plot was difficult to implement at once, there was no way to help Emperor Xian of Han kill Cao Cao, Dong Cheng was in a hurry to attack the heart, and suddenly fell ill.
Ji Ping, the doctor who came to see Dong Cheng, found that Dong Cheng was not really sick, but suffered from a melancholy heart disease. Coinciding with the Lantern Festival, Dong Cheng and Ji Ping drank together to dispel their sorrows, Dong Cheng lost his words in his dream after drinking, and he leaked his mouth about his intention to kill Cao Cao, and Ji Ping knew his heart, which frightened Dong Chengzhi into a cold sweat.
But Ji Ping said: "Uncle Mo panic, although I am from the door of Cao Gong, but my heart has never forgotten the Han Room, I saw you sighing for a long time the other day, I did not dare to ask the truth, just now I heard all the words in your dream, if you have a place to use me, I will not quit." ”
Although Ji Ping spoke extremely sincerely, not at all like a treacherous and cunning word, no one dared to trust others easily in the face of such a head-killing. Dong Cheng cried bitterly and said, "I am really afraid that you were sent by Cao Cao to deliberately test me, and I dare not tell you freely." ”
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="8" >02 Yoshihira's broken finger table loyalty</h1>
In order to express his sincerity, Ji Ping did not hesitate to bite a finger and swore to heaven that he was absolutely loyal to han room. What's not to believe in being able to express one's loyalty through self-harm? If you are not a loyal person, why should you express your true heart through self-harm?
Dong Cheng completely believed Ji Ping, and he took out a blood edict to tell Ji Ping the original location of the matter. He also told Ji Ping that he had hoped that Liu Bei and Ma Teng would help him and kill Cao Cao, but they were trapped in the status quo, and they had all gone their separate ways for the time being, and the plan could not be implemented at once, so they were depressed.
When Ji Ping heard this, he smiled and said to Dong Cheng, "As it is, Uncle Guo doesn't need to worry, the matter of eradicating Cao Cao is wrapped up in me." Ji Ping said that he was Cao Cao's doctor, Cao Cao often suffered from head disease, and when he fell ill, he would look for him to treat him, as long as he poisoned Cao Cao's medicine, he could easily end Cao Cao's life, and there was no need to use a knife and a gun.
Dong Chengyi heard the great joy, this is indeed a good way, the two hit it off, just waiting for Cao Cao's head wind attack.
Ji Ping gained Dong Cheng's trust by snapping his fingers, a practice that had been used by many people. According to common sense, everyone is selfish, the body is a part of themselves, everyone will want to protect themselves from harm, if they are willing to hurt the body at a critical time to express their loyalty, others will no longer have any reason not to believe. So gaining the trust of others through this self-harm method is a very effective way. But in real life, we must not use this method indiscriminately.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="14" >03 The self-harming farce of life</h1>
There was a news on the Internet, Jiangxi Jingdezhen people Cao Mou couple on the wedding anniversary of this special day, originally the two planned to celebrate a good time, did not expect at the dinner table but each suspected that the other party had an affair, after a quarrel the two set up a gambling game, in order to show innocence, each took a kitchen knife to chop off the left ring finger, with blood to prove their innocence, if not the police arrived in time, the emotionally out-of-control Cao also tried to continue to self-harm, staged a blood-colored farce. People Ji Ping is for the sake of the country's loyalty, about the righteousness of life and death, why do these two couples make trouble like this, is it worth it?
There are many things that try to prove their true feelings through self-harm, and even death to prove innocence is not a minority. In a certain place, a neighbor claimed to have encountered an old man who fell, so he took the initiative to help him and send him to the hospital, but the old man testified that it was this person who drove a motorcycle and injured himself. The two sides argued, and a few days later, the neighbor chose to commit suicide to prove his innocence. The police confirmed that there were no traces of collisions on the motorcycle. When the truth gradually surfaced to the surface of justice, many people cursed and even cursed the old man who blackmailed people, and expressed sympathy and pity for the suicide. But the deceased can no longer save their lives, and what is the point of the late proof.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="17" >04 summary</h1>
Expressing one's true will through self-harm often has bad and serious consequences, and how to control emotions and solve it positively is worth our deep consideration.
We should understand that there are many ways to solve problems, and there is not necessarily only one way to self-harm. In order to avoid more farces and tragedies, it is necessary to cause the troublemaker not to force the other party to the desperate road, but also to be calm and steady in the encounter with the person, in addition to making the necessary statements and explanations, maintaining enough patience, time will prove everything, but give time to solve the problem.
The "Filial Piety Sutra , The Opening Of the MingYi" says, "The skin of the body, the parents who receive it, do not dare to destroy it, and the beginning of filial piety is also the beginning." "It means that the hair and skin on people's bodies are given by their parents, and if anyone damages their hair and beard, they can't live with their parents, and they will be regarded as unfilial acts." We must protect our bodies, honor our parents, and at the same time thank God for giving us the opportunity to live this life.