In life, we often see bao moms in the circle of friends, Weibo and other social software on the baby's baby, eating, drinking and sleeping, all of which are exposed to the line of sight of the network!
Seeing these baoma shaiva, most netizens will like and leave a message of blessing:
Of course, the likes or blessings of netizens may be superficial kung fu, even if they are very disgusted with Bao Ma, they will not attack Bao Ma's enthusiasm, and they want to save face for new mothers!
As a result, this has also led to more and more moms on social platforms, as if this has become an unwritten rule in the novice mom circle.
However, there is a baoma Xiewa, who has not been blessed by netizens, but has been cursed and ridiculed, the same is a Sunwa, why is she not respected? The gap is also too poignant, right?
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > Cangjing Empty Sunwa, the comment area is full of "malice"</h1>
The other day, Japanese actress Aoi Kuo posted her baby on Sina Weibo with the caption "They have a good relationship, watch TV together." ”
In the picture, two twin sons are wearing brotherly clothes watching TV on the sofa, feet next to each other, looking very close to each other!
The mood of Aoi Andi and ordinary mothers is exactly the same, that is, to share with fans the joy of being a mother and the cuteness of the baby.
For any female star, there should be a blessing under the comment area, right?
However, cangjingkong's comment area is full of "malice", and many netizens have cursed her, and even mocked her with "online film source".
Many netizens are sarcastic: Will your children go to see your movies when they grow up? Do you dare to get married and have children when you make that kind of movie?
In the face of netizens' insults, Cangjing was naturally very angry, but she did not explain and refute too much, but silently deleted those comments that "maliciously slandered" her.
Why don't these netizens let go of an ordinary mother? This is inseparable from the profession of CangjingKong.
Cangjing Kong, debuted as a swimsuit photo model, and later became a "love action film" actress, quite popular, fans gave her the nickname "Teacher Cang".
In 2010, Aoi opened Sina Weibo on his birthday, and as of 2020, he had 19.28 million fans, making him the first Japanese artist in China to break through 10 million fans.
Aoi's profession is something special, but that shouldn't be a reason for us to satirize and curse her!
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > Cangjing Should Not Be Targeted</h1>
1. Occupation does not distinguish between noble and lowly
AV actresses are legal occupations in Japan, and the profession does not distinguish between noble and lowly.
Of course, most of the mothers and dads who said this sentence did not believe it.
In life, we often see some sanitation workers, in the face of these sanitation workers, many mothers will subconsciously say to their children:
"See that sanitation worker?" If you don't study well, you'll have to do the same job with him later. ”
Bao Mom encourages children to learn, but through sanitation workers to stimulate children, this is not to set up a bad three views for children?
The same is true of AV actresses, we can not like this profession, but we must not discriminate.
Actress Miyuki Yokoyama once posted on a blog, "Although the professions are different, we are also human beings, and we also have the right to happiness!" ”
Probably, most netizens think that this profession is very easy, lying down to earn money! In fact, this profession is very competitive, every year will pour in a large number of new people, if the actress does not work hard, it will be eliminated by the market immediately.
Actress Okita Xingli once said that the high-intensity shooting caused her to be unable to get out of bed for a week, and even the most basic life could not take care of herself.
It can be seen that it is very difficult for Aoi to come to this step today, and we cannot support her, but we can maintain the minimum respect!
2. Cangjing empty retreat circle for many years
Aoi debuted in 2002, appeared in TV series, movies and variety shows in 2003, and transformed into a magazine model and film actor in 2004.
In 2017, Aoi announced her retirement from the AV actress industry, but before that, she had not shot any films for 6 consecutive years and had long been in a semi-retired state.
Cangjingkong's job is to "undress", but she has been out of the circle for many years, and she has already put her clothes back one by one, what qualifications do we have to continue to accuse her?
3. Good wife and good mother
CangJingkong was on Weibo, and netizens only saw her past, but did not see her current situation.
You know, Aoi's current profession is not an actor, but an ordinary full-time wife, an ordinary mother!
Here, The Mother wants to mention the husband of Aoi Kong, DJ NON, who is a very brave man.
After all, as cangjingkong's husband, his pressure must be very great, and he must always endure the insults and insults of the keyboard man on the Internet.
However, Tuo Ma believes that DJ Non has absolutely no regrets, and if Heaven gives him another chance to choose, he will choose Cangjing Kong.
Therefore, Aoi has expressed his gratitude to her husband DJ NON on countless occasions.
Not every man has the courage to accept her past, and only when couples truly tolerate and understand each other will they spend the rest of their lives together.
Normally speaking, after Cangjing Kong quit the circle in 2017, he still has to shoot a retirement work, the company will vigorously promote it, and money will hit a lot.
However, Aoi gave up this opportunity, which is her respect for her husband DJ NON.
Aoi is a good wife and a good mother.
In Japan, there is an unknown "five-year clause", which is the protection of this industry by Japanese law.
The clause states that after each set of adult films has been on the shelves for 5 years, or 5.5 years after each set of adult films has been completed, the starring actress can request the publishing company to remove the works that meet the conditions and stop selling.
This clause has two meanings:
(1) Women regain their new life and freedom in society;
(2) The actress will permanently withdraw from this circle and cannot come back.
Aoi used the Five-Year Clause to announce her withdrawal from the circle, telling everyone that her role is no longer an actress on the screen, but an ordinary and ordinary wife & mother.
In the Hong Kong movie "The True Colors of Heroes", the "Little Brother Ma" played by Chow Yun-fat has a line that says it well, "He has the courage to change, why don't you have the courage to accept him?" ”
Cangjing used the "Five-Year Clause" to give her children a better education and future, and since she has the courage to cut the rope between reality and the past, why don't we have the courage to accept this reality? Why do keyboard men still find fault in the comments section again and again?
Aoi once said, "I work in front of the screen to survive, and you watch in front of the screen to satisfy your desires." ”
These keyboard men may be highly self-centered people, who only look at people and things with colored glasses, who like to use the most vicious language to describe others, and who like to plant the most filthy ideas on others.
Ironically, however, they attacked the mother of an ordinary child.
Probably this is the despicable nature of human nature, even if the profession is expensive, maternal love will definitely not be expensive! Keyboard Man never saw this.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > what should we do in the face of gossip? </h1>
1. Leave it alone
The Italian poet Dante said, "Go your own way and let others say go." ”
In the face of the keyboard man's attack and sarcasm, although Aoi Was angry, did not set off a "war" in the comment area, she just silently deleted the "dirty words".
This is not an escape, nor a fear, but a mother's calm mind, and we don't have to worry about these dehumanized keyboard men.
The reason why keyboard men are called keyboard men is because they do not think from the perspective of the parties, but only hide in their own small rooms, release their suppressed emotions against the computer all day long, and only by attacking others can they get pleasure.
In the face of such people, the best way to deal with them is to ignore them.
2. Live your own life
Life is our own, not someone else's, even if others ridicule and insult, we just laugh it off!
After Cangjing Kongshai was scolded, she did not lose her courage, and on Children's Day, she continued to post on Sunwa to share her joy of being a mother.
After all, there are more good people in the world, and although there is a "miasma of black smoke" in the comment area, there are also "pure land on earth".
Mom's message
Gorky said, "Maternal love is the greatest force in the world, and without the help of selfless, self-sacrificing maternal love, the child's heart will be a desert." ”
There is a kind of "mother" called Cangjing Kong, but the low-key sunbathing baby is scolded! She has been out of the circle for many years, why don't we let go of this helpless mother?
Dear moms and dads, what do you think of Cangjing Kongshaiwa being scolded, do you think cangjing empty sunwa is really wrong? Tell us what you think!
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