The flip-flops of characters seem to be easy to write, but in fact it is difficult.
The truth of life has always been to get and regret.
I've heard this sentence:
"Life is a process of constantly choosing trade-offs.
Smart people are in the fact that they know what choices are. ”
A lifetime of busyness, some people pay attention to the appearance of the bright, some people pay attention to the inner talent is high.
We spend our whole lives looking for ways to live this life well.
Life is only 30,000 days, and the most important thing in a lifetime is nothing more than these three sentences.
Wei Wei, editor-in-chief of economic journals, said:
"Insisting on mistakes for the sake of face is the most faceless thing."
There are always some people who, when they attend the banquet, are obviously drunk as mud, but they still do not refuse to come to the wine.
As everyone knows, only you are the only one who suffers losses in this move.
In the end, the face was not preserved, and the health was gone.
After the writer Mo Yan became famous, every time he returned to his hometown, there was always an endless banquet.
At the banquet, it is inevitable to be persuaded to drink.
Mo Yan's mother was worried about his body and advised him not to get drunk, just order until the end.
But Mo Yan could not wipe his face, he felt that if he did not drink, his face could not hang, so even if he was drunk, he had to drink it.
Eventually, he got drunk every time and was helped home.
Once, Mo Yan and his brothers drank wine, drank more than forty glasses of liquor, and more than a dozen beers.
The next day, Mo Yan, who was not yet drunk, went to visit the distillery and drank half a scoop of hot wine.
At noon, I couldn't stand the repeated invitations of others, and then I accompanied the reporter to drink more than a dozen drinks.
That afternoon, Mo Yan couldn't help but lie down.
Several friends saw it, anxious, quickly sent him to the hospital, and it was a hanging needle, and it was vomiting, and the rescue was most of the day, and finally there was no danger and saved his life.
This drunkenness caused Great harm to Mo Yan's body.
After that, he smelled the wine disgusting, and he was much more cautious about drinking.
Yishu said:
"Face is the hardest thing a person can put down, and it is also the most useless thing."
I am used to drinking for face and friendship, but I don't know that true friendship never needs to be maintained by drinking.
"The reason why people are tired is because they can't put down the shelf, can't tear open their faces, and can't untie their complexes."
For the sake of face, drinking and collapsing the body is really not worth the loss.
Yu Hua wrote in "Alive":
"Man lives for the sake of being alive itself, not for anything other than being alive."
Letting go of the senseless face and taking care of the body is the first priority in life.
The Book of Rites says:
"Those who have deep love will have harmony, those who have harmony will have pleasure, and those who have pleasure will have grace."
Face, not only refers to a person's appearance, but also the presentation of a person's inner world.
Some people have clear eyebrows, but they are annoying;
Some people are unremarkable, but they are very popular.
Everyone wants to have a beautiful face, but in fact, what is more important than looks is your heart.
I once saw such a story on the Internet:
A young female model went to a plastic surgery hospital for a facelift.
The doctor saw that her facial features were exquisite and very good-looking, so he asked her why she had plastic surgery.
The model replied that her recent career had been repeatedly blocked, and she thought that she might come to plastic surgery because she was not beautiful enough.
In fact, recently the model was upset due to a sudden change in the family;
Because of the intrigue in the workplace, full of resentment.
The model is immersed in such negative energy all day long, and her face naturally becomes vicious, and others dare not come close.
The Sutra of Impermanence says:
"There is a mind without a phase, and it is born with the heart; there is a phase without a heart, and it is destroyed with the heart."
A person's appearance will change with the thought of good and evil.
No matter how delicate the face is, it will become ugly due to hostility;
Even ordinary facial features will become beautiful due to harmony.
The face is determined by the heart, and the grievances and resentment in our hearts will eventually be reflected on the face.
If you are positive and optimistic, you will have the appearance of a bodhisattva;
If you complain, you will be fierce and evil.
Wang Guozhen said:
"If you are not happy enough, don't lock your brows deeply, life is short, why do you cultivate bitterness?" 」
Thinking too much, the heart gets tired.
Instead of indulging in irrevocable pain, it is better to let go of the resentment in your heart and pursue tangible happiness.
The troubles are lost, and only then is there a light cloud and a light wind;
When the heart is happy, there is a radiant face.
Gorky said:
"If you take the road of integrity and honesty, you will have a home with a clear conscience."
There are countless disturbances in the world, and only character is the foundation of the world.
When I was young, I watched "The Legend of the Archery Hero", and I always felt sorry for Yang Kang, and I was born with a good hand of cards, but I played a mess.
On the contrary, Guo Jing, who was regarded as a stupid boy, not only embraced the beauty, but also became a generation of heroes.
Now it is understood that Yang Kang's fate has been laid down as early as the beginning.
Yang Kang knew that his adoptive father was his father's enemy, but he confessed to being a thief for the sake of glory and wealth, and even betrayed the country to seek glory, and his character was extremely poor.
In a hypocritical manner, he deceived the people around him and designed to kill Guo Jing's six masters.
Although Guo Jing repeatedly advised him, hoping that he would get lost and return to the right path, he insisted on going his own way and did not want to repent.
In the end, he died tragically in the Iron Gun Temple, and he also got the retribution he deserved.
On the other hand, Guo Jing, although he appears silly on the surface, is kind in heart, respects teachers and values the Tao, and also has the feeling of home and country.
He is single-minded in his treatment of love;
He treats the division commander with great respect;
He treats his enemies with envy and hatred.
His integrity and generosity won him the love and teaching of martial arts by many martial arts predecessors, and he also learned a martial art, and eventually became a generation of heroes to defend the country.
Writer Shi Chenjin said:
"It is better to be ashamed of things than to be ashamed of yourself;
It is better to be ashamed of one's own conscience than to be ashamed of one's own conscience. ”
Be a man, bright and upright;
Do things without shame.
Even after going through hardships, he will still use his character to spell out a world for himself.
Whoever has better luck than anyone else, but the more people who have accumulated, the more blessings they have.
If you choose to be a shrewd egoist, you will naturally get the disgust and cold eyes of others.
You choose to be a generous altruist, and the natural reward is the favor and feedback of others.
Ability is important, but more important than ability is character.
Only when we have both moral integrity and ability will we be able to forge a wide range of good relations, and the road of life can become wider and wider.
Ostrovsky said:
A person's life should be spent like this:
When he recalls the past, he will not regret his wasted years, nor will he be ashamed of his past inaction.
In the face of the cup on the wine table, the smartest means is not to be strong, but to admit it.
After all, there is no wine game that is worth fighting with your life.
Instead of pursuing the ultimate perfection in appearance, it is better to strive to cultivate the inner disposition.
Everything in the world is against the current, the heart is settled, and life is complete.
Character is the internal strength, ability is the move, only the internal strength is deep, the move to assist, life can be the icing on the cake.
However, the character is not good, and no matter how strong the ability, it is also in vain.
Wu Zhe said in "The Wild":
"As an experience, people live a lifetime, there will always be many experiences, and all kinds of experiences are proof that you have lived." 」
Looking back on the past, there are mixed joys and sorrows, and the five tastes are mixed.
However, instead of regretting and being ashamed of the past, it is better to take advantage of this moment to live out oneself.
The road ahead is long, the galaxy is long, may you achieve your ideals, and tender the years.
Author | Kaleidoscope, because of the effort, the effect of the fate, a long-term ism.
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