In real life, people who are ruled by materialism and slaves abound, and it is easy to pick up a dustpan with a dustpan and a casual pinch in the crowd. This may have a certain relationship with the fact that social development is in the ascending stage, there is no sense of security in the heart, and materialism will bring certain satisfaction and stability to people's inner world.
I once read an article that said: Human nature is not hostile to materialism, which may be related to the degree of civilization of social development. Everyone will have a small corner inside, which contains a small beast called "materialism", which will run out from time to time to harass you, and take advantage of your defenselessness to catch you off guard.
Everyone has material desires, and no one is higher than anyone else, but it is only big and small. If materialism is rampant, it is likely to cause famine, but if you have to fight with the little beast called "materialism" every day, will you feel very tired? Will life be messed up because of this?
In fact, everyone has a lot of beauty that does not cost money, and it is also a kind of happiness to be able to hold these beautiful things that do not cost money in their hands. For example, going to your parents' house on the weekend to eat and drink and rub love, talking to your parents about the troubles in your heart, complaining, and appropriately expressing the need for their love, this is not a kind of happiness. Taking a walk in the community with your lover and children after dinner can not only increase emotional interaction, but also see the sunset, which is not a kind of happiness. When you have nothing to do, go climb the mountains, look at the sea, and walk in the forest. It is not a kind of happiness to be able to breathe the free oxygen in the natural oxygen bar and be able to exercise?
There are many happinesss that do not cost money, the sunshine that shines on us every day does not cost money, the air breathed every day does not need to cost money, the beautiful scenery seen every day does not need to cost money, the wind and rain dew do not need to spend money, the love of relatives does not need to spend money, the care of friends does not need to spend money, and the friendly and warm eyes cast by strangers do not need to spend money...
The happiness of not spending money is too much, but it is ignored when we are in a hurry to chase the little beast of materialism. When, when the pace of our catch-up is slow, life itself has more space beyond material desires, the eyes are clear, and the desires are simple, will we really approach happiness.
The best things in life are free, and as long as we have a pair of eyes that are good at catching, we will be able to discover those subtle and trivial little beauty in life. A flower, a leaf, or even a small ant can bring endless fun to our lives.
The happiness of not spending money is more real, more grounded, and the constancy is strong, it is there, as long as you have the needs you can take it yourself, do not need to force yourself, do not need to please others, down-to-earth in life, not long look forward to Shu, not the clouds, restore the essence of life, leave more space for the soul, cherish those who do not have to spend money, free of beauty.
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