When you succeed, every word you say is a golden word; when you fail, every word you say is nonsense.
When people speak softly, they also have nothing, they will always be treated as air, bullied, no one cares about your feelings, your voice, no one cares; what you say, just talk to yourself, there is no sense of existence.
When a person is at a low level, people are light-spoken, humble, and often not valued, at this time, remember not to be too upset, competitive, too excited, first of all, there must be a heart if not moving, the wind can not help the generosity, people do not speak lightly, humble and unreasonable.
In this hard world, life is really hard, the sky does not cross people, people cross themselves, when we are soft-spoken and at the trough of life, we must know how to save ourselves.
Knowing yourself self-awarely, enduring loneliness, and being wronged, you can survive the most humble time.
As the old saying goes, those who know others are wise, and those who know themselves are wise.
On the road of life, it is not enough to live only by talent, we must be able to withstand grievances and withstand blows; we must understand: words are not advised, do not make friends; humble do not speak of reason, do not express attitude, this is a kind of wisdom, but also self-protection.
When people are poor, they have no friends, let alone try to make friends, maybe you just want to make friends, but the other party will not think so, they will think that you have other plans, purpose, utilitarianism; and they will also have a kind of high psychology, as if you climbed his relationship.
Instead of such a humble, it is better for a person to silently carry off the pain of life, not to pour out, not to seek sympathy, and to live his own life, because there are always some roads that need to be walked by a person.
When a person is at the bottom and is temporarily humble, he must understand that silence is golden.
For the right and wrong of the reason, the short gossip in the parents, it is best not to listen to the quiet, the eyes are not bothered, the heart is not worried, do not actively express their own ideas, to invite unnecessary harm to themselves.
Poor people have poor people's thoughts, rich people have rich people's rules, different levels of life, often the thinking will be very different, your explanation may be correct, but in the eyes of people in different worlds, it is a joke.
When people speak softly, they must have enough self-knowledge, no matter how many people see cold and warm feelings, people's hearts are cold and thin, they must accept it calmly, quietly cultivate themselves, with the great motivation given by cruel reality, endure loneliness, bear grievances, quietly enrich themselves, hone their will and resilience all the way, and survive the past, they are the winners in life.
Self-aware people, know how to reflect on themselves, will not be confused by the outside world, understand that they have a few brushes, a few pounds and a few pairs, will not be too flaunted to show off their own possessions, such people are more likely to succeed, one day will be a blockbuster.
To deal with people, we must learn to be harmonious.
"Insight into all things is learning, and human emotions are articles."
If a person wants to stand in the world, he must be calm when he is proud, confused, and sober, only in this way can he stand firmly in the world.
When you are nothing, when people are light-spoken, you must study with a good open mind, do not go to The Gong to dance a big knife, play a big axe at the door of LuBan, and do not measure up.
Being a harmonious person is not sophisticated, not mediocre, not incompetent, but a kind of wisdom and foolish integration, being kind to people, and facing the unsatisfactory life with a peaceful attitude.
More effort, less complaints; more low-key, less publicity; open-minded on the outside, calm on the inside, humane and not pretentious, loyal and not hypocritical, constantly get praise and respect from others, and expand their good interpersonal relationships.
With such a mentality, you can not only protect yourself, integrate into society, and live in harmony with others, but also allow yourself to secretly accumulate strength and move forward in a low-key manner; you know, this society does not need people who are full of thorns, but smart people who need to put away the edges and corners, not only can be open-minded and generous in humility, not humble life, but also in the success, not arrogant, not arrogant, not arrogant.
If you want to be strong, you should look at things from the big picture, and your body should be soft; start small, and the means should be hard.
Once young, dreaming of fighting the sword to go to the end of the world, full of pride, chivalrous and courageous, this is a pursuit, but if you want to achieve it, you must step on the ground and practice in practical action.
People who are impetuous in doing things always have low eyesight, always want to start to do big things, make big money, realize big dreams, disdain to do small things, make small money, and are unwilling to put their feet on the ground.
You know, you are a small person, feel your own ability to poke the sky, but always have talent, it is because talent can not support your dreams, so we must know to do everything in life, seemingly simple and repetitive and complicated things, in order to step by step towards a higher stage of life.
In this tough world, if you don't want to be bumped into a hard injury, you must learn to soften your body and do things, not to yield, but to think about the interests of the overall situation; the means of doing things must be hard, not treacherous, but to do small things well and lay a solid foundation for achieving the overall goal.
If a person can harden when it is hard and soften when it is soft, it is a kind of wisdom and a kind of maturity.
When people speak softly, you must do these three things well, and you will become more and more powerful.