It turned out that even Peng Yuyan could not be forgiven

I don't know if you have watched "The First Incense"?

Zhang Ailingsu, the author of "The First Incense", in the name of describing love, the twists and turns between men and women have become frame-by-frame movies in her pen. Her articles are extremely stylized, and many people clap their hands and applaud the impressions of direct writing, exquisite metaphors, and flowery rhetoric.

The same is true of "The First Burning Incense", which depicts a large number of words in the pre-war British Hong Kong, and the Shanghai girl Ge Weilong, who is not deeply involved in the world, defects to her aunt Mrs. Leung. Under the temptation of lust, lust, and things, she gradually fell and sank.

But today I won't talk about how the movie was made, let's talk about the film reviews I saw.

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Some people say that this film review is better than the movie; some people say that this is a collection of quotes from scumbags; some people say that although the movie is average, it really cries because of the lines.

Let's talk about those scumbag lines in "The First Incense".

You are also suffering, and I am also suffering; it is better that you let me go, and I will let you go

I can't give you marriage, I can't give you love, but I can give you happiness

You are a good girl and should not waste your youth on me, because I don't want to delay you

Why should I lie to you, you will lie to yourself anyway.

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Between these lines, a scumbag who "does not take the initiative, does not take responsibility, does not refuse" appears alive. This is Zhang Ailing's direct impression of the scumbag in the line, and it is the first impression of many people on the scumbag, which successfully evokes the memory of many people being scum.

Many people look at the scumbag played by Peng Yuyan in "The First Burning Incense", look at the fist is hard, many people say that even if the other party is Peng Yuyan, the scum is scum, and it cannot be forgiven.

It turned out that Peng Yuyan would also have times when he would not be forgiven.

To put it bluntly, the novel "The First Burning Incense" is the story of a female college student who falls in love with a scumbag and becomes a girlfriend. Earn money for scumbags, sell your flesh for the love in your heart.

Although many people say that "The First Incense" was not filmed well, under this story, it still poked at the pain points of many people.

After all, who did not like scumbags in their youth, many people saw in Ge Weilong that they had put themselves at the bottom of the valley for love and sought perfection. "I'm obviously trying very hard, why still don't he like me" "What do I have to do to make him love me more?" "Why is it that when girls are scum, they are always in a willing mood?" Some people even think of the experience of Meng Meiqi a while ago, "knowing three when three", for this reason, they also borrowed a sentence from Yang Kasa to ridicule: "Those girls who are much better than me, their boyfriends, I can't even look up" So far, many people can't understand why there are still girls who like scumbags. Obviously know that the other party is not good, but still hesitate, and even hope for the other party, and always stay in place. / To put it bluntly, I still can't help it. Because I like it too much, I can't let go. Whenever those girls who are deeply trapped in the emotional swamp make up their minds to leave, the scumbag will always say all the good things, saying that he will change, saying that he is sorry for the other party, saying that he did not realize how important the other party is in his heart... They're lying to you, and you're shaken. Because I like the other party, because of some words from the other party, I easily put down the weapon I was holding in my hand, and even put down the armor until I lost myself. But forgiveness again and again, waiting for betrayal again and again. Every time I feel guilty, every time I apologize, every time I say that I won't do it next time, but there will always be a next time. He makes you think you're special, but in action you're still like that, treating you like a mustard.

From the film review of "First Incense", I saw girls who had encountered similar things, and they wrote down their experiences and questions in the comment area, and every word pointed to a point. Why doesn't he love me.

To be honest, I'm very upset with these girls. A good person, because of a relationship to lose themselves. Some people harshly accuse this is the love brain, this is for love first, etc... But to be honest, there's not much point in criticizing them now. If they understand what they are doing, they will most likely not do it, precisely because no one has told them "how it should be" before, they do not know "how", they will be used by others again and again. / Speaking of which, I would like to give some small advice: 1. Self-love is calm, and then love others. We must first learn self-love, learn to pay attention to our feelings, and learn to pay attention to our emotions. If you feel uncomfortable, you should understand that you are in a state of injury. 2. When things are undecided, ask others for advice. As a photography & emotion blogger, I often receive some emotional questions. From arguing with couples to finding out that the other party is cheating, and so on, I have encountered problems such as this; and even before, there was a boy who had a fight with the other party because he knew that his girlfriend always read my tweets, and ran to add me to chase my girlfriend back

Many people may think that this is a bit of a fuss, but it is actually true.

Horizontally, it is a peak on the side of the ridge, and the height of the distance is different. When you are in an intimate relationship, you may not be able to objectively examine the relationship and the situation you are in. At this time, you need to ask questions outward, "ask for help" outward, and assist yourself in setting your own position.

Ask a friend, ask a netizen, ask me, you can.

3. When the break is continuous, it is chaotic.

When you have determined that you are enduring harm and the other party does not like you, you must learn to stop the loss in time.

Feelings are not like doing test papers, there is no standard answer, but all feelings should not be premised on hurting themselves. The person who loves you will not be willing to make you sad; in the same way, the person who makes you bend the law may not really love you.