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There are still about half a month before the start of the university, and many students are eager to escape back to school. Because their parents arranged a number of blind dates during the winter vacation, they have been overwhelmed.
The Spring Festival has just passed, but the blind date has not stopped, do not underestimate the combat effectiveness of the parents, a girl in xiasha was arranged by her parents for 8 blind dates in 10 days, and even shouted "can't afford to hurt".
According to the latest data from the State Civil Affairs Bureau, there are currently more than 200 million single adults in China, of which 140 million are unmarried, and the age group of 20-24 is the largest, with 83.2 million. During the Spring Festival, the people who most feel the pressure of "blind date" are mainly distributed in the north, Shanghai, Guangzhou, and Shenzhen according to the city ranking, and the ranking by province is mainly distributed in East China and South China, and Zhejiang ranks first.
8 blind dates in 10 days, and various types of men take turns
The male god's appearance is explosive, and he is not speculative or disturbed
Xiao Meng (pseudonym), 21 years old this year, is a junior girl majoring in Chinese of a high school in Xiasha, and as soon as she returned to her hometown of Wenzhou during this winter vacation, she was arranged by her parents to have 8 blind dates. His parents did not want Xiao Meng to marry a foreigner, so they asked relatives to help find high-quality men working in Hangzhou.
The first blind date boy has a good appearance, 1 meter 85 tall, a straight nose, and a sportswear is particularly energetic. At first sight, Xiao Meng almost fell in love at first sight, but unfortunately found that the words were not speculative.
"He is a primary school physical education teacher, and in addition to his knowledge of sports, he also has a hobby of playing games." Xiao Meng said that ten sentences do not leave the game, she can hardly melt into it, "the two can't talk about ideas."
Without a common language, no matter how high the appearance value is, it is difficult to impress Xiao Meng's heart. After the failure of the first blind date, the parents immediately found a "financial man" for Xiao Meng the next day, afraid that the daughter and the other party did not have a common language, this time the parents aimed at the current young people's dating methods, so that the 4-year-old "financial man" of the big and small Meng first added her WeChat signal, so that Xiao Meng, who was keen on WeChat dating, did not refuse.
This "financial man" is an account manager of a bank in Hangzhou, with a wealthy family and a lot of social experience after working for 3 years. After two days of WeChat interaction, the two felt that they were still quite close, so they met up.
"The gap between online and offline is not generally small, the photo looks quite mental, but I am very old, saying that I am 4 years older than me, but the hair on my head is pitifully small." As soon as the real person saw it, Xiao Meng thought of the phrase that is often said on the Internet: "See the light and die!" ”
The appearance of Xiao Meng's impression of the "financial man" is greatly reduced, but the "financial man" is still considerate, and will help Xiao Meng pull out the chair before eating, and after she sits down, she will go to the opposite side to sit down and start ordering.
Even if there is something to talk about, Xiao Meng still refuses, "I don't want to find a boyfriend who looks like dad." ”
Although blind dates have failed repeatedly, Xiao Meng's parents have not given up, and they still recognize the role of blind dates in making friends: "This is different from the ancient 'blind marriage and dumb marriage', and more blind dates can always find the right one." ”
In this way, the parents arranged one blind date after another for Xiao Meng, from Chinese New Year's Eve to the ninth day, one a day, 8 blind dates in 10 days.
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(Source: Xinhua Net, Qianjiang Evening News, Volkswagen Network)
From the sophomore year to the senior year, every Spring Festival is a blind date
After three years of seeing more than a dozen, I felt numb
Accounting senior Student Rou Rou (pseudonym) is 22 years old, tall and long-haired, and her big eyes are particularly charming. Talking about her experience of being "blind dated", she is both helpless and eager to gain.
As early as her sophomore year, her mother put down harsh words: if she couldn't find a boyfriend before graduation, she didn't have to go home. So, she went from sophomore year to senior year, and there were no less than 10 blind dates before and after.
"You can see that you don't have to worry about getting married, but my parents are very anxious, saying that the boys in college are not suitable for me, and I should find someone older than me." 」 Rourou said that during the winter vacation of her sophomore year, her parents fooled her to go to a restaurant to eat, and the result was to arrange for her to go on a blind date with her colleague's cousin.
Before leaving, my parents also told me to wear soft makeup and dress appropriately. At this time, Rourou realized that "there is a game in the meal" and knew that she was going on a blind date, and she frowned at once.
Seeing that Rou Rou was not happy, her mother immediately began to introduce the man: "Zhejiang University master, 5 years older than you, a civil servant in Hangzhou, an only child, and his parents are also dual workers, fresh and refreshing." ”
At the dinner table, parents on both sides grinned, constantly praising each other's children for their beauty and ability, and not forgetting to create chat topics, which made the two people more embarrassed.
The two people added WeChat after dinner, but there was not much common topic: "He is a 'silent man', more mature, always talking about learning and professionalism, maybe only suitable for being a brother." ”
The first blind date failed, and the parents did not give up. Later, a neighbor introduced, this time Rou Rou has experience, if there is no intention, please rescue the soldier telephone rescue, "as long as it looks inappropriate, I immediately WeChat cousin, let the cousin call I said that there is something at home, leave the scene." ”
However, the "oolong" is that after seeing the man, the other party is more ignorant than rourou. The other party did not know that he had come to go on a blind date this time, and it turned out that he had been "tricked" by his family to eat. Although the other party later figured out that it was a blind date, because of the similar age, it was quite talkative.
But after eating a meal, RouRou no longer intends to contact this boy, "This boy is a 'mother treasure man', not only does he have no opinion on ordering food, he can't even decide what movie to watch, and he has to call his mother." "Rou Rou especially can't stand boys with weak personalities.
For college students blind date, the reporter launched a discussion, 30 of the 50 college students expressed a preference for traditional blind date. There are also many post-95 college students who join the blind date army in advance under the arrangement of their parents, and most of the "blind dates" are girls.
"After more than ten years of meeting, the front is indeed a little numb, the parents are anxious, and I am also anxious." Mom always said that no matter how beautiful a woman is, once she goes downhill after the age of 25, there may not be much market. RouRou summed up three years of blind date experience and said, "A good man with talent and high appearance is absolutely sought-after, taking advantage of the fact that he is young and has capital now to seize that fate, and if he can't catch it, he will have to work hard." ”
Yesterday, the reporter contacted Rou Rou's mother, who believes that blind dates are just a chance for children to find a chance to meet friends. "No matter how good a woman's conditions are, age will become a big restriction, which is why I want my daughter to find a partner early."
Recently, a man actually wanted to pay back the blind date, and it turned out that after the two of them talked for a month, they found that the woman stepped on multiple boats and made an agreement to repay the blind date, and it was accurate to a box of chestnut puff pastry.
The woman deliberately arrived 3 hours late to test the blind date man and turned his face on the spot
In order to test the sincerity of the blind date, the girl stood outside the café and silently observed for 3 hours before appearing. Yesterday, at a blind date party in Hankou, Mr. Ma told reporters about his strange blind date experience.
Mr. Ma is 29 years old and works for a securities company in Hankou. During the National Day, he was on a blind date with a female high school teacher.
On the evening of the 3rd, the two met at a restaurant on Jianghan Road, and Mr. Ma waited at the designated place early, but the girl did not appear.
After 3 hours of the agreed time, Mr. Ma was ready to pay the bill and leave, and the girl was late.
Men and women dating in the café
"I can't wait for 3 hours, how to show your sincerity?" The girl said that she had already come and had been observing Mr. Ma across the road. Upon hearing this, Mr. Ma turned his face on the spot: "I can't serve such a 'princess'." ”
Men eat on blind dates and suspect that women are ugly and flee the single halfway
In March this year, Changchun man Zhang Mou applied for marriage online, and a 23-year-old woman Li Mou went to apply for a bid after seeing it. After the two met, Zhang was not satisfied with Li's appearance and decided to kill the woman.
After the two went to a dog meat shop, Zhang Mou evaded the order halfway, which made Li Mou, who did not bring money, very embarrassed, and finally the police helped settle the bill.
The man asked the steak girl to call a family of seven
Hunan man Xiao Yang invited the woman to dinner when he was dating, and came to the steakhouse that was scheduled, and the girl looked good, sitting next to her parents.
During the meal, the girl answered a few phone calls, and soon a couple with a small child came, and the girl introduced her brother's family of three, so she ordered three more steaks.
It wasn't long before the girl answered the phone again, and then her brother came and ordered another steak.
In the end, Xiao Yang invited the other family to eat steaks for seven, and the wallet was empty when paying the bill.
Mr. Wu, who is over 50 years old, asked someone to introduce the blind date and made an appointment with Ms. Xu, who had divorced, to meet and eat at a tea restaurant in Jiangbei Street.
However, after a meal, neither side looked at each other. Just when the two were ready to pay the bill after the meal, the problem came. Neither Mr. Wu nor Ms. Xu was willing to pay the money.
Mr. Wu said that the dish was ordered by the woman, and it was also eaten by the woman, but he did not eat it himself, and the meal should be paid for by the woman. Ms. Xu said that the man should pay for inviting someone to drink tea and dinner. The two quarreled, and the waiter called the police after the persuasion was fruitless.
The man refused to pay for the meal when he was on a blind date: the dish was ordered by the woman and she ate it
The meal cost a total of 105 yuan. Under the mediation of the police, the tea restaurant exempted the two people by 5 yuan, and the remaining money was paid by half by each side, and the farce was able to end.
The first time the blind date meets the girl points shark fin and the boy pulls his leg and leaves
Xiaohua, graduated with a bachelor's degree, works in a public institution in Jiyuan City. Her blind date, Xiao Wang, works for another public institution in the city. The two are similar in age, with the same education and work, and after understanding each other's basic situation, the two meet in a café.
When they first met, Xiaohua was 40 minutes late and took a seat nearly 12 noon. Xiao Wang handed over the menu, and she was not polite, ordering shark fin soup, steak, pizza, and salad.
But before the dishes were ready, Xiao Wang got up from his seat and walked away quickly without turning his head.
Seeing the boy leave the table, Xiaohua was stunned. She said she wasn't a money-spender and ordered shark fin soup to test his sincerity.
Why did he go? Afterwards, it was learned that Xiao Wang was frightened by the shark fin of the small flower point that day: "The first time we meet for dinner, I order shark fin soup, can I not leave?" ”
South Korean men have been repeatedly rejected for being too beautiful to be blind dates
In the process of finding a partner, it has always been only too ugly to be disliked, have you ever heard of being too beautiful and rejected by the woman?
According to South Korean media reports, in the South Korean KBS Second Radio variety show "Big National Talk Show "Hello"", a South Korean man with a feminine appearance spat bitter water to attract attention.
The moment the South Korean man stepped onto stage, the host was amazed by his slender eyebrows, feminine red lips and sleek chin line. As for the Korean girl group T-ara member Xian Yinjing, he couldn't help but sigh: "I am so envious! ”
When the man talked about his unforgettable past, he said that every blind date ended in failure, and when he went to the public bathroom, he would scare others.
The host tweeted, "Isn't it popular for beautiful men lately?" To this question, the man replied, "When I met the woman, the other party said that I was more beautiful than her, and dumped me." Sometimes I'm still considered a lesbian."
this...... It turns out that being too beautiful will become a sin.
Photo courtesy of the interviewee of Mr. Yang's leave slip
Post-90s guys and colleagues mostly take leave for men to "go home for blind dates" and are criticized in seconds
Recently, Weibo netizen "Samsung Brother Takes You Flying" posted a leave note, and the reason for the leave was "going home for a blind date". Such a simple and rude request made netizens both sad and helpless.
Netizen "Samsung brother takes you to fly" said in Weibo, "My friend is really forced to be helpless, but his company is very humane"! The reporter learned that the leave was his friend Mr. Yang, 22 years old, from Chongqing, currently working in Guizhou. Yesterday, Mr. Yang told reporters that he was engaged in the technical work of wind power generation, the working environment was relatively special, almost all around were male colleagues, and the family was tight, this time arranged a blind date, so he took leave to go home.
Although it is the first blind date, Xiao Yang after 90 is still a little helpless, "The fake note is only to explain the facts, and it is better to confess the reason." He said that after the leader asked about the situation, he approved the leave, which was approved according to the leave. Worried about the impact on his work, Mr. Yang refused to interview his unit. However, his good friend Mr. Wu confirmed the authenticity of Mr. Yang's false statement from the side.
Nowadays, there are more and more simple and direct leave slips and resignation letters, and the reporter investigated some companies in Chongqing and learned that if employees have similar requests, they will be considered from the perspective of humanized management.
In this regard, Zhao Zhengxin, a human resources expert at the Chongqing Marketing Department of Zhaolian Recruitment, said that according to the provisions of the Labor Law and other relevant laws and regulations, vacation can be divided into statutory holidays, family leave, personal leave, paid annual leave, etc. Zhengxin said that many fake notes are now written "explicitly", which is not a bad thing, which makes it easier for enterprises to understand their dynamics and let enterprises know the mental thoughts and actual needs of employees. As long as it is a false note with a reason, the humanized treatment of the enterprise is easier to improve the sense of belonging of employees and improve the loyalty of employees.