In a person's life, there will always be all kinds of things that do not belong to you, love that does not belong to you, not because you do not have courage, nor because you do not care, but you know clearly in your heart that the result of forced demand can only be mutual pain! And the last thing you want is to see him in pain, so you'd rather choose to bear it alone! Although you can't say love, it is a great happiness to be able to watch him happy, although you can't be together, but putting him in your heart is the greatest satisfaction!
Like can be unbridled, but love is restraint! Confession is often easy to get things done, and it is enough to say, but it is difficult to stick to it. Everyone understands that love should be spoken out loud, but the other party does not love you, or already has a heart, or has a family, then why should you be strong and difficult, and turn the beauty into bitterness! It is indeed your freedom to love whomever you want, but it is not your right to get whom! If you do whatever it takes to get it, it's not love, it's possession!
Selfish people will not understand the beauty of selflessness, and the beloved will not understand the dilemma of loving others! Some people love people all their lives but have never been loved and received! Some people have been pampered all their lives but have not really loved and paid! This is a crippled life, but most people experience loving and being loved. You'll find that giving inspires your love more than taking! Sometimes getting it is not so important, and whether the person you love is happy or not is the original intention of your love!
The happiness of life lies in whether the person you love is happy or not, not whether you are happy or unhappy! The wisdom of life lies in whether you have won what you should have fought for and given up what you have given up!