Men have a good mouth to quickly have a place in society, talking men, often can give people a sense of confidence, and have good environmental adaptability, can let people discover you and understand you through their own eloquence; a flexible man with various speaking skills has an incredible power, can unite people's hearts, control the situation, and then open the door to success.
Men can talk, which is a manifestation of ability
Men at the beginning of their involvement in the world can talk, which is the golden key to open the door to success.
Being able to speak is a demonstration of a man's wisdom, ability to succeed and a good attitude towards life. In today's increasingly competitive world, men in their twenties should gain a foothold in society, in addition to having the knowledge and skills necessary to participate in competition and meet challenges, proper speaking skills and excellent eloquence will undoubtedly help you occupy a foothold conducive to development and become your weight towards success.
The role of being able to speak is all-encompassing. In life, it can help you open the door to talking with people, exchanging feelings, and closing the door, so as to develop long-lasting friendships and win loyal love; when your relationship with others is flawed, it is a healing elixir to repair scars and heal the soul. As the Egyptian proverb says, "It is eloquence that makes you eloquent and gain the upper hand." ”
After the victory of the War of Resistance Against Japan, Zhang Daqian returned to his hometown in Sichuan from Shanghai. Before leaving, his friend set up a banquet for him and invited Mei Lanfang and others to accompany him. At the beginning of the banquet, Zhang Daqian was invited to the seat by everyone. Zhang Daqian said humorously: "Mr. Mei is a gentleman and should sit on the seat; I am a villain, and I should accompany the last seat." Mei Lanfang and everyone did not understand Zhang Daqian's meaning. Then Zhang Daqian explained: "Isn't there a saying that 'a gentleman moves his mouth, a villain moves'?" Mr. Mei sang this move is the mouth, and I painted with the hand, I should invite Mr. Mei to sit on the seat. After listening, everyone laughed at Zhang Daqian's humor and invited two people to sit side by side at the same time.
The famous painter Zhang Daqian calls himself a "villain", from the surface, it seems to be self-deprecating, but in fact, it is "drunkard's intention is not to drink", which is actually a respect for Mr. Mei, showing Zhang Daqian's humility and modest virtues, and creating a relaxed and harmonious atmosphere of conversation. It can be seen that men should be able to speak, especially in interpersonal communication, a humorous and decent sentence can often create unexpected opportunities and gradually play a multiplier effect.
Whether or not he can speak has always been an important factor in determining the quality of life of men and the success or failure of their careers. Men's daily joys and sorrows are often determined by their words, and many men who can talk are defeated in a lifetime. Eloquence will be appreciated, and men who are both talented and eloquent have greater hopes of success, because your talents can be fully expressed through words, so that others can understand you more deeply, value you, and entrust you with heavy responsibilities.
Talking men have an incredible power to ease the tension around them and give people a little ease. A man who can speak can fluently express his intentions, expound his ideas in a coherent manner, and make others accept them with satisfaction. At the same time, you can also explore each other's intentions in the dialogue, enhance mutual understanding and establish a good friendship. Men who can't speak often can't be convinced because they can't fully express their original intentions, making the other party bother.
Louis, a chemist in the United States, first proposed the electron theory of "covalent bonds" in a paper in 1916. This theory is of great significance to the development of organic chemistry. However, after this theory was published, the American chemical community did not cause the repercussions it should have. One of the main reasons is that Louis is not good at talking and has never publicly spoken to promote his opinion.
Three years later, another prominent American chemist, Langmuir, discovered Louis's valuable insight. As a result, Langmuir gave speeches in influential journals such as the Proceedings of the American Chemical Society, focusing on promoting the "covalent bond". Because of Langmuir's fickleness, he did a lot of propaganda and interpretation work on the "covalent bond", so that this theory was recognized and accepted by the American chemical community. For a time, the American chemical community has talked about Langmuir's "covalent bond", but almost forgot the initiator of this theory, Louis, and many people even called it Langmuir's theory.
Men can talk, have a gushing eloquence, and can always do a lot of things happily, so that those around them unconsciously surrender to their abilities. Because they know "what songs to sing in what mountains, and what people to see and what to say"; they can express their thoughts and opinions with emotion and understanding, so that people are like a spring breeze. Men in their twenties have a great eloquence, in order to seize the opportunity, turn the danger into safety, left and right, like a fish in the water, everywhere is unimpeded.
When men are young, no matter what lifestyle they choose and what goals they achieve, they inevitably have to associate, communicate and get along with others. Therefore, being able to speak is a manifestation of a man's ability, and it is also the most basic and important top priority in life. Talking is the first trench for men to cross the success of life and career, and they can flexibly use various speaking skills to have the golden key to open the door to success. Men who can talk will eventually grow into invincible, outstanding men who stand tall in the sky.
Speaking is heavy on honesty, and men are good men with faith
Words must be done, deeds must be fruitful, showing a man's attitude and style, is a real man's bag to walk the world.
The ancients said: Man cannot stand without faith. Men in their twenties should be down-to-earth and expand their careers, and honesty and trustworthiness are the cornerstone of men's family establishment, and no achievement is based on lies and deception.
The word "faith" refers to the honesty of people in their speech, which is born from the heart and is consistent in appearance. Men should have integrity in their speech. Only when there is sincerity in the heart can the words spoken in the mouth be convincing; when the words are spoken, the people must be cautious and act cautiously, so that people can be trusted. As the saying goes: self-respecting people are constantly respected, self-respecting people are constantly respected, and self-confident people are constantly trustworthy, which is the inevitable law of interpersonal communication.
"Killing Pigs and Godsons" tells the story of speaking and believing, and men should establish the concept of honesty from an early age. One day, Zengzi's wife was going to go to the street, and her youngest son was crying and crying. The wife coaxed her son and said, "You go back and wait for me to come back and kill the pigs for you to eat." When she came back from the street, she saw that Zengzi really wanted to kill the pig, and she hurriedly stopped: "I am talking to the child and playing with him, coaxing him, why are you serious?" Zeng Zi said, "You can't make such jokes with children." Children have no knowledge at a young age, and they will follow their parents' examples and listen to their parents' teachings everywhere. If you deceive him today, you are teaching him to deceive. If a mother deceives her own child, the child will not trust his mother. This is not a good way to educate your child! So Zengzi killed the pig and cooked meat for the child to eat.
Zeng Zi attaches great importance to honesty and trustworthiness in his speech, and believes that words must be counted. Men should be able to "say but not say, rather than say nothing" and "can't do it, blame it".
Speaking honestly is a basic moral code as a man. When talking to people, you must first maintain integrity. Of course, the letter also contains the meaning of knowing each other and trusting each other, that is, men should treat each other with integrity in their interactions, not wavered by accidental events, and not faded by the passage of time, which is called true integrity.