Among the many famous strange women in history, one of them later became a Taoist monk, and it is said that she was a genius poet child, who could export chapters and poems in three steps from an early age. This person is the female poet Yu Xuanji of the late Tang Dynasty, her original name was Yu Youwei, the character Huilan, the fish father read poetry books, but his life was poor, so he poured his talents and learning into his daughter. After all, she failed to live up to her father's wishes, easily buried her great future, and was executed at the age of 27 because she killed her maid in jealousy and died.
"Easy to get priceless treasure, rare to have a lover; self-can spy on Song Yu, why hate Wang Chang" This is the famous sentence that Yu Youwei passed down to later generations, but although this talent is not lost to Li Qingzhao's female poet, it has not left a name in the main history, and there are not many people who know about her, and the praise and depreciation of her in the records are mixed, while admiring her talent, he also has compassion for her for the second half of her life.
First, the deformed teacher-student relationship
Wen Tingjun is a poet of the Tang Dynasty, he is a descendant of Wen Yanbo, the prime minister during the reign of Emperor Taizong of Tang, from an early age, he was talented and quick-witted, every time he went to the examination, he rhymed with the official, and the eight forks of the hand became eight rhymes, so it was also known as "Wen Eight Forks".
After the death of the fish father, the mother and daughter had no source of livelihood, so they had to live in the courtyard next to the brothel to make a living by doing laundry for the women in the brothel. Although Wen Tingjun was born ugly, he was a well-known wanderer who often went in and out of the land of fireworks.
In this way, Wen Tingjun met Yu Youwei, who was just 10 years old, and her talent made Wen Tingjun extremely appreciative, so she took her as an apprentice, taught poetry, and also took care of the lives of their mother and daughter.
Wen Tingjun was given a small official position to go to other places, so he left Yu Youwei's mother and daughter and took up his post. Yu Youwei, who left the teacher, missed the teacher every day and developed a love affair. She wrote "Sending Wen Feiqing on Winter Nights":
Pondering and searching for poetry under the lamp, I did not sleep for a long night to be afraid of the cold.
The wooden leaves in the courtyard are sad and windy, and the screen windows are dark in the moon.
The evacuation is not idle and the wish is finally fulfilled, and the prosperity and decline are empty to see the original heart.
At the sycamore, the twilight bird chirps around the forest.
In this poem, Yu Youwei expressed his deep love for Wen Tingjun, but at this time, Wen Tingjun was nearly 60 years old, and Yu Youwei was only 14 years old, young and beautiful, fresh and moving, not that he did not like such a bright woman, perhaps he also knew that the difference between the two was far away, so he only controlled the relationship between teachers and students.
However, does the 14-year-old Yu Youwei really understand what love is? The difference between the two people is nearly 50 years old, this man has made her feel safe after losing her father since childhood, he taught her to learn poetry like a father, and when she was down and had no one to rely on, he helped her, making her more and more emotionally dependent on him.
However, Wen Tingjun did not expect that although he suppressed his desire and rejected the young Yu Youwei, it also formed the beginning of the tragedy of her life.
2. Affection for a husband with a wife
Wen Tingjun in order to let Yu Youwei be dead to him, he introduced her to a young talent Li Yi, the two people met and rejoiced with each other, although Li Yi already had a wife in the family, but Yu Youwei still agreed to follow Li Yi and become his concubine outside.
But who knew that the lady of Li Yi's family was furious after learning that he had taken a concubine outside, and came to the courtyard that Li Yi had placed for Yu Youwei to scold her and drove her out. Li Yi's career all depended on his wife's maternal power, he did not dare to offend his wife, and in desperation, he wrote a letter of resignation to send Yu Youwei to the Taoist Temple of Qingxiu, changed her name to Yu Xuanji, and promised to take her back when he had real power in his hands.
But she looked forward to and waited for three years, but what she waited for was Li Yi to take up his post with her family, she was angry and resentful but there was nothing she could do, since then her temperament has changed greatly, no longer the pure and simple Yu Youwei before, she began to make friends with the People's Republic of China, using poetry as a guide, turning the Taoist Temple into a world-famous place of affection.
A woman who was born full of flowers and full of talent, but because of her improper concept of love, she fell into a barren place. She could have chosen a good son-in-law by virtue of her own ability, but she was willing to lower her status, be a concubine, and hate her lover for being weak and widowed, but she did not know that she wanted to rely on men to keep food and clothing for a lifetime, which in itself was a road of no return.
Third, the fall sinks, the game of the human world
The famous lyricist Li Qingzhao also experienced a marriage change when she was young, and after the death of her husband, she was discouraged and forced to marry a person named Zhang Ruzhou, who was very good to her at first, but soon after the marriage, he was originally exposed, and he only coveted the cultural relics that Li Qingzhao had hidden around him as life.
Li Qingzhao discovered his despicable intentions, and felt that after the two people were gradually drifting apart in the three views, he would rather risk being imprisoned at the risk of reporting her husband's bad behavior, and also break off relations with this man. In a letter to a friend, she said: "The evening view of the mulberry elm is obscene, and the material is accompanied by a donkey." Meaning, he and I are really difficult to get along with, how could I marry such a dirty city servant in my old age, with my innocence?
Li Qingzhao was known as the first talented woman in the ages, and at the time when the country was decaying and the people were displaced, she used poetry to express her patriotic feelings, which had a profound and positive impact on future generations.
After yu youwei was discouraged, she changed her previous reticence, her heart was extremely full of despair of love, she let go of her selfish desires, and finally because of jealousy, she suspected that the maid seduced her lover who was meeting at the time, and beat her to death by mistake, and was sentenced to death when she was 27 years old.
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The living environment is enough to make a huge change in a person's three views, so the story of "MengMu's Three Migrations" has been passed down to future generations, so that people can pay attention to how important the impact of the living environment on the child's life is.
Perhaps, people are poor and short-minded is a helpless social reality, but for the cultivation and education of children, it is not about poverty and wealth, and the most basic moral concepts will make a person have different choices when encountering things; when facing marriage, there will be some trade-offs.
Yu Youwei's young life, it seems a little desolate and bitter, but the reason for her lonely death is that in addition to the poor family and the need for support, the most important thing is that she is on the edge of the land of fireworks, and she is accustomed to the survival of many women, and finally uses such a method to vent her grievances.
When you are a minor, you can't choose what kind of family you were born into, but what kind of life you want to live as an adult depends on your own choices, from a genius poet to a dust woman is only one step away.
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