Jet Li, can be said to be the pride of our Chinese film industry, is another martial artist after Bruce Lee.
On the screen, whether it is the "Huang Feihong" series of movies, or "Fang Shiyu" and its sequels, he is a well-deserved kung fu emperor and a generation of masters.
In his 40-year acting career, he has created one classic role after another that makes the audience remember it.
In addition to his career achievements, Jet Li's married life is also of concern.
The story of his relationship with the beautiful woman Li zhi touched many people, but few people knew: this relationship was based on the pain of another woman.
This woman is Jet Li's original match, Huang Qiuyan.
When Huang Qiuyan was pregnant and gave birth to her second daughter, Jet Li met Li Zhi, who made his heart move, and abandoned Huang Qiuyan for Li Zhi.
What really happened back then? The past is like the wind, and everything has to start from the beginning.
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Huang Qiuyan, born in 1961, is 2 years older than Jet Li.
Compared with Jet Li, who lost her father at an early age, Huang Qiuyan has a happy family: her father Huang Botao and her mother Chen Lianghuan were the earliest dance artists in New China.
It is often said that the third year of female college holds gold bricks; although Huang Qiuyan is only 2 years older than Jet Li, in the beginning, it was Huang Qiuyan who promoted Jet Li.
When the two of them trained together in the martial arts class, Huang Qiuyan took great care of Jet Li in life, and she always secretly brought a copy to Jet Li when the family bought something delicious.
She also often made up all kinds of excuses to ask her parents for money and buy gifts to visit Jet Li's house to visit his mother.
Two people can be said to be green plum bamboo horses, two small guesses.
When she first entered the entertainment industry, Huang Qiuyan quickly became famous with her good appearance and martial arts skills.
Huang Qiuyan's appearance in "Shaolin Kid" is bright and bright, which makes people fall in love at first sight.
At that time, the makeup technology was not superb, many actresses would lose their color under the magnesium lamp, but Huang Qiuyan's skin was like gelatin, which was particularly fresh and eye-catching.
Gradually, people found that the relationship between Huang Qiuyan and Jet Li was not the relationship with the brothers and sisters of the disciples, and the feelings between them were secret.
In 1985, Jet Li and Huang Qiuyan accidentally broke their left leg while filming the movie "North and South Shaolin", and doctors said that there was a possibility of falling into a lifelong disability.
At that time, Huang Qiuyan was anxious like an ant on a hot pot, afraid that Jet Li would not be able to open it, and rushed to the hospital every day to take care of Jet Li.
Jet Li was indeed in a very bad mood, and Huang Qiuyan sat on the edge of the hospital bed, enlightening and comforting him while knitting a sweater for Jet Li.
A week later, the sweater was knitted, and Huang Qiuyan personally helped Jet Li put it on, confessing to Jet Li: "No matter how your legs are in the future, I am willing to be with you forever!" ”
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In this way, the pair of Bi people opened their love affair to the outside world, and they were regarded as "golden boys and jade girls", which was very right.
However, Huang Qiuyan's parents are very worried: "You are older than Jet Li, and the relationship between husband and wife will be more difficult to handle in the future." ”
Huang Qiuyan does not think so: "He and I have been practicing and learning together since childhood, and we have deep feelings, and the age gap will not affect our lives." ”
In June 1987, Jet Li and Huang Qiuyan hurriedly registered their marriage in Beijing without informing anyone, not even their parents.
It is said that Jet Li let her quit the film world and run the family with peace of mind; at that time, the crews such as "Thirteen Sisters of the Heroine" and "Journey to the West" invited her to play the heroine, but she politely refused.
At that time, the entertainment industry rose up a wave of going abroad, jet Li and Huang Qiuyan went to Los Angeles, the United States.
Soon after arriving in the United States, Huang Qiuyan gave birth to her eldest daughter, Li Si, and the couple took out a loan to buy a house on the outskirts of Los Angeles.
Just when Huang Qiuyan was pregnant with her second child, Jet Li, who was worried about her life, received an invitation from director Luo Wei to star in the male number one of the movie "The Dragon at the End of the World".
Jet Li packed his bags and went to Hong Kong, leaving Huang Qiuyan and her children in Los Angeles; at that time, Huang Qiuyan was very supportive of her husband acting away from herself and her children, but she did not expect that this move led to a later divorce.
In the crew of "The Dragon at the End of the World", Jet Li and Li Zhi became acquainted. Jet Li said that from the first sight of Li Zhi, he had a feeling of surprise and touch.
Jet Li fell madly in love with Li Zhi, and he made a transoceanic phone call and filed a divorce with Huang Qiuyan.
At that time, Huang Qiuyan was pregnant with her second daughter for only 6 months, and when the child was not born, her father abandoned the family for another woman.
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Later, Jet Li only said in the interview: "Young people do not understand love, and their love for their ex-wife is only 20%.
After meeting Li Zhi, I realized that my love for her can make me give all my fame, status, and even life, and there is a feeling of openness. ”
After the divorce, Huang Qiuyan has been living in Los Angeles with her two daughters.
In theory, Jet Li is a net out-of-the-house, in fact, they have almost no other property except for a house bought with a loan.
After the divorce, Huang Qiuyan needs to earn money to support herself and her two daughters.
After a long time without a job at home, Huang Qiuyan and her children had difficulty finding a job and had been unemployed.
Unable to repay the loan, Huang Qiuyan's house was auctioned off by the bank, and she and her two daughters were about to live on the street, and a kind Chinese old lady saw that they were pitiful and vacated an abandoned basement for their mother and daughter to live in.
In this case, Huang Qiuyan had to call Jet Li for help: "Can you temporarily raise two daughters for me?" ”
After jet Li learned of Huang Qiuyan's difficult situation, he sent his two daughters back to Beijing and asked his mother, who lived in a courtyard on Deshengmennei Avenue, to help take care of them.
In front of the child, Huang Qiuyan never said that Jet Li was not, she said to her two daughters: "Although Dad and Mom are separated, we are still friends and will always love you." ”
Jet Li's mother cried every time she saw Huang Qiuyan, she said: "Such a good girl, how can Lian Jie be willing to be separated from you?" ”
Huang Qiuyan comforted her and said, "Mom, he has his ideas, you must not blame him." ”
In 1992, Huang Qiuyan shot some small production films in Hong Kong, and later returned to the United States to enter San Francisco, where she was a beautician at the Montantan Beauty salon in San Francisco.
Later, Huang Qiuyan met Mr. Wang, who opened a restaurant, and Huang Qiuyan was impressed by his character.
When he divorced his ex-wife, Mr. Wang left all his property to his ex-wife.
As a result, after the divorce, his ex-wife unfortunately suffered from cancer, and Mr. Wang returned to his ex-wife to take care of him until his ex-wife died of illness.
The similar experience of two people closely linked the two people together, and finally entered the palace of marriage.
On the day of her and Mr. Wang's big wedding, Jet Li sent a gift of 50,000 US dollars in the name of her two daughters, and the two daughters also returned to Huang Qiuyan's side, and after the marriage, Huang Qiuyan and her husband opened a new restaurant until now.
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There are thousands of couples in the world, but not every couple can always love as before.
Right or wrong, both people have found their own happiness.
Divorce is originally to find their own happiness, life is very short, happiness also needs to be tightened, the premise is to assume our moral and conscience responsibilities and obligations.
Zhang Ailing said: I want you to know that there is a person in this world who is always waiting for you, no matter when, no matter where, anyway, you know, there is always such a person.
May everyone have the courage to get out of the ridiculous marriage and the confidence to embrace happiness again.