Recently, the movie "Mei Yanfang" announced that it will be released nationwide on November 12, and released a series of posters for the "Changing Queen of Heaven".
The official Weibo also wrote: "Hurry a lifetime, live out several lifetimes of splendor." Don't be too long, how can people not read..."
Mei Yanfang is 18 years old, with the craze of this movie, for a time, it has aroused everyone's memories and thoughts of her thousands of times.
From the innocent little singer to the "Hong Kong daughter" who sang and filmed, her beauty and enthusiasm reflected the entire unforgettable era.
Her life was short, but she got a life script full of setbacks and sufferings.
But she is like a "hero" standing on the stage of life, and she can still laugh at life after the waves.
Her life is not to play others well, but to dance into a high-level player in her soul.
The suffering that life pays out, she wears into the costume of the soul
Spiritual mentor Dr. Michael Dove Newton mentions in his book Journey of the Soul:
"No matter what kind of birth background we have, what events have happened, and how the key people who have appeared to trigger the turning point of our lives, our fate is agreed before birth, and this life is to experience the theme of life and unfold smoothly." 」
Mui Yanfang was born in Hong Kong on October 10, 1963, with two brothers and one sister, a stubborn and rebellious personality.
Because of the early death of his father, the family only relied on the dilapidated "Jinxia" song and dance troupe run by their mother to survive, and the family was very poor.
Under pressure, her mother excavated Ah Mei, who was only four and a half years old and had a strong desire to perform, and had great musical talent, and forced her to perform with her sister Mei Aifang to perform on stage at the Lai Yuen Playground in Hong Kong.
Since then, Ame has formed an indissoluble relationship with the stage.
During that childhood song and dance time, she often used red paper to dye her mouth and make up, carrying a large teapot, walking to the guests while making tea, while asking: "May I ask Mr. and Miss to order songs?" ”
The posture is low and low, and it is not respected by people, and she is called "singer".
When other girls are busy studying and having fun, she has to rush to the playground and song hall after class.
She once sighed in a radio interview: "My family has prevented my classmates from coming and going with me, only letting me stay at home to practice singing and dancing, usually watching other classmates play, but I am always alone, and my classmates feel that they are monsters." ”
Ame prematurely shoulders the burden of an overweight family, and the tribulations of life try to deprive her of all the joys of her childhood, while she pins her enthusiasm and hope for life on the stage.
But behind suffering, there will always be gifts.
In 1982, at the age of 19, Ame participated in the TVB Singing Contest and won the championship among more than 2,000 people. Since then, it has been heavily funded by TVB and started a glorious acting career.
She fell deeply in love with the stage, striding forward and opening up the value of her life.
Through the pain of love, she bravely sought love
However, no matter how dazzling Mei Yanfang stands on the stage, there is always a gap in her heart.
Childhood is unfortunate for Mei Yanfang, she not only lacked her father's love early, but also acted as a tool for her mother to make money at a young age, endured her mother's "exploitation" for a long time, and was later insulted by her stepfather in every way...
The wounds of the original family deeply stung Ah Mei, and the desire for love became the deepest cry of her soul.
At the age of 19, Ame, who had just debuted, appeared unique in temperament at a cocktail party, and soon attracted the attention of Japanese superstar Makoto Kondo, and was invited to dance together.
Makoto Kondo looked down and asked, "Can I kiss you?" ”
Ame did not refuse, kissed him and made love, and from then on, she loved Makoto Kondo to death.
Later, Ame found that there were other women around the other party, and this first love was painfully terminated.
Many people speculate that Ah Mei loves Andy Lau the most, and she has also paid money to fund Hua Tsai's filming many times, and has openly admitted to having a crush on each other.
At the end of a performance, a male fan sent flowers and jokingly proposed to Amei, she said: Unfortunately, you are not Andy Lau, otherwise I will marry you.
He got sick, and the first person he told was Hua Tsai.
Unfortunately, her affection did not wait for Hua Tsai's eternal love.
At that time, Andy Lau was infatuated with a long-haired and gentle woman, and when he was ambiguous with her, he turned around and threw himself into Zhu Liqian's arms.
She did not hate Andy Lau for this, but treated each other as lifelong friends.
There is also a very important man in Mei Yanfang's life, that is, Zhang Guorong.
After the two cooperated in "Rouge Buckle", they formed a not shallow friendship, and the relationship once surpassed love and was more like a pair of soul confidants.
Through zhang Guorong's introduction, Ah Mei and Zhao Wenzhuo talked about a sister-brother relationship, because the woman is strong and the man is weak, under the malicious speculation of the outside world, the contradiction between the two deepened, and the sensitive and self-respecting Zhao Wenzhuo proposed to break up.
She thought that Zhao Wenzhuo had a new love and promised it, and the relationship came to an abrupt end.
Love is the sanctuary where every soul desires refuge.
Mei Yanfang's bitter pursuit of love is to settle a warm "home" for the soul.
This wish was simple and pure, but Heaven had to leave her with a lifetime of loneliness.
Fortunately, she did not give up on herself, but smiled at her past in the strange eyes of others.
Turning around and from the depths of the soul's silence, continue to bravely pursue the "great love" in life.
Suffering is a challenge that the top soul has designed for itself
The stage is also the ultimate love of Mei Yanfang's life.
Although she tasted the bittersweet and bittersweet of the human world for this:
When young people go out to sell songs, they have to deal with all kinds of guests, some let her accompany the wine, some take advantage of the opportunity to pick up oil, and some pretend to pursue impure motives;
Because of the premature use of the voice throat, the voice has long been unable to be as crisp and loud as other girls, and has become low and vicissitudes;
Shortly after his debut, the sales of the recorded album were unbearable;
Unscrupulous media pulled out her history of being a singer and taking drugs, and adding up her bad words, her career fell into a trough...
And Ah Mei regards these ups and downs as the "drama" of the fate arrangement, and she picked up a bright smile and survived the past, accumulating strength to shoot excellent works such as "Red Mei Yanfang" and "Bad Girl", and has since become popular.
She also created one miracle after another in the Hong Kong music scene, winning the "Most Popular Female Singer" in the "Top Ten Golden Melodies Awards Ceremony" for five consecutive years.
Her singing style, subversive of tradition, bold and avant-garde, changeable style, leading the trend, is known as "changeable girl".
So far, she has held 292 concerts, which is still the highest number of concerts by Chinese female singers in the world.
After she broke through herself layer by layer, she finally ushered in the highlight moment of her career.
But heaven arranged another thunder for her - her sister died of uterine cancer, and the only warmth and dependence in her life disappeared.
Unfortunately, at the end of December 2002, Mei Yanfang also received a confirmed report on cervical cancer.
And her heart is still towards the "stage", and she feels that instead of spending her mental energy in the hospital and praying for a little time to heaven, it is better to sprinkle the beauty of life to the stage she loves.
She gave up treatment and, with her inner freedom and tenacity, held 8 consecutive farewell concerts.
At the last concert in December 2003, Mei Yanfang fainted on the stage, and she begged the doctor to let her continue the concert, and she cried and said, "Even if I die, I will die on the stage." "All those present were in tears.
No one expected that Mei Yanfang, who was wearing a white wedding dress and painting exquisite makeup, was the final farewell this time.
She said with tears in her eyes: "I have never really worn a wedding dress in my life, and although the sunset is beautiful, it is almost dusk." ”
After singing the last song, she fell into Andy Lau's arms, forever staying in her 40 years old.
Sophia Brown, an internationally renowned spiritual healer, said, "Only the bravest and most outstanding souls have the courage to design such a demanding challenge." ”
Indeed, only an outstanding soul like Mei Yanfang can dance her most stubborn bravery at the last moment of her life.
She is worthy of her dreams and "plays" with the most elite value of life.
Take a journey to life and take a journey to the brilliant soul
Undoubtedly, Mei Yanfang is a senior player in her own life script.
In fact, each of us has our own life topics, and sometimes in order to make the souls of the world grow, God will give some strong medicine in the life script.
And you, just need to see through this "drama", you can use the joyful and comfortable state of mind at the moment of surprise to let yourself go to a brilliant soul journey.
1. Calm down and listen to the cry of life from the depths of the soul
When Mei Yanfang was seriously ill, she said, "Although I am a patient, I am not a weak person. ”
This touching sentence has touched countless people.
Because it comes from the soul's reverence for life, it is also a kind of will to be in a desperate situation and to fight against fate.
Mei Yanfang knows that her life is lonely and bitter, but the stage is her eternal attachment and battlefield.
As long as there is still a breath of life, she will do her best to dance the most beautiful music of life.
If you feel lost and vulnerable, perhaps you have not really heard the cry of life from the depths of your soul, and you have not realized the theme of your own life.
Deuter, the master of spiritual healing, advocates that music can make the mind enjoy the power of calm, harmony and full of joy.
In your spare time, you can play a meditation music to yourself, let the breath slowly move with the music, and when the music slowly flows into the heart, into the chest, floating between the limbs, you will open your deep spirituality and hear the sound of the soul.
Thus, let yourself be bathed in the vitality and healing of the energy, appreciate the sincerity and emotion of life, and step out of your own life dance steps!
2. Activate the energy of love and bravely dance out the highest script of life
We live in a world of energy, experiencing energy all the time and being influenced by the energy around us.
Love is the most powerful energy that surrounds the universe, and there is not a single aspect of life that does not involve love, and even in the darkest moments, it is full of love.
All the sufferings of life are not punishments from God or any higher power, but rather for me to experience the preciousness and spiritual growth of life.
No matter what your blueprint for life is, only love is to break the code, love yourself unconditionally, and then love others unconditionally.
The plots that take place in our lives, both tragic and joyful, are meant to inspire the noble love within us, and it is this love that frees us from suffering and towards the holy land of happiness.
You can say to yourself, "I give the soul the love that the soul desires, and that is the most important gift I can give." ”
Honey, when you learn to love, you have the courage to face the challenges from life and play the most advanced script in life!
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