"Yulou Spring" "bizarre" finale: ignoring the plot, the 9 marriage and love concepts of this drama, very good 01 en and love, many times, heavy but not profitable. 02 Honest man, easy to get confused. 03 Meet a good man, don't wait, go chase. 04 The more noisy the couple, the more inseparable. 05 In marriage, being yourself is more important than loving men. 06 Most women who feel that they are important in men's hearts end up miserable. 07 In-laws are evil, you are not "tough" enough, it is equivalent to waiting for death. 08 Women are "too virtuous", in exchange for domestic violence. 09 Minimum criteria for marrying: bad people, do not marry. An interesting phenomenon.

Wen | Gongziyi

"Yulou Spring", the bizarre finale.

Sun Xun, whose grave was covered with grass, came back from the dead. Then, the whole drama became a game in which the emperor and the first assistant plus Lin Shaochun overthrew the corrupt official Liang Jingguan.

The most bizarre thing is that the last small theater blindly emphasizes the importance of kindness and the importance of mentality, but in fact, this drama has little to do with kindness and mentality.

I have to say that the plot of this drama is bizarre, but one of the biggest highlights of this drama is that the 9 views of marriage and love that it penetrates are very worthy of our consideration.

<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="9" >01 grace and affection, many times, not heavy enough. </h1>

Lin Shaochun's master, Liu Sanjie, was kind to Sun Xun.

When he was young, Sun Xun fell in the middle of the family road and fell to the point where he could not even afford to buy paper. Liu Sanjie is the daughter of the owner of the Hundred Opera Class, she fell in love with Sun Xun, and her father also funded Sun Xun to enter Beijing to catch the exam.

But when Shen Qingyao found the door, Sun Xun did not hesitate to marry Shen Qingyao, because Shen Qingyao's father was a member of the Sanpin Dynasty, which would help his career.

Sun Xun, who was weak and unsympathetic and ungrateful, not only did not end up with a tragic end, but also became an extremely popular subject, with children and grandchildren. Liu Sanjie, who was disappointed, never married, and missed his life.

In reality, is there really such a plot?

Yes, women wait for men for a lifetime, while men have long been married and have children, and their children and grandchildren are full.

Therefore, in this life, women must correctly look at grace and affection, you must know that your grace and affection may not be exchanged for a man's lifelong love. If you can't afford to lose, don't be the stepping stone for men.

<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="92" >02 Honest men, easy to confuse. </h1>

Sun Shijie married Wu Yuehong, the daughter of the Shogun Tiger.

The marriage between the Sun family and the Wu family was to consolidate the sun family's position in the court. Sun Shijie enjoyed the benefits that Wu Yuehong brought to the Sun family, but he still deeply disliked Wu Yuehong.

He hated Wu Yuehong for being ugly, and hated that Wu Yuehong was ignorant and interesting, so he fell in love with the female liar Tao Yao.

Is he really in love with Momo?

Not. He didn't have the ability to divorce Wu Yuehong and marry Tao Yao, he just wanted to occupy both sides. The plot in the TV series is so bizarre, with Lin Shaochun, the true face of Tao Yao has been exposed. But without Lin Shaochun, it is very likely that Sun Shijie would become a sinner of the Sun family.

Sun Shijie has a cowardly personality and hesitates, he is an honest person, but the more honest he is, the more greedy he is. There were four brothers in the Sun family, and only he was fascinated by the color and confused to the extreme.

It can be seen that sometimes, honest people are not necessarily a good match, because it is likely that you will be dragged down by him for a lifetime because of his confusion and confusion. You must know that no one has a family background like Wu Yuehong, and her big grinning heart.

<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="93" >03 Meet a good man, don't wait, go chase. </h1>

Sun Junhao married two daughters-in-law.

A talented woman Su Yingxue, and one is the eccentric Yao Dizhu. The two women have their own advantages, but as far as the concept of marriage and love is concerned, Su Yingxue is a negative teaching material, and Yao Dizhu is simply sober in the world.

Su Yingxue never took the fate into her own hands, Sun Junhao left, she complained to herself, Jia Fengyuan flattered her, and she immediately went to great lengths. She herself hadn't thought about what kind of person she was going to marry. She just passively followed her fate until she reached a dead end. One of the biggest highlights of Yao Dizhu's body is that he always takes his fate into his own hands.

She didn't want to enter the palace, so she tried to find a way not to enter the palace, she felt that Sun Yulou was a good man, so she went to chase. Sun Yulou only likes Lin Shaochun, she does not complain about herself, she always believes that she is worthy of a better man.

So, when Sun Junhao appeared, when Sun Junhao couldn't look at her, she didn't hesitate to chase after her. Sun Junhao loves her, and she is not stubbornly entangled with Sun Junhao, and she has her own life. Sun Junhao does not love her, she does not want to die to live, there are good men who love her.

Yao Dizhu can get happiness, and her "clean and neat to chase" attitude, is closely related. And this attitude is really particularly important in marriage. Especially those girls who are excellent in all aspects, don't be too reserved, and chase after good men when you see them, otherwise you will really regret it for life.

<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="94" >04 The more noisy the couple, the more inseparable. </h1>

To be honest, my favorite is the couple Xu Fengqiao and Sun Jinge.

The two of them are the kind of noisy couples that are often found in reality, and the husband does not learn any skills and has many small shortcomings. The wife is greedy for money and has a lot of selfishness, but the two of them live very really and vividly.

And the most important thing: the two of them are in love.

Xu Fengqiao was very greedy for money, but whenever Sun Jinge caused trouble, no matter how much money it was, she never stood idly by. She will be angry and will chase After Sun Jinge, but she will take care of the aftermath for Sun Jinge.

Xu Fengqiao is that kind of tough wife, in a sense, she is a virtuous wife, such an unenterprising Sun Jinge, in her hands, stunned is not crooked.

And Sun Jinge likes to see beautiful people, but he loves Xu Fengqiao very much. What is a man's deepest love for his wife? That is, he can completely put down his face, just to make his wife feel comfortable.

Between Sun Jinge and Xu Fengqiao, they quarreled because of love, and because of this quarrel, they knew each other better and loved each other more. This kind of couple who can quarrel for a lifetime is a really happy couple.

They had no mustard in each other's hearts, they were all sincere with each other, that kind of noise, but to prove that they lived unscrupulously and loved each other.

<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="95">05In marriage, being yourself is more important than loving men. </h1>

In fact, many women have a very wrong perception in marriage, she feels that the more she loves men, the more men will love her. But in fact, this is not the case.

A woman who wants to be cared for by a man all the time, who wants to keep the marriage safe for a long time, is actually more important to be herself. Because, feelings are all scales, you are too inclined to each other, the other party will not love you more, he may be annoyed, will not cherish. And when you are yourself, like Lin Shaochun, after she got married, she did not circle around Sun Yulou all day, she began to rely on herself in the door of the mansion and break out of her own world.

At this time, Sun Yulou will never get tired of Lin Shaochun, because Lin Shaochun is always Lin Shaochun, a Lin Shaochun who needs his attention to chase.

I have been married for eight years, and my biggest feeling about marriage is that you have to dare to be yourself in marriage, not that you treat men and children as all when you get married. The braver you are to be yourself, the more men are afraid of losing you. And the more humble you only love each other, the more the other person feels that you don't have to cherish.

May you understand.

<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="96" >06 Women who feel that they are important in men's hearts mostly end up miserable. </h1>

Sun Youzhen, an imperial concubine, was in the imperial palace thinking of asking for a love for the emperor.

Her sadness is doomed, if according to normal logic, she is not clear, there is no intention of the imperial concubine, it is likely that the palace fight was killed at the beginning of the game, it is estimated that it will affect the entire Sun family.

In fact, the more a woman marries into a high door, the more she should not attach too much importance to love. Because you enjoy too many good things, you have to have the capital and ability to support these things.

Obviously, Sun Youzhen could not support it. When she was wronged, she was not trying to get out of the predicament, but obsessed with the emperor's distrust of her. And when Lin Shaochun helped her wash away her grievances, she even broke with the emperor. She probably hadn't thought about her family, or maybe she thought her break would have had a big impact on the emperor.

But in fact, there is not much more of a grandson than her, and there is not much less of a grandson of her. In fact, whoever leaves anyone can live, and may live better. So, women should never feel how much it hurts men that you're gone. When you can't afford a divorce, don't always think about the disappointment of love, you should think about how to live the present life comfortably.

Remember, in marriage, living is more important than love. If you can't figure this out, your marriage will most likely be unhappy.

<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="97" >07 in-laws are evil, you are not "tough" enough, equivalent to waiting for death. </h1>

I never thought that "having a wife at home" was a bad thing. Even, in a way, too afraid of the wife's court, most of them are happy. Because fear of wife means the belly of a family or even a family man.

One of the biggest shortcomings of this drama is that Lin Shaochun is too omnipotent. A woman like Sun Youde, who has encountered an evil mother-in-law and is not tough enough, is particularly disadvantaged in both ancient times and modern times.

In ancient times, it may be martyred, and in modern times, it may be forced to commit suicide. If there is no Lin Shaochun, then Sun Youde's fate is to be buried alive.

Therefore, if a woman really encounters an evil mother-in-law like Sun Youde's mother-in-law's family, don't wait for Lin Shaochun to fall from the sky to save you. When you feel that your mother's family is unreliable and your in-laws are still evil, you should be tough when you are tough, and you should flee when you should flee.

Don't be affectionate, don't talk about righteousness, don't want to endure, remember, living, safe, and having a turnaround is what you should consider the most.

<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="98" >08 Women are "too virtuous", in exchange for domestic violence. </h1>

Sun Yourong's in-laws are in the middle of the road, and her husband actually has no talent. However, the less talented some men are, the more temperamental they are. He didn't have the ability to reflect on himself, but he slapped his wife.

And this kind of man, with the help of Lin Shaochun, actually woke up. But I would like to say that this drama does not write the follow-up of Sun Yourong, a man encounters difficulties, can beat his wife the first time can beat his wife a second time. He is not a wicked person, but hitting his wife is the way he vents his emotions.

And that's the scariest thing.

He couldn't control the way he vented his emotions. Many domestic violence men also know that domestic violence is not right, but why, he still chooses domestic violence. Not only because the price he paid after domestic violence was small, but many times because that was the way he vented his emotions, and his emotions reached that point, and he couldn't control himself.

Therefore, please see the end of Sun Yourong clearly, she will not be happy for a lifetime. Her happiness was short-lived.

A man who has no ability and is still angry, a man who uses domestic violence as a way to vent his emotions, he is incapable of giving happiness to a woman.

<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="99" >09 Minimum standard for marrying: bad guy, don't marry. </h1>

Su Yingxue finally committed suicide by taking poison.

In this comedy, the line between her and Jia Fengyuan is the biggest tragedy. There's nothing wrong with a woman who isn't loved by her husband, who is alone in an empty boudoir, who wants to be loved and wants to re-choose marriage.

However, one of Su Yingxue's most wrong points is that while she wants to love, she forgets to see what the person who gives her love is like.

This is also the origin of the marriage tragedy of some girls, who only talk about love and completely ignore what kind of person the other party is.

Women always remember that the minimum standard by which you marry is that you can't marry a bad guy. If a man provokes you after you've been married, and he's used to take advantage of you and wants to go astray, then take the plot of those romance novels out of your mind.

You sober up, this is reality, reality is a bad person, incapable of giving you happiness. He's still in the mire himself, and he'll just pull you into the mire.

<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="100" > an interesting phenomenon. </h1>

The Sun family, counting the son-in-law and daughter-in-law, has a total of 21 people.

You will find that an interesting phenomenon is that the four sons of the Sun family all have a happy ending, and the four daughters of the Sun family, if there is no Lin Shaochun who is "infinitely magnified", then the ending is miserable.

Why is that?

Because the standard for the Sun family to marry is: the son's wife is to make the son better. And the daughter's marriage is to make the family better.

Here, I would like to write a passage to the girls whose mothers are not in pain and whose in-laws do not love: If you can't point to either side, don't try to count on men, the person you should count on most in this life is yourself. Never give up the ability to earn money and develop your ability to love yourself.

In this life, you will get very little love, so instead of expecting others to love you, it is better to love yourself a little more. You have to learn that no matter who you marry, you have the ability to make yourself happy.

Healthy, independent, hard-working, positive mentality, as for goodness, good to the good, evil to the evil, is the woman's sobriety and wisdom.