No one can tolerate their partner cheating on themselves, and apart from the emotional hurt, the idea of treating themselves like fools is particularly hateful!
So once you know, you will definitely puncture the other party's behavior, and then sort out the marriage relationship.
If you don't put up with it, there is only one possibility besides being too cowardly: there is a more important plan to temporarily suppress your anger.
50-year-old woman: Husband cheated for 4 years, I didn't pay attention, and finally fought a beautiful battle!
Let's see how a woman goes from being passive to being active, from being completely dependent on a man and a marriage to being able to walk on her own with dignity and ability to go on her own! I believe that people who have seen it can always find some insights and inspirations from it.
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Ms. Yue Hong, 50 years old this year, found out that her husband had cheated on her four years ago.
In fact, as long as a woman pays a little attention, she can always find the clues of his emotional changes from some subtle and unusual changes in the other party, and she is the same.
He seemed to have the smell of other women on his clothes, he occasionally left in his pocket some bills that he obviously didn't need, buying something that only women would like, and then looking through his phone, she knew that the other party had betrayed her.
If you change to another woman, you should have a seizure when you board, right? But she didn't, she went on living as usual, like no one else.
Why? Because at that time, she had not been to work for nearly ten years, and without this man, she could not live a normal life. Moreover, at that time, their children had not yet taken the college entrance examination, and she wanted to wait until the problem was solved before making plans.
However, from that day on, she no longer cared about the other party's every move, and only took care of her own affairs with her daughter. This change is also quite obvious, but her man may not care, or maybe he feels that he is more free to act, in short, he pays more attention to the relationship outside of marriage.
What he didn't know was that when a woman was so disappointed in her husband that she superficially ignored it, it was the beginning of a counterattack. Of course, now that I know, it's a little too late.
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He was probably thinking of his wife as a fool at first, and he was annoyed when she was willing to care for herself at first; when she had devoted all her attention to the child, he thought it was very normal.
Because their daughter only had two years to take the college entrance examination at that time, as a mother, she paid too much attention to her grades, which gave him the opportunity to be dashing and happy and out of her jurisdiction.
In fact, I would like to advise all men not to treat their wives as fools, no one can disguise themselves perfectly.
If you don't cover it up so well and your partner turns a blind eye and turns a deaf ear, it's a sign that they're ready to start fighting back.
In the process of accompanying her daughter to the college entrance examination, in addition to doing logistical work for her children, she also began to re-learn some things, and then during the interval between breaks, she would also browse the recruitment information on the Internet to see which one she was more suitable for, and what other people's requirements were for it.
Two years later, her daughter was admitted to a university out of town, and one of her worries had disappeared.
The first thing she did was go around looking for a job.
When she finally had a place to accept her, she said to her husband, "My daughter has gone to a foreign country, and I am idle." Find a place to pass the time and earn some pocket money, and don't want to sleep at home all day, cook, and clean the house. ”
When her husband heard it, his wife's spare time was occupied again and she was very happy. He didn't need to eat at home anyway, she didn't care about nature, as long as his wife didn't get in the way of the eyes and didn't get in the way.
In this way, the husband and wife took care of each other, and two years passed.
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Now Ms. Yue Hong, she can fully support herself by her personal ability.
In the past few years, she not only saved all the living expenses given to her by her husband, but also took advantage of the man's guilt for their mother and daughter, during which she let her husband buy an apartment in the name of her daughter, and in the process of working outside, she found a good business opportunity, so she came back to the man who was sorry for her and asked for a sum of money to open a shop.
With their own interests and efforts to do well, it is quite profitable.
From the beginning, I had to rely on this man to live, and now I can survive independently from spirit to practical action.
She showed off with the other party and confessed that over the years, she had already collected evidence of the other party's infidelity, if he was willing to leave the house, then she would not sue the court, if he was not willing, there was selfish and lucky idea in the division of property, then they would see the court.
The man was dumbfounded the whole time, and after reacting, he even said that she was terrible.
Yue Hong didn't even bother to listen, she didn't care about everything related to this man anymore, she just wanted to sort it out early and start a good life again.
In this regard, her explanation to her parents and friends is: "Every woman has the right to pursue her own happiness, when you have enough ability to leave the wrong person, please decisively let yourself go." 」 ”
Looking at her spirited appearance now, who can associate her with the humble, cowardly housewife of four years ago, who has no ability to fight back in the face of her husband's cheating?
To be patient with those who do not want to endure is to strengthen themselves and win when the strength reaches, which everyone understands, but there are not too many people who have wisdom and ability to achieve it in life.
Sometimes in the face of some sudden emotional and marital changes, as a weak party, when you feel that the conditions are not ripe and everything is unfavorable to yourself, you have to temporarily endure, and then secretly change these unfavorable factors into factors that are beneficial to yourself, and then you can really punish the other party and give yourself a bad breath.
If this lady had gotten into trouble four years ago, with her ability, she might not have been able to leave empty-handed, and that was the difference! Do you think it's right?
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