In 2013, Zhuo Wei, known as the "first paparazzi in the mainland", climbed the water tower with people, only to see them holding up their cameras and not moving.
Not long after, a video of Wang Dazhi and Dong Jie kissing passionately was exposed on the Internet.
For a time, Dong Jie was pushed into the storm of public opinion and became the target of public criticism.
Previously, Dong Jie still had the upper hand and became the object of pity of everyone, and Wang Dazhi became the embodiment of justice.
On the other hand, pan Yueming, an honest man, has become a "scumbag" attacked by public opinion.
But who could have imagined that Zhuo Wei would immediately change the situation with a video.
Dong Jie and Wang Dazhi both abandoned their sons, and both played cheating in marriage, throwing pots and tearing each other apart, and they had fun.
In this boiling storm, Pan Yueming has undoubtedly become the most innocent person.
This situation of successive reversals hides such a huge hidden feeling, but why does Pan Yueming not say a word, carrying the pot for a full 5 years, what does he really want to do?
In fact, in this "farce", Pan Yueming is not as stupid as he thinks.
01.
Pan Yueming was born in 1974 in a hutong around Dashilar in Beijing's Xicheng District to a family of scholars.
Because of the family atmosphere, Pan Yueming has also practiced calligraphy and painting since he was a child, which makes him shine among his peers.
Not only that, Pan Yueming is also a small celebrity in the school, working as a journalist, publishing a lot of articles, and also going to Beijing Children's Television station as a host.
Because of his small fame, he has also starred in dozens of children's dramas, and even played Sun Xiu of Wu Jingdi in the 94 version of "Romance of the Three Kingdoms".
In 1995, Pan Yueming, who was wandering in the film and television circle, was also determined to take the road of acting, and also applied for the Beijing Film Academy.
But what he didn't expect was that because of the filming of the TV series, he didn't have time to review the culture class, resulting in being eliminated by the Beijing Film Academy during the exam.
This time, the failure of the list gave Pan Yueming a great blow.
Not long after, he came out, independent and autonomous, he did not want to rely on his parents, so he chose to work to make money.
He entered the society and entered an advertising company as a salesman, and at that time, he was also very frustrated because of embarrassment and self-esteem.
Fortunately, after more than a year of part-time work, Pan Yueming's thinking has changed.
At that time, he also did not think about becoming an actor, but wanted to learn behind-the-scenes production.
In 1996, Pan Yueming, who concentrated on his studies, was also admitted to the film and television production major of the Art Department of Beijing Normal University with excellent results.
Pan Yueming entered the university as he wished, and even Dong Jie ushered in his own acting path, appeared on the stage of the CCTV Spring Festival Gala, and served as a palace girl in Zhao Lirong's sketch "The Adventure of Part-time Work".
A student of film and television production, a dancer who is still a song and dance troupe, how to see it does not have any intersection, but the fate is so strange, let them entangle for a lifetime in the future.
Pan Yueming, who entered the university, did not live a good life, but entered the most difficult moment, even more depressed than his work as a salesman in an advertising agency.
Because learning is behind-the-scenes production, it also needs to be transferred to the major sets, and whenever I go to the crew, I say to the person in charge:
"I will do the field notes, I will do the assistant director, I can do whatever you need, and I don't want money!"
Many years later, Pan Yueming also recalled that time:
"At that time, I was in a very turbulent change of ideas, I was a bit high, but I was very poor, my temperament was depressed, and my rebellious mood was particularly serious."
02.
At that time, Pan Yueming not only ran into walls everywhere, but even was at a low point in all aspects.
In his own words:
"People are poor and short-minded, I had a girlfriend at the time, and on Valentine's Day, I couldn't even afford to buy a piece of chocolate, and I actually felt guilty."
Indeed, such a life, I believe that no matter who recalls it, will sigh.
It's just that during college, it is not known who Pan Yueming's girlfriend is, because Pan Yueming refused to answer.
In 1999, near graduation, Pan Yueming felt that his future was at a loss.
Because at that time, he did not have any suitable opportunities, he could only go to the set like an actor, after all, on this basis, he could only mix the crew.
Such a feeling also gave Pan Yueming a very wandering and panicked feeling.
At the moment when he was very confused, because of a chance, he met the director Lu Xuechang, and he was favored to star in the first work in the real sense, "Very Summer".
This work gave Pan Yueming a lot of changes and ideas.
Originally in a dazed state, fortunately willow dark flowers bright another village.
For this "Very Summer Day", Pan Yueming also said: This is a play that affects the fate of my life.
In Pan Yueming's view, his ability to become famous in the show business circle is completely the opportunity given by Lu Xuechang.
And Lu Xuechang is also Pan Yueming's Bole.
With this electric shock, Pan Yueming was like a hanging, and he was favored by the director successively, allowing him to open the road of acting.
In 2000, Huo Jianqi just happened to see Pan Yueming from Lu Xuechang, so he also threw out an olive branch and invited him to partner with Yuan Quan to star in "Blue Love".
On the shooting set, Huo Jianqi saw Pan Yueming and couldn't help but say: How do you get fat again, if you are fat again, you can't make movies.
Director Huo Jianqi's words made Pan Yueming realize the importance of weight loss, but he did not know that the word weight loss would become his life challenge in the future.
In contrast, this year's CCTV Spring Festival Gala, Dong Jie's partner Xie Tingfeng held hands and starred in the song "Together in This Life", serving as the heroine bride.
Because of this appearance, Dong Jie has also become the attention of all walks of life, from a dancer in a song and dance troupe to a "fragrant feast" of major film and television companies.
He was also favored by Zhang Yimou, starred in the movie "Happy Time", and became a generation of "mou girls".
However, she did not heed Zhang Yimou's advice, switched to Wong Kar-wai's banner, and began to go downhill.
03.
With the help of Lu Xuechang and Huo Jianqi, Pan Yueming is also a little famous in the show business circle and has received attention from many parties.
In 2001, both Pan Yueming and Dong Jie ushered in their own acting path and slowly moved towards glory.
Pan Yueming was favored by director Huang Jun, who was preparing to make the movie "Can't Help It".
Because the crew did not have much money budget, just met Pan Yueming, who did not value money much, and he hit it off, and there was "Xiao Bai".
With the "Little White" of "Can't Help It", Pan Yueming also won major film awards, and even won a Best Actor Award at the Beijing University Student Film Festival.
On the other hand, Dong Jie, debuted with the "Girl", and also starred in "Heavenly Lover" again.
Since then, Pan Yueming has also starred in many film and television dramas, but he is still tepid.
Dong Jie, who has a lot of resources in her hands, has ushered in a small peak.
Starred with Chen Kun in the TV series "Golden Powder Family", in which Dong Jie played Leng Qingqiu.
With a fresh and unworldly appearance, like the ice and jade purity of the water hibiscus, coupled with the pure appearance, Dong Jie suddenly became the "white moonlight" of countless people.
At the same time, Dong Jie, who also tried the bull knife, yearned for the TV series, and even turned around and went to Hong Kong and threw herself under wong Kar-wai's door.
It's just that under the hands of this big director who has resounded internationally, there has never been a shortage of capable people, and Dong Jie, who has just arrived, seems to be highly valued, and the people who cooperate with him are big coffee.
Among these big coffee, Dong Jie also has an entangled relationship with Liang Chaowei.
After repeated cooperation, Dong Jie and Liang Chaowei also ushered in a scandal, and even no matter where they were, the two were paired.
Such behavior can be said to make people speculate, and once became a chronicle of Hong Kong.
But as an "old senior", Liu Jialing had never seen any big winds and waves, only to see her quickly strangle this flame in the cradle.
To this end, Dong Jie, who could have become popular in the show business circle, was also beaten into the "cold palace" by the company.
This wave of operations, many people also speculated that it was Liu Jialing's means.
In desperation, Dong Jie, who was snubbed, could only choose to return to the interior.
However, she debuted with the "Mou Girl", and her friendship with Zhang Yimou has long gone.
Dong Jie in the trough period once again ushered in a man: Pan Yueming.
04.
In 2005, Pan Yueming had already starred in "Jinghua Smoke and Clouds", playing the role of Gongzi Brother Great-Sun Ya, which also brought him some fame.
At the same time, Pan Yueming also met Dong Jie when filming "The Red Dress".
Although Dong Jie is at the low point of acting, with her previous image, she still has a very affectionate title of "National First Love".
In the face of this pure and feminine Dong Jie, Pan Yueming still remembers it after many years, saying: Dong Jie still feels like a very simple girl.
Filming this scene, Pan Yueming really couldn't help that restless heart, so he launched a love pursuit to him.
In the process of pursuing Dong Jie, Pan Yueming is also very romantic, playing his childhood skills every day, making a loving painting for him, and even insisting on sending breakfast to him every day.
Not only that, as long as Pan Yueming was free, he surrounded Dong Jie and made her happy.
This time and two down, individuals can see that Pan Yueming is interested in Dong Jie, and the crew members have also reached out to him, helping him from time to time.
In fact, Pan Yueming at that time was a complete small fresh meat, very handsome and handsome, in the face of such a handsome man, how could Dong Jie not be moved?
The whirling around inside was discovered years later, and her vision was indeed "different".
Fortunately, Pan Yueming's perseverance successfully won Dong Jie near the end of the filming of "Red Dress".
The two people who began to fall in love had to endure the pain of lovesickness, because they entered different crews and saw very few days, but they would take a lot of time to call and text every day.
At that time, the mobile phone could only store 2,000 pieces, and even if the memory was full, it was reluctant to delete.
It is said that people who are in love are terrible, during this hot love, a total of tens of thousands of text messages were sent, and the two mobile phones were changed five or six times.
In her spare time, Dong Jie would also hand-copy these text messages into the book, and the hands of this copy were numb.
A few years after their marriage, the two recalled this time, and it was still very sweet, and they sighed: it was really idle.
After the intimate photos of the two of them visiting Disneyland were exposed, they also came together completely.
05.
In 2008, Dong Jie and Pan Yueming fengzi got married.
Although Pan Yueming is very good at pleasing Dong Jie, he is a Buddhist person who can draw and write when he has nothing to do.
The things above the wedding were all handled by Dong Jie.
For this matter, Dong Jie was also a little aggrieved at that time.
Not only that, Dong Jie was still very difficult to accept, and Pan Yueming of the Buddhist lineage did not have any ambitions.
In his opinion, he will not have a plan for his acting career, but will take it with a suitable script.
In 2009, when Pan Yueming was filming the TV series "For You", he had a serious car accident, and he was seriously injured and was also issued a critical illness notice by the hospital.
After Dong Jie learned of this news, she rushed to the hospital as soon as possible.
Seeing Pan Yueming lying on the hospital bed, Dong Jie's tears also flowed involuntarily.
In order to take care of Pan Yueming, Dong Jie pushed away all the work on his hands and took special care of Pan Yueming for more than 100 days.
At that time, Dong Jie was completely a virtuous wife and good mother, not only did Pan Yueming cry bitterly, but even the public remembered that Dong Jie was a virtuous wife, so that in the back, the public would inexplicably stand on Dong Jie's side and accuse Pan Yueming.
After a long period of recovery, Pan Yueming was also recovered and discharged from the hospital, and he even joined his wife Dong Jie on the interview program "Lu Yu Has a Date".
Under the interview of Lu Yu, Pan Yueming also sincerely said: I married the best wife.
At the same time, some media in Pan Yueming's community, filmed Pan Yueming holding a box of "adult diapers" home.
This charm can be described as self-evident.
Could it be that because of the relationship between the car accident, the "conjugal life" of the two people was affected?
And this matter has also been confirmed by some later, but this is only the words of Dong Jie's side.
The injury in this car accident not only made Pan Yueming more fond of Dong Jie, but also made his acting career go downhill.
At that time, pan Yueming was driving not only Pan Yueming, but also the female number two Xia Yiyao and the photographer.
After the car accident, the most serious injury was Xia Yiyao, with a crushing fracture of the pelvic bone, a compression fracture of the lumbar spine, a fracture of the sciatic bone and a phalange bone...
After 7 months of raising, Xia Yiyao has not yet recovered, and even cannot do physical work.
What is puzzling is that neither Pan Yueming nor the crew of "Here for You" made any compensation for Xia Yiyao, who was seriously injured and hospitalized.
Subsequently, Xia Yiyao also directly sued Pan Yueming and the producer in court.
06.
Because of the car accident, Pan Yueming's fame in the show business circle has gradually declined.
Perhaps knowing that Pan Yueming, who has gone downhill, is not as stupid as everyone thinks, he began to hug his wife Dong Jie's thighs and began to establish a good man, a good husband, and a good father.
He often shows his love on social platforms, expresses his love for his wife, and the daily life of topping out with his son.
This look is almost like a change of person.
It's just that Pan Yueming couldn't imagine that his wife, who was so infatuated with him, would one day "step on" him fiercely.
In 2010, Dong Jie made a comeback after giving birth, and met Wang Dazhi in the filming of the TV series "Please Forgive Me".
This well-known "ugly man" in the show business circle has a hot fight with Dong Jie.
Although Wang Dazhi does not look bad, he has a mouth of "three inches of non-rotten tongue", relying on sweet words, winning a smile from a beautiful person.
And Wang Dazhi has always had a "covetous heart" for the goddess of the show business circle.
At first, he made many confessions to the goddess nursery of the green plum bamboo horse, but was ruthlessly rejected.
After that, he even took a fancy to Yuan Quan, but Yuan Quan did not take care of Wang Dazhi.
Although they have been defeated many times on the road of chasing the goddess, they have won the heart of the goddess Dai Lu, and the two have also entered the palace of marriage hand in hand.
Perhaps it is "love when I was young and can't help it", I have repeatedly suffered losses in the goddess road, when I saw Dong Jie, although I said that I was a person with a family, I still couldn't stand that restless heart.
After cooperating in a play, the relationship between Wang Dazhi and Dong Jie also became good friends, and Wang Dazhi arranged his assistant to Dong Jie's side.
I have to say that Dong Jie is really a "god man".
After passing on the scandal with Liang Chaowei before, he brought Back Liang Chaowei's assistant Ren Jiaying, and now there is another one.
In 2011, on the occasion of Pan Yueming's great show of love, Dong Jie suddenly came to a sentence: next year is an itch.
This "itch" really made it comfortable, and it also made Wang Dazhi wish.
In 2012, a well-known blogger publicly broke the news, claiming that Pan Yueming and Dong Jie had already broken up.
In his breaking news, there is also the news that Dong Jie is a new joy.
When this news was exposed, it can be said that a storm of public opinion was set off.
You know, the two of them are a model couple in the show business circle, how can they be separated in this short period of time?
Moreover, the revelation that Dong Jie has a new joy has also made many people speculate, and some people point directly to the male god Liang Chaowei.
Because on Liang Chaowei's 45th birthday, it was not Liu Jialing who accompanied him, but Dong Jie.
In order to celebrate Liang Chaowei's birthday, Dong Jie also went to Hong Kong thousands of miles away.
At that time, there were also many spearheads that also led to Wang Dazhi, because the ambiguity between the two when filming was also rumored.
For a time, it can be said that public opinion has been overwhelming.
07.
At this time when public opinion was flying in the sky, a piece of news came out of the sky and immediately detonated the public.
Dong Jie Studio issued a statement acknowledging the fact that it was a fact to divorce and break up with Pan Yueming.
Moreover, Dong Jie's agent, Ren Jiaying, also directly stood up, and Luo listed Pan Yueming's "guilt".
Domestic violence, gambling, debt, asking for money without sons, irresponsible to the family, and incompetent...
In order to confirm that what he said was not false, Ren Jiaying also released a photo of Pan Yueming in the casino.
This is good, Pan Yueming suddenly became the target of everyone, and was accused by the public one after another, insulting: scumbag.
In the face of Ren Jiaying's words, Dong Jie did not say anything, but instead looked weak, which made people set off accusations against Pan Yueming.
For a time, not only was the public indignant, but even the stars of the entertainment industry stood up and accused.
The first to bear the brunt was undoubtedly Wang Dazhi, who ate the "white swan" as he wished, and openly supported Dong Jie.
Pan Yueming, who is referred to by thousands of people, also stood up to respond, and even more so: I am not ashamed of our feelings.
But a mouth, where can block the public opinion of thousands of people.
Not only that, Dong Jie's side also exposed the fierce material, saying that Pan Yueming hired a paparazzi team and followed Dong Jie for more than a month.
Pull out Wang Dazhi, perhaps Pan Yueming has also made a lot of efforts behind his back.
At that time, Zhuo Wei received a phone call and made up his mind to follow Dong Jie for more than 5 months.
It was also this long period of squatting that allowed them to photograph the evidence of Dong Jie and Wang Dazhi's derailment on the water tower.
When the evidence of Dong Jie and Wang Dazhi's derailment was placed in front of the public, they really understood the reason for the matter.
Dong Jie suddenly changed from a virtuous wife and mother to a "heart B" that everyone shouted and beat.
Although the evidence of Dong Jie's derailment came out, Pan Yueming was still in a trough and had not yet been able to get out of public opinion.
After 5 years of carrying the pot, Pan Yueming also pulled out Wang Dazhi, and he was not as stupid as we thought.
Dong Jie's fierce heart also made Pan Yueming fight back.
As the saying goes: You do the first year, I do the fifteen.
Since Dong Jie has done such a thing, then Pan Yueming is also "ruthless".
On the social platform, Pan Yueming said euphemistically: We really have to face reality and dare to tell the truth.
Subsequently, Pan Yueming's agent also stood up and angrily rebuked Dong Jie, and even said the reason.
It turned out that Pan Yueming was concerned about the child and wanted to let Dong Jie go, but Dong Jie still reversed black and white.
Subsequently, Pan Yueming also insisted on suing Dong Jie's former agent Ren Jiaying for several years.
After some competition, Pan Yueming occupied the victorious side, and Ren Jiaying, who was forced to be helpless, seemed to have found a way back, and insisted that all this was caused by Dong Jie.
After this incident, there was a lot of commotion, after all, the "white lotus" could not defeat the "honest people".
epilogue:
This big battle seems to be able to find some clues from Pan Yueming's original response.
At that time, Pan Yueming had such a sentence:
"For our feelings, Pan Yueming is not ashamed! I didn't do anything, I'm still waiting because I love the kids and love the home! ”
When everything was cleared of clouds, we found that Pan Yueming was not as stupid as we thought.
A family is torn apart and no one becomes a winner.
The result of the game is: how should the top be at its own?
At the beginning, Pan Yueming insisted on marrying Dong Jie, so that what happened later, although he suffered a lot of grievances, he also had to swallow it with his teeth, after all, he chose his wife.