Ning Lu's Memory (Forty-Five)

After staying at home for a few months, my father-in-law's life can be completely self-reliant. Ning Lu found another job, she worked actively and seriously, and soon got the approval of her boss, and she was also very happy.

In the late autumn, Zhai Shengmin returned. He hadn't seen each other for more than half a year, and when he saw his wife and daughter, he still had that indifferent expression. Ning Lu persuaded him to buy a second-hand car and use the five months of winter work break to run away from black cars and make some money. Winters in the northwest are cold, and people who leave work are reluctant to wait for buses in the cold wind. However, Zhai Caiwei said that the traffic police checked the black car very strictly and could not do it, so that he could rest at home. Zhai Shengmin has always been obedient to his sister, plus one of his friends opened a chess and card room, close to home, and Zhai Shengmin has a place to go. Every day, in addition to eating and sleeping, he stayed there, playing cards and drinking with a group of his friends, and Ning Lu and his in-laws were angry at the slightest persuasion. The eldest brother and the second uncle disciplined him, and he listened at the time, and the brothers returned to their original state as soon as they left. Zhai Caiwei's attitude towards this made Ning Lu very speechless, and every time her in-laws asked her to persuade Zhai Shengmin, she said: "Man, drinking, playing cards, and making friends is right!" When Zhai Shengmin heard this, he was even more fearless.

By now, they had been divorced for several years, and Ning Lu had found the happiness that belonged to her. She wanted to say to Zhai Tse-wei, "Are you aware of it now?" A large part of your brother's marriage was ruined in your hands. Yes, under your influence, your brother is even more disrespectful to his wife and daughter and does not care about their feelings. Do you know? When people are not recognized for a long time, they will choose to leave. Every woman needs the care and love of her husband, and every child needs the care and praise of her father. Happiness is not your prerogative, why don't you instill it in your brother what you ask of your husband? ”

Ning Lu and Zhai Shengmin have been married for more than ten years, have no own house, and are with their in-laws. In these ten years, Ning Lu has not watched her favorite TV, and she can't grab the TV with her in-laws. The drum washing machine that her mother gave her to marry when she was married was also used only once and was idle there. Because the thrifty mother-in-law said that the washing machine was too wasteful of water, Ning Lu did not want to argue with her mother-in-law, so she learned to wash clothes by hand.

Zhai Shengmin's clothes were all bought for him by Ning Lu with his own money. She was okay with herself, but all she bought for her husband was brand name. Wearing dirty clothes is not to let Zhai Shengmin do it, including his underwear and socks, all of which are washed by Ning Lu and folded neatly for him to change, she wants to warm her husband's cold heart.

The money earned by Zhai Shengmin was not handed over to Ning Lu at the behest of Zhai Caiwei, and he began to pay Jiayuan's tuition when he was in the second year of Jiayuan's junior high school. Because of the nine-year compulsory education, the tuition fee was very small, Ning Lu was too lazy to ask him for it, unwilling to see his extremely reluctant expression, and he took it himself. Later, Ning Lu's friend advised her to ask for a little, otherwise Zhai Shengmin would become less and less responsible for the family. The tuition fee is twice a year, and it is not much, and Zhai Shengmin cannot disagree.

This marriage was really a melting pot, it not only changed Ning Lu's cheerful and fearless personality, but also forced her to learn more life skills. Ning Lu's salary is limited, except for Jiayuan's food, clothing, housing, and extracurricular school tuition. Sometimes take Jiayuan out to play, will eat some delicious food, Ning Lu went home and learned to do it with the Internet. In this way, when Jiayuan wanted to eat again, her mother made it for her at home, saving a lot of money. Slowly, Ning Lu made a good meal. Some of the small parts in the house were broken, and she would also grope to fix them herself.

The most unbearable thing is that Zhai Shengmin seems to have the gas to get up, every morning the mother-in-law makes breakfast for Ning Lu to call Zhai Shengmin to get up and eat, he will send an inexplicable temper at the dinner table, not for the in-laws, or for Ning Lu and Jiayuan, he will say that the food made by the mother-in-law is not suitable for taste, will say that the father-in-law has nothing to do all day, will say that Ning Lu is too spoiled to be a family, and will say that Jiayuan is too fat.

Ning Lu is worried that not being able to get her father will definitely make Jiayuan more and more inferior, and she feels that as a son, she is too angry with her parents. She talked to Zhai Shengmin about this, but Zhai Shengmin was still the same, as if it had become a habit. Later, the conversation escalated into an argument, and the frequent quarrels made Ning Lu feel haggard.

For such a marriage Ning Lu insisted on maintaining for so many years, because under the traditional education, she always thought that divorce was a shameful thing, she still had hope for her husband, she wanted to maintain this family for jiayuan, this family also has a mother-in-law who loves her and her children, the old man is older, she does not want to make them sad.