In relationships between the sexes, women always give the most, but return the least. Most women think that if they pay a little more, they can be affirmed by the other party for their own value and can get the other party's heart. In fact, it is not at all, the more women pay, the more humble they are, the more they will make men unscrupulous and feel that women's efforts are taken for granted.
There is a lyric that does not say this: what is not obtained is always in turmoil, and those who are favored are fearless. In the relationship between the sexes, it is as the lyrics write, easy to get will not care too much.
First, men's requirements cannot be fully met
Women should dare to say "no", do not unconditionally agree to men's requests, and know that once men's needs are saturated, they will not be so attentive to you. Don't feel that not listening to a man will make the man angry and hate you, compared to the fact that he has been calling you this and that, this moment of unhappiness is not important at all.
Women occasionally agree to meet men's requirements, than the results of continuously meeting men's requirements are completely different, then you occasionally meet, will make men interested in you, will also be more respectful of you will not randomly call you, can maintain their attraction to each other for a long time.
Second, do not deliberately please
Don't blindly please men, this will only make yourself more humble and make the other party have no fear. Men will not be dead set because you are good to him, but will feel that you are useless.
Everyone will envy women who have happy love, and feel as if they don't have to do anything to get the sincerity of men. In fact, it's just that we don't see the love management behind them, they know how to treat men, but they are by no means deliberately flattering.
Third, grasp the leading power
In a relationship, dominance is very important, if everything is the man is dominating you, then gradually, you will lose your self-worth, the status will be lower and lower, more and more not valued by men. Think about it, can a woman who is not valued be very happy?
Women should slowly learn to take the lead, such as the family's savings should be controlled by themselves, the family chores should be ordered to be done by men, and the problems of children should be able to decide by themselves. Only then will men value you enough and respect you.
Fourth, properly appreciate, do not complain
In life, many things, large and small, are unsatisfactory, and when the things you hope for do not meet your expectations, you will be angry and irritable, and you will be discouraged by accusing and complaining about the people around you, which is actually the most unwise behavior. First of all, things don't change because of your complaints and accusations, and secondly, your accusations and complaints will make the other half feel bad, and over time, this negative emotion will make the other half disgusted.
At this time, women should know how to control their emotions, consider from the other side's position, properly appreciate it, and say that if they do it themselves, they may not be as good as him, do not skimp on praise, many times, your praise will make the other party ecstatic, and will also let the other party respect and get along with you.