Wen | Dumbbell Mom
I once read a sentence on the Internet: "Born to be a human being, I advise you to be kind." In this complex society, sometimes a momentary kindness is really precious.
I once saw a documentary in which a man broke down on a stormy night and was rescued by a stranger when he was helpless and lonely. When he gave the other person a large sum of dollars, he was refused, and the other party only asked for a promise: "You only need to help three strangers and you will return the favor to me." He was shocked, but he did it unconsciously.
In the time that followed, he helped three strangers, and strangers helped other strangers, and in the end, this activity became a trend, which caused great repercussions in society and warmed the hearts of countless people.
Curious, the reporter began to search for the truth, and finally discovered that the great inventor was a young child named Trevor.
The origin of the matter is this: one day the teacher assigned an assignment, how to make the world a better place? Trevor thought about it for a long time and found that if it is passed three times, the geometric accumulation can change the world, which is his love equation.
So he immediately took action, trying to help the three strangers, not asking for anything in return, but asking for a promise: in the days to come, he would also help others unconditionally.
When he really went all out to help three strangers and asked for nothing in return, just a promise, a magical event happened. Everyone's already numb hearts were warmed by the little boy, and in the days to come, they really worked hard to pass on the little kindness and pass on the love.
The movie is called "Let Love Pass Out", and the little boy's actions have inspired every parent. Let parents understand that educating children does not need to do big things, but only needs to let children understand: do not do nothing with kindness and smallness, this is enough.
I have seen a news before that a driver came home at 11 p.m., helped a substitute driver, and won a positive cash reward of 5,000 yuan. In the subsequent interview, he said a sentence that made people feel the original intention of this person: "If you can help others, try to help, just think like this."
Yes, in this vast world, sometimes a person's small heart-warming action may warm a world.
In real life, there are now many positive energy people on the Internet, caring for the elderly and children, so that the world is full of love. Yes, this society needs more ordinary good people like "drivers", giving a little love and filling the world with sunshine and warmth.
So how do parents raise their children and become good people?
Help your child to feel what others are feeling
If you want your child to be a good person, you must first let your child have a kind and soft heart. They empathize well with others, feel how others feel, and know when others will be happy and when others will be sad. And when he can feel the feelings of others, he will care more about others and will more likely inspire his determination to help others.
Transmission to children: the belief that helping others is the basis of happiness
One sunny day, a little boy saw many small fish stranded in small puddles and unable to return to the river.
So he had an idea: to help them get back into the water.
He went back and forth between the river and the small puddle again and again, and came back to run, sweat soaking through his clothes.
An adult ran over and asked the child in doubt, "You can't save all the little fish, even if you try your best, who cares?" ”
The little boy replied firmly, "This little fish cares, this little fish also cares, and every time I help a small fish, I am very happy!" ”
Yes, the child's words are simple but full of philosophy, as long as they help a person, a life, there is no need to calculate the results and pay. Because, in the process of helping others, I have already harvested great happiness.
Therefore, if parents want their children to become a good person, they only need to let their children understand that helping others is the basis of happiness. Take the child to feel the process of helping others, but also take the child to feel the joy of being thanked by others.
The world is big, but it's also small, and I want more parents to teach their children their children to be a good person. And when there are more and more good people in the world, the child's world is a better world, right?