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How do you educate your children who are about to enter their senior year of high school?

My eldest son is about to start his third year of high school, and something very unpleasant has happened in the past two days. There are only a few days left in this summer vacation, and I asked him if he had finished his summer vacation homework? He said, done. How did I not notice that his homework is fake, but secretly playing games, just yesterday let him go to the preventive injection, after he left, I cleaned up the bed for him, only to find the old mobile phone he bought, by the way to check the summer vacation homework, math English physical chemistry and biology are not finished, instantly put me angry to explode, wait for him to return from the preventive injection, I asked him viciously, how can I have money to buy a mobile phone? Why lie and lie to your mom? He told me that the two old phones were bought with the money I usually saved for his breakfast. I asked him to untie the screen of his phone, and he actually smashed the phone, and my blood pressure soared! He punched him with more than ten punches, and he actually said let me fight, let me get out of breath. Alas I'm really dying of rage! After that, he finished a biology book in a few hours, and I called him for dinner, and he actually said that he didn't want to go to school. I also said by the way, if you don't want to go to school, don't go to school, follow your parents to learn to do business, work! Just this morning at 3:30 called him up, he really got up, went with his dad to buy goods, and was busy all morning. When he got home, his face was very ugly, and he slept in bed without eating lunch, until three o'clock in the afternoon I called him up, I said, yesterday I beat and scolded you was my mistake, I always can't hold my breath, I won't be like this again, neither of us should be angry. By four o'clock in the afternoon, you were going to set up a stall to sell goods, you look at the heavy rain of God Hula, God hurts so much, you don't let you work hard and tired work? He looked up at me, looked down, and said again, you have arranged your own study situation, why don't you finish your homework first and play the game? If, after you finish your homework, review the review, and memorize the back, I will not scold you when you are playing a game! You woke up at one o'clock in the night, went to the toilet three times with a stomachache, and silently said a hundred times, you are my own child! You look at mom's hair, how much is white? How many people like Mom and I have business to do at home, little brother to take care of, and four trips to your school every day? He kept his head down and buttoned his nails, and I was still talking, look at the girl next door who was in high school, her mother played mahjong every day, she gave her mother more money at school, never cared about her studies. Also, your rented house was very shabby when you were in high school, I want to rent you a clean and big house, but there is not so much money, my mother got up early and greedy, not afraid of hard work to earn money and finally paid off the mortgage, and it was hard to save some money, this year to change you a big room, clean, no musty smell. Also tell the landlord well, wait for the start of the school to pay the room fee, you said you dropped out of school, five thousand yuan to others, let the house idle there? Or to tell the landlord that you quit school and the house is not rented, the house is left for you not to rent outside, you now say that you do not rent people in the rent can not rent out, let the mother how to be a person? If you really don't want to go to school, I will pay five thousand! Big deal I cried for three days and three nights. Talking and talking, I am really sad, tears involuntarily fall down, yesterday hit you and scolded you, really hate iron is not steel! How did you become an enemy of my own son? I cried bitterly, and he said, OK I'll write my homework and you go out... I cried sadly, and this child didn't know how to comfort my mother [tearful] A person staring at the rain outside the window...