Happiness does not mean finding a prince, but they are still clinging to it in their hearts

Happiness does not mean finding a prince. In love, most people have a consensus: if you want to be happy, find a Prince Charming who is happier than you. In fact, it's a classic dating mistake. It's like a parable in "Waiting for the Rabbit": in order to eat rabbits, keep the stump so that when the rabbits are easy to hit, hold on! This is the same as the probability of winning the lottery

Moreover, the happiness and happiness of my whole life will be entrusted to a Prince Charming who dreams of himself. He decided to live a good life. And, I can tell you, this false moral notion will only hinder your youth

I believe that some girls know this idea, but they are still clinging to it in their hearts and want to be the best one. Because we hear chicken soup so often: everything is the best arrangement, even if you lose, it doesn't matter, because there are better things behind, etc. In fact, what I see is giving myself an excuse to solve a problem that can't be solved at the moment

In fact, if you think Jesus has created a perfect prince for you, you just have to wait for the light and the opportunity to get rid of the feeling that you can meet, and you may never find someone who can meet you. Because no man is born the ideal partner for a woman. In other words, even if you meet the person you call it, you may not get the happiness you want. For at the beginning of love, they all put on a veil of flow to cover up the decline; when you have enough time to get along, the ugly one will be defeated. At that time, if you can't handle the veil, then the most realistic problem will be doomed to a futile love

It is understandable that a woman wants fairytale love, like a princess and a prince. Love is what people expect and desperately need. But the truth is not a fairy tale after all. If you're immersed in fairy tales for a long time, you can't accept a man who has fewer "princes" moments, which will make you grasp the ups and downs and boundaries of your relationship, and will also make him tired of the relationship. In fact, men are protective and want women to rely on themselves, but they are all ordinary people and they will have trouble and will close their doors. They also want women. Whether they can bring their own emotional value and help each other in their future lives. That's why a lot of men are dating a girl, but that's because when they want to get married, they turn to marry someone because the score they give you is the standard for their girlfriend

So, happiness is not really a drop. We've seen a lot of people happy, we've seen a couple go to the Civil Affairs Bureau every day to divorce and talk about love; two comparisons, we have to think deeply, point out a place can make people have fun? A place where people go their separate ways? Be sure to find evidence, but some people don't know the secret, or some locals don't know the secret, so I'll summarize the following ways to get love

First of all, we must establish a correct moral concept: love depends on the operation of both husband and wife, can not be without their own partners, the same person who wants to get rich by buying lottery tickets have the same psychology, hope to get rich effortlessly

You should know that every mature relationship goes through four stages: coexistence, struggle, doubt, and symbiosis. At each stage, the relationship between business models is different

The stage of coexistence, which we call the period of passionate love. At this stage, the viscosity of the two people is high and they should be together for 24 hours. Their words and deeds are beautiful in your eyes. You'll feel like you're a destined pair and they're your Prince Charming. But as the novelty fades, so does the appeal of nature. At that point, if the two of you have poor endurance and can't meet each other's shortcomings, they may part ways at this stage

But if you get along well, you will naturally move on to the second phase of your relationship. So when our relationship enters a phase, you have to remind yourself that it's a normal phenomenon. At this time, you must actively communicate with the other party instead of worrying that you are wrong again! Hearing this, I suggest you take the time to listen. The way to maintain affection is in it. Learning can brighten up your life! Therefore, Qian Qi is not good at indulging in fairy tale love. As long as you like it, you have to manage it well and learn to understand and accept each other. Remember, the happiness of love must be managed