Regarding the life of husband and wife, there is such a sentence, poor and lowly couples Pepsi mourn.
In the face of poverty, both men and women will be under financial pressure and forget the original purpose of life, forget the reason why two people are together.
If two people, together, are in love with each other, like each other, and want to be with each other for a lifetime, don't give up, say dislike, and say that they are not out of the ordinary when they are poor and when the conditions at home are not good.
If one wants to be rich, first of all, he must be spiritually rich.
Economically poor, can change.
Spiritual poverty and stubbornness are sometimes the most terrible.
Therefore, if you want to get rid of poverty, you must get rid of mental limitations.
In the relationship between husband and wife, the mental pressure brought about by poverty is easy to make people overwhelmed, and even complain, say harsh words, and blame each other for incompetence.
Especially for women, even if the conditions at home are not good, don't say these 3 things to men.
This will not only destroy the feelings of two people, but also easily destroy their own men and destroy their hard-won homes.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="13" > first: no money, don't show the pendulum. </h1>
In the married life of men and women, sometimes the conditions at home are not good, and women begin to restrict men's freedom, and even dislike men.
For example, if a man occasionally invites guests and lets women know, women will say "they have no money, what does it stink."
In fact, this kind of talk is the most detrimental to men's self-confidence, and even makes men feel that they are with you and have lost their freedom.
If you don't dare to do anything, you will invite guests to dinner, and you will secretly deceive and dare not let you know.
Many times, men socially invite guests to dinner, but it is just to make connections and draw relationships.
It doesn't have to be a show, and it's not about loving face.
In fact, when men are poor, they should socialize outside and look for opportunities to make money.
Instead of being afraid of anything, not daring to do anything, relying on saving money to live a good life.
Women may not want such results, but women say such things, and in many cases, it is easy to make their men weak and dare not come forward with anything.
Getting poorer and poorer, getting unluckier.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="61" > second: I don't know how many pounds I have</h1>
For women, from the time you dislike a man, you have begun to block the man's road to prosperity.
When a man is poor, he must find ways to support him, even if he fails, do not be discouraged.
A person cannot easily succeed, but he needs to grope and work hard in countless times of failed experience to make achievements.
If you can't afford a man's countless failures, you'll never meet a man who can succeed.
The world is sometimes unfair, sometimes it's fair.
The woman behind a successful man often experiences grievances and persistence that ordinary women cannot bear.
Women must not "hit" a man just because he is poor.
Say that men don't know how many pounds they have.
This kind of talk will especially hit men's self-confidence, make men become withdrawn in the face of things, and even blame all the faults on women.
Because of the woman's blow and the woman's support, many things have become abandoned halfway, and the more they retreat, the more there is no way to retreat, and finally enter a desperate situation.
In short, complaining to each other and not supporting each other will not only make it worse on the basis of the original poverty, but also make the feelings of the two people completely cold.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="59" > Third: Do you have money? </h1>
In real life, some women have problems once they encounter problems, or argue with men.
Instead of solving the current problem positively, but putting "no money" on the lips, a sentence of "Do you have money" has become all the sins, and the man is dumbfounded.
This kind of talk will make men think that women are speechless and boring.
Sometimes this attitude of "money" makes it easy for men to feel that women are particularly materialistic and look down on women.
In addition, life forced by money can sometimes ruin men.
Not all men are particularly serious about money, and not all men will make money.
If you only rely on money to maintain this married life, then this marriage is doomed to collapse.
Whether husband and wife are blessed and enjoy the same difficulties, or whether they fly separately when the great difficulties are imminent, it depends on the way they treat life.
It is especially worth mentioning that in real life, the more you chant money every day, or use money as the destination to do things.
Things don't work out well, and money won't be earned. At the very least, you won't make a lot of money.
Often successful people do not account for temporary gains and losses.