Eat breakfast hurriedly go out to run errands, before leaving and discuss with the girl, wash the dishes, clean up the table, and then practice the instrument (guzheng, piano, guitar arbitrarily choose) according to yesterday's old habits for an hour, listen to the beautiful music when you go out, feel very comfortable, say hello and leave the house without saying anything, about half an hour or so back, the girl is still playing the guzheng, gently walking to her, listening carefully, quietly watching, admiring...
I felt a little different when I bounced to the second half, and hurriedly asked the girl: "You changed it in the back part," "Yes, I changed it, changed it to a shaking finger," the girl said confidently, "Why?" I asked incomprehensibly, "Because I feel that this is better, the melody is more distinct" The girl said to me emphatically, and I nodded convincingly, All right! I believe that the child has her own unique ideas for doing this, and the way of thinking in peacetime is different.
Promised the girl to order takeout at noon today, as she wished! Ordered her favorite lunch, and after a while the phone rang, and she habitually told me, "The takeaway is coming, you answer the phone!" I said quietly and slowly: "No, you pick up, you can, I believe you can handle this matter well", seeing that I don't have any motivation to help intervene, you are alone and you are in a phone contact and hurrying out to get takeaway, the whole thing is handled perfectly, at this moment as a mother, my heart blossomed.
Many parents in the way to raise their children, is very worried, feel that discipline children is not so easy to do, hold in the hand afraid that he flew, in the mouth afraid that he melted, please give the child some opportunities, but also give themselves a chance to fly, let us believe that the child is an expert to solve their own problems.
A good parent-child relationship does not happen suddenly, and parents need to learn well to cope with the various situations that their children encounter in the process of growing up.
Henan Yangxia Psychological Studio Cheng Hongchun2021-8-6