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Wen | the night was raining
Not long ago, I saw such a heart-wrenching news on Weibo:
A student at North Central University said goodbye to his roommate before graduation, and after graduation, he quit all groups and deleted all roommates.
The deleted roommate left a helpless red exclamation point on the screen:
Since none of us matter in your heart, good luck to you!
Seeing this news, many netizens can't help but sigh in the message area:
The friendships of contemporary adults are so fragile!
With the fermentation of heat, this news has caused a heated discussion in Zhihu.
Knowingly support the classmates who delete their friends.
"Deleting you only after graduation shows that you have endured it for a long time."
"You should be glad she deleted you instead of cutting you."
In a word, Weibo reported the news of "Chengdu University of Technology Female Students' Graduation Ceremony Cutting People" the next day.
Coincidentally, the slasher and the slashed person are also roommates.
Such a comparison, I instantly feel that the deletion room is friendly a lot.
The contradiction between the two news parties is unknown. But I have to admit:
Adult friendships are either like-minded or profitable, and when the common good ceases to exist, friendships are often scattered.
In the adult world, not tearing the face is good to get together and disperse.
I have a friend who just graduated from college and works as a programmer at an Internet company.
She is often squeezed by the manager, even if it is 996 every day, and the product manager often tells the boss about his bad words. Therefore, although the two were not alarmed on the surface, they secretly pinched each other.
Because of the company's slump, a group of people were quickly dismissed. When the friend was forcibly dismissed, she packed up her things and prepared to go out, but the manager greeted her with a smile and wished her a smooth journey.
"They all resigned, so they must export their evil spirits!"
And she waved goodbye with a smile on her face, as if she had been an old friend for many years.
Friends said that the reason why they did not tear their faces was because they were still in a circle, and there might be a chance to reunite in the future.
Children distinguish between right and wrong, and adults only look at the pros and cons. Rather than being refreshing, the "feng shui" in the future is more important.
Without tearing your face, just pretend to be good to get together and disperse!
Can't help but think of the previous episode of "Xu Fei tears Shang Wenjie by hand" -
On the stage of the ace to ace of the variety show, Shang Wenjie sang on the stage, and the 4 super girlfriends behind her slowly appeared, and Shang Wenjie squatted on the ground excitedly and cried.
Originally, it was the plot of the script of "Family Fun", but Xu Fei began to question Shang Wenjie:
I have sent you private messages on Weibo, and you never reply. I think this memory is very precious, why did you lose us?
In fact, the subtext is, you Shang Wenjie will not play with us when she becomes the champion?
In the face of Xu Fei's cross-examination, Shang Wenjie gave an embarrassing explanation, and later made a lot of noise on Weibo.
In fact, why do "former friends" drift away? Each of us has a number in mind.
However, one person is "raising a tall building and feasting on guests", while the other person has fallen into the dust and gradually mediocre.
Just like the birds in the sky and the fish on the bottom of the sea, they are destined to be people of different worlds.
Such a thing happened more than once, and when the Zhu Gege crew reunited, The supporting roles of Jian Meng Dan and Liu Qingliu Hong were all together.
But the scene was full of honey juice and embarrassment: so many people were helpless and had a grudging smile on their faces.
When it comes to the old part, because there is really nothing to talk about. Fu Lun asked Zhao Wei: How did you grow taller?
Zhao Wei was stunned: "Ah, yes, I have grown taller."
The reason why it is so embarrassing is because Zhao Wei became popular after starring in "Little Swallow". However, the supporting actors are gradually eliminated by the market and are invisible.
The former is not necessarily better than the latter, but on the stage of the actor, Zhao Wei and the latter are no longer a coffee position.
Strong twisted melons are not sweet, and people whose strength does not match are doomed to drift away.
Growth is inherently good and cherished, and social interaction should not be glass hearted
Everyone's growth is all the way and all the way lost. What has passed is the years, and what is lost is people and feelings.
The writer Long Yingtai said:
Life, in fact, is like a road from a wide plain into the forest.
On the plains companions can walk in groups, pushing forward and backward happily, and frothing with each other; once they enter the forest, and the grass and thorns block the way, the situation changes, and each person concentrates on each other's path, looking for each other's direction.
Because of this, feelings cannot be forced.
Singers Xiao S and Fan Weiqi are very close friends, and it is said that the song "One Like Summer, One Like Autumn" commemorates the friendship between the two.
But later, the two people gradually drifted apart because of different careers.
When Fan Weiqi was pregnant, Xiao S heard the news and quickly ran to the hospital.
Unexpectedly, Fan Weiqi already had new friends. Liang Jingru, Yang Qingxuan and others gathered around her. And Little S is cramped like an outsider.
When your good friend has a new social circle, will you still struggle to keep him from leaving you?
I don't think so, we'll choose to leave her decently and find the next confidant.
Friends, originally people who have accompanied you through a journey. So there is no need to force it, and it is good to do it and cherish it.
Friendship that is too demanding will be embarrassing.
People who have attended a classmate's meeting once and once sat in a classroom have different fates:
The most moving Banhua of that year has been married to a woman, and she has been contaminated with fireworks in the vegetable market;
Xueba took the iron rice bowl of the civil servant, but the last one became a big boss.
The hot female classmates have become frustrated women who have been ravaged by life, and the quiet nature has become a lot more extroverted.
People at a dinner table have different fates, different personalities, and different three views. I want to try to pull some topics, but I can't talk much.
Memories are buried in the memory of the frivolous skin, each other has long been a thing and a person. After this meal, everyone is familiar with strangers.
A good gathering and a good dispersion is the best ending.
As Zhang Ailing said to Yan Ying, I don't like a person who always talks to me about the past, as if I were a dead person.
Although sharp, it is not necessarily unreasonable.
Doomed to leave, it is better to leave the coolest back
In the adult world: When a friendship is doomed to not last, the best ending is to wave goodbye, bless each other, and go their separate ways.
Deleting each other is also another sense of ceremony.
If you're angry that your friend deleted himself, the right thing to do is delete them as well. Then improve yourself with your heart.
And the best thing is that one day, the other party regretted deleting you and wanted to add it back to you secretly when he found out:
Sorry, you're not a good friend of the other person.
I'm sure deleted friends don't blame me, just as I didn't blame them.
Since they are destined to drift apart, mutual deletion is also a decent thing.
Get to know each other, wish you a bright future, and go farther and farther.
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【Typography | Drizzle】
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