Mahone just taught you how to quit gambling

Quit gambling quotes

(2010-07-24 13:18:08) reprinted▼

1. The most interesting thing is a pair of Spring Leagues:

One yuan, two yuan, three yuan, yuan yuan are all hard-earned money. Sons, wives, houses, and children are all treasures in the family.

(Horizontal batch: never participate in gambling)

2. Nine out of ten gamblers lose, and the family is not as good as a pig.

3. Persuade Jun mo to gamble, gambling is a harmful beach, harm you to go down the beach and overturn the boat, harm your wife to leave home and scatter, persuade Jun Mo to talk about gambling is strong, gambling to make a fortune improper, lose money to steal and rob, the law of the land sentences you to go to prison.

4. When you win money, you don't know how to save money, and when you lose money, you use the old book in frustration.

5. The "gambling" network is restored, and the "lose" is not leaked.

6. Gamble and gamble You can think of your parents, fish, you can think of your children's school bags

7. Gamble and gamble Relatives and friends go into battle, lose and lose, brothers look at each other and do not recognize people. "His wife and daughter are scattered, his legs are lame, his parents are also angry with him early, and his life is basically to eat a meal without eating!" Seeing his end, it is like seeing my future life, his today is my end tomorrow, as long as I continue to gamble, I will definitely lose worse. Ma Hongming, who once had a career of 16 years old, said that he began to gamble at the age of 12, addicted to gambling, until he saw the tragic fate of his friends, he suddenly woke up, decided to be a new person, and wanted to help more people stay away from gambling through his own efforts.

Now, Ma Honggang has stepped up his anti-gambling efforts. He not only published a book about his gambling experience, but also distributed his own recorded CDs in the book to reveal the mysteries of the thousand tricks. "If you gamble, you're a loser." Yesterday, in an interview with this reporter, Ma Hongming said that a few days ago, he had become a well-known "anti-gambling fighter", and more than 600 people quit gambling addiction with his help. Personal experience infected with gambling addiction Gambling addiction to gambling

Ma Hong was just born in an ordinary rural family in Panjin City, Liaoning Province, and began to gamble at the age of 12, playing "Pai Jiu" and "Cockfighting" with adults in their 40s and 50s, "At that time, if I could win more than 100, I would not be able to go to school." After that, Mahon began to practice "gambling" and became a professional veteran.

　Reporter: How did you start gambling at the age of 12?

Ma Honggang: At that time, I was still young, and I actually didn't have the concept of gambling in my head, so I thought it was fun and exciting. In the northeast, in the winter, there is basically no farm work to be busy in the countryside, the weather is too cold, and adults gather at home to play cards. At that time, our children also played cards together during the winter vacation, so the family's growth environment was very important for children.

Reporter: What kind of state would a gambler be in if he was addicted to gambling?

Ma Honggang: Gambling will win money, which makes gamblers have a kind of psychology, when they win, they will be excited, and they want to continue to win, that is, if they lose, they still want to win back what they lost. Once a person is infected with "gambling addiction", he will regard gambling as his life, addicted to gambling, do not want to work, have no intention of starting a business, and the result is that the fields are barren, the business is interrupted, the career is premature, and even the tragedy of life and family misfortune are caused.

Reporter: In your personal experience, when does a person become a gambling addict?

Ma Honggang: Simply put, it can be divided into three stages:

Winning stage: At the beginning of winning a lot of money, people become very optimistic, thinking that they will always win, this idea leads to overexcitement and increasing chips.

Losing stage: This is the second stage of gambling, when you start losing money, you always want to win back the money you lost. In general, they start gambling alone, reluctant to let his family and friends know the facts of gambling. The more money you lose, the more you have to start borrowing or stealing money to satisfy your gambling desires.

Desperate Phase: At this stage, they spend all their time gambling and start having debt problems. They may be unemployed and have difficulty jumping out of a dangerous vicious circle. To this extent, they will feel hopeless and have suicidal thoughts, or develop a series of problems such as family breakdown, alcoholism, drug addiction, or mental problems. Quit gambling addiction and become an "anti-gambling fighter"

In April 2009, Ma Honggang opened his own anti-gambling club in Shenyang, helping people quit gambling for free, trying to help families who were unhappy because of gambling and prodigal sons who were addicted to casinos. He also publicized anti-gambling through the media and became a well-known "anti-gambling fighter". As of now, more than 600 people have quit gambling with his help.

Reporter: After the success of quitting gambling, why did you stand up and fight back?

Ma Honggang: There is an old saying called "the tree wants to be quiet, but the wind does not stop." If only I quit myself, others did not quit, or did not know the meaning of quitting gambling, then I will soon repeat it, because after all, people are always easily affected by the surrounding environment.

Reporter: Can you briefly introduce what changes have taken place in the lives of those people you have advised to abstain from gambling?

Ma Honggang: At first, their living conditions were very good, very comfortable, whether it was family life or work, once one of them became addicted to gambling, it was different, many people lost their families, their wives and children were separated... That's it, or a gamble!

Reporter: How did you help them quit gambling? What are the methods and methods?

Ma Honggang: The method of treating different people is slightly different, and some people have a great gambling addiction and repeat it several times. But the ultimate goal is to let him/her know that there is no chance for him/her to win money in the casino, which is a bottomless pit, because thousands of tricks are everywhere, and how much money is filled in is not enough. Generally for such people I will try "collapse therapy", that is, I have been betting with them, so that they have no chance to win, so that they are sober and believe in the existence of a thousand techniques. After the collapse, let them re-realize the preciousness of family affection and the direction of life. To quit gambling, you have to fight with two enemies, one is your own inner gambling addiction; the other is the surrounding environment, in fact, to put it bluntly, that is, to defeat yourself, you must have the confidence and perseverance to quit gambling, and persevere to the end. In fact, gambling is also an interest, but it is only one of many bad interests, so sometimes we will help gamblers to transfer their interests, enrich their lives, and make gambling have no advantage in time. There is also a psychological therapy, in fact, psychological experts also have analysis, in addition to the general entertainment card play, repeated gamblers can be regarded as mental illness patients, can be called "gambling dependence", serious is a mental illness called "pathological gambling disorder". All in all, quitting gambling is a process of combining inside and outside, so as to eventually overcome. We are now also considering inviting professional psychologists and psychiatrists to join our club, so that we can help more gamblers get out of the sea of gambling. Quit gambling experience "Just bet and you're going to lose"

From the original "Thousand Kings" to the current "anti-gambling fighter", the turning point that made Ma Hongming wake up and change his life was the fate of another old man. I had won him a lot of money "in the game", and he didn't know that I was also an "old man". At that time, when I saw his end, I felt quite guilty, and it was he who let me see my future life, his end today is my end tomorrow, as long as I continue to gamble, I will definitely lose more miserably."

Reporter: Whether it's from your TV show or your book now, what do you want to tell people through your personal experience?

Ma Honggang: In fact, whether it is doing TV shows or publishing books, I have always insisted on my original intention: let a thousand techniques be revealed to the world, through the narration of my personal experience, let everyone understand the thousand skills, deeply understand the harm of gambling, and eventually stay away from gambling and live a healthy life. I hope that Ma Honggang can become a symbol, a symbol of anti-gambling, I believe that under my influence, there will be a lot of "Ma Honggang" appearing, and now it is indeed so, many people across the country have joined our anti-gambling camp and become "anti-gambling fighters", which I am very pleased, and the book "Dark Lights" is just another starting point in my anti-gambling career, the book not only records my personal 15-year career, but also has a detailed secret of the thousand skills, with the secret disc that I personally recorded, I believe that whether it is for gamblers or the general public, this anti-gambling strength is unprecedented.

Reporter: Is there a shady scene in the casino? Is it that as long as you gamble, you will definitely lose, and there is no possibility of winning?

Ma Honggang: Gambling money ten bets nine fraud, no gambling is not fraudulent, often walking by the river without wet shoes. "Old thousand" this thing, today this casino does not have "old thousand", tomorrow no, the day after tomorrow will definitely have. As long as you gamble, there is an existence of "old thousands", do not have illusions. Some people pretend to be very smart and understand, but in fact, there are too many things you don't understand, so don't have illusions. Some people are half-clear, thinking that they have two shots and are smart, and such a person can lose more and more. Once a person loses money, he loses by betting ten thousand, the next one dares to bet twenty thousand, twenty thousand loses he dares to bet eighty thousand, eighty thousand loses he dares to double the bet, this is the psychology of the gambler. When he loses, he always wants to fish back, and the deeper he fishes. He has the illusion that today I lost, tomorrow I can definitely win back, my luck can not always be so bad. In fact, he was not unlucky, he just let the "old thousand" deceive. I mentioned in the book "Dark Lights" that "if you don't gamble, you win, you bet, you lose." Quit gambling by your own will

No one who quit gambling is said to be successful in one go, and Ma Honggang is the same, who has gone through a iterative process. Ma Honggang said: "There are drug rehabilitation centers in society and there are no gambling centers, which does not mean that gambling addiction is easier to quit than drug addiction. Some people have struggled with their gambling addiction all their lives, but they have failed again and again, and finally buried their lives. ”

Reporter: In your experience of quitting gambling, what do you think is the most important thing for a person to quit gambling?

Ma Honggang: My experience is mainly twofold: one is to overcome myself; the other is to overcome the environment. To quit gambling, you have to fight against two enemies, one is your own inner gambling addiction, you must have the confidence and perseverance to quit gambling, and persevere to the end. The most important thing is your own willpower!

Reporter: In the process of quitting gambling, what attitude should the gambler's family adopt towards the gambling party?

Ma Honggang: The family of a gambler must first know that it takes a long time to quit gambling, and it is not possible to forcibly quit gambling at once. It can gradually evolve from reducing the bet, reducing the gambling time, and finally evolving into a pure "health card", no longer winning or losing. Family members should be patient with gamblers and let them feel more cared for. Especially between words, we should pay attention to the fact that always complaining and bad words are directed at each other, which may lead to the breaking of the jar and the random fall, resulting in a psychological mistake to the end. To melt the gambling ice with the warmth of the family. Especially when he starts to quit gambling, starts a normal life, and starts working hard, don't be stingy to give them verbal encouragement. Gamblers should be encouraged to engage in activities that are physically and mentally beneficial. Cultivate his other interests and hobbies, realize the warmth of his family and the importance of family affection, so as to get away from gambling faster and live a healthy life! Mahone just quit gambling

1. No one can get rich by gambling, and the money won should not be spent, and it will come and go quickly.

2. To quit gambling, you have to fight against two enemies, one is your own inner gambling addiction, and the other is the surrounding environment.

3. "Small bets are pleasant, big bets are fatal", in fact, big bets start from small bets.

4. If you don't gamble, you win, you gamble, you lose, and if you want to not lose, there is only one way, that is, to stay away from gambling.

5. Casinos are a dark world, and I want to be a beacon in this dark world. Although I can't illuminate the whole dark world, as long as I exist one day, I will let this dark world see the light.