This year, the reality TV show "Sister Please Eat" hit,
Three Hong Kong sisters Cai Shaofen, Chen Farong, Hong Xin and "Purple Xia Fairy" Zhu Yin shared the stage, because the "unreliable" Mandarin caused a lot of laughter.
It is affectionately known as "Gangpu F4" by netizens.
Among these 4 people, only Chen Farong is still single, in the show, when asked why he remains single,
She said: I have been asked to marry many times, but I just feel that it is not suitable, so I have separated.
Because of her own insecurity, she always felt that the other party would not love her for a long time.
As the most urban Hong Kong sister, why is Chen Farong so uneasy in the face of feelings?
It all starts with her heart-wrenching past.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" >01 bereaved mother</h1>
Chen Farong was born in a middle-class family, and her father bought a house in Hong Kong in business.
In a place where Hong Kong is scarce, it is a very happy thing to have your own home, and it is a very happy thing for a family of four to live together.
With the love of her brother and parents, before the age of 8, she was a little princess in the castle, unaware of human suffering.
But after the age of 8, she fell to the bottom.
The tender and loving mother had cancer, which was a huge thunder that blew up the family.
In order to treat her mother's illness, the family's savings were all spent, and the house was sold, but the mother finally died.
A family of four became a family of three, the father in order to earn money to pay off debts, every day out of the morning and late return, the brother also for the sake of living, go out to find a casual job.
Chen Farong can only stay at home alone, the family has changed, Chen Farong also grew up overnight, she never cried, after the housework that she can do, she began to write her own homework and prepare for homework.
So Chen Farong's grades were very good, she was admitted to the University of Toronto, and after graduation, she entered the University of Hawaii and worked as a teacher's assistant in the school. Not only that, but the scholarships in the school are won by her every year.
Chen Farong is beautiful, temperament is good, there are many suitors in school, but Chen Farong is very naughty, every time someone comes to confess to her, she said: "I only talk to people who have better grades than me, how many points do you score on the exam?" ”
In school, Chen Farong's grades ranked first, and as soon as this word came out, no matter what kind of suitor he was, he immediately stopped.
In the later Hong Kong Sister Competition, Chen Farong was also the first Hong Kong sister with a university degree.
Speaking of which, the reason why she went to the competition is also sad.
< h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" >02 turns</h1>
Chen Farong, who works as a teaching assistant at the University of Hawaii, is very diligent and does not have much time to spare in a day.
Once, she suddenly fainted and fell to the ground, sent to the infirmary to let the school doctor pay attention to rest, Chen Farong did not think much about it, thinking that she was overworked. Later, she fainted again when she returned home, this time frightened, and she remembered her mother who had died of illness.
Accompanied by his father, he went to the hospital for examination. At the moment of hearing the result, Chen Farong collapsed, and Chen Father was suddenly several years older.
Who would have thought that Chen Farong, who was in a beautiful year, had a tumor.
Sick like a mountain, this time Chen Farong stopped, she recalled that in the past few years, she studied hard to work in order to earn a little more money and make life at home a little better, but she never thought about what she wanted.
Now that she was sick, the fear of her illness had relieved her that she wanted to do something she loved once.
So, she signed up for Hong Kong Sister.
During the selection interview of Hong Kong sister, the examiner asked her, why did she come to participate in Hong Kong sister?
Chen Farong was very confident, she said: "I am not here to compete, I am here to win." ”
Selection criteria for Hong Kong sisters:
Must be between 17-25 years of age;
To have talent, facial features to be outstanding;
In the arena, it can be said that the beauty is like a cloud, Chen Farong dares to say such a thing, it can be said that it is very crazy.
There is also a kind of open-minded fierceness.
Confident people are the most beautiful, it is this kind of madness, so that she is full of charm, coupled with exquisite facial features, she breaks through.
At the same time as the shortlist, her condition also came with good news, pathology reports came out, and the tumor was benign.
That feeling is to put death in the ground and be reborn.
It was when the scenery was proud, she chopped all the way to the final of the Hong Kong sister, and her dark hair was her must-kill skill.
Overnight, the streets of Hong Kong were full of news of her plastic surgery, and her hair was to cover up the traces of her plastic surgery.
If it is really plastic surgery, it is a taboo in the game, because Hong Kong sister wants natural beauty, not artificial beauty.
At that time, the Hong Kong sister selection team received countless complaints and calls, asking Chen Farong to withdraw from the competition, the selection team could not withstand the pressure, just when they wanted to issue a notice to inform Chen Farong that she could not continue to participate in the competition, Chen Farong did an earth-shattering thing.
She cut off her long hair!
In the history of Hong Kong sister selection, there has never been a contestant with short hair, which is a proof and a provocation!
Chen Farong can continue to compete, short hair makes people criticize, but at the same time, her neck is exposed, and the beauty is inseparable from the eyes.
After competing again and again, Chen Farong won the championship of Hong Kong Sister.
She is also the first Hong Kong sister with urban temperament and high education!
After completing the first thing he wanted to do, Chen Farong thought of the second.
She wants to shoot a scene with her idol Andy Lau!
So, she joined TVB and then participated in the Miss Chinese International competition, but this time, she did not come to win, but wanted to fight for the opportunity to shoot.
After her girlfriend Cai Shaofen knew her thoughts, she couldn't help but train her to be "childish"!
Later, she won the runner-up, became the heroine of Jacky Cheung's MV, and officially began to debut!
Debut is the peak, she and Li Ming, Liu Qingyun played, and later in "Gambler" with the comedy king Zhou Xingchi, the four heavenly kings Andy Lau play together.
This time, she fulfilled her dream of chasing stars!
She plays The Dragon Nine, with a short hair, beautiful and cool, men and women of all ages fall under her "pomegranate skirt"!
As an intern in the show business circle, Chen Farong is no less than acting on the same stage with Li Zhi and Li Jiaxin.
Chen Farong and Li Jiaxin have known each other for a long time, because Hong Kong sister won the championship and was awarded by Li Jiaxin. The relationship between the two is also very good, but I did not expect that the two would turn against each other because of a man.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" >03 romance</h1>
Chen Farong has 4 relationships, and her career is smooth sailing.
Heaven is jealous of the red face, her love is not so smooth.
After winning the Hong Kong Sister Championship, Chen Farong became the dream lover in the hearts of many people, including Yi Shu's nephew Ni Zhen.
Ni Zhen is Li Jiaxin's boyfriend, although Ni Zhen is not a rich man, but his mouth is honey oil, talking about love is a basket of baskets, Li Jiaxin and him, but also by his hundreds of love letters to be moved.
Unfortunately, beautiful words can not always anesthetize people, and they will always wake up after a long time. Li Jiaxin was with him for a year, and the two broke up.
After the breakup, he used sweet words to pursue Zhou Huimin, and Zhou Huimin was also powerless to resist him.
After getting Zhou Huimin, Ni Zhen did not know how to cherish the people in front of him, and when he saw his Hong Kong sister Chen Farong, he was moved. After an argument with Zhou Huimin, he turned around and went after Chen Farong.
Chen Farong had no worldly affairs, and in the face of Ni Zhen's sweet attack, she could not resist ah, and soon the two fell in love.
Forced Zhou Huimin to directly expose that Chen Farong is Xiao San, interfering in her and Ni Zhen's love affair.
Later, Chen Farong also clarified the matter in "Struggle Bar Anchor", saying that when they were together, Ni Zhen told her that she was already single.
In the end, Zhou Huimin and Ni Zhen flew away, and Chen Farong withdrew.
Once bitten by a snake, ten years afraid of well rope.
Chen Farong, who was emotionally broken, chose to numb herself with her work.
Since then, she has rotated and filmed 7 dramas in a row.
What is even more painful is that when she and Ren Dahua and Chen Lizhen filmed "Beautiful Legend", Chen Lizhen suddenly rushed forward and slapped Chen Farong a few times, and also called her a "crazy ghost fan" (neurosis), and even wanted to kick her, and later the crew came to pull Chen Lizhen out.
Going around, Chen Farong and Li Jiaxin's fate did not end here.
Because Chen Farong's second relationship, the object is Xu Jinheng, Chen Farong is really in love with Xu Jinheng, and even moved the idea of marrying him, the two talked about love for two months, and then followed Xu Jinheng back to see his parents.
Because Xu Jinheng's family will go out to play every year, when he fell in love with Chen Farong, he also invited Chen Farong to travel together, but at the same time, Xu Jinheng's old lover Hong Guang was also there.
Chen Farong has insight, temperament, she has her own pride, she can't convince herself to accept such a feeling.
So he left a sentence "Falling in love is a matter of two people, three people are too crowded" to end the love affair with Xu Jinheng, the grandson of the ship king.
Years later, Xu Jinheng, who had enough to win the heart, married Li Jiaxin, who presented the award to Chen Farong.
After the announcement of the wedding, Li Jiaxin and Chen Farong shared the stage together, and a reporter asked Li Jiaxin if he would invite Xu Jinheng's former lovers to drink happy wine.
Chen Farong was very embarrassed on the side, but Li Jiaxin was very calm, saying: "A certain need for embarrassment, anyway, it is a matter of the last century, to be a person to the front, I like a certain love experience, as for please drink, then first talk about it." (There is no need to be embarrassed, it is all a matter of the last century, people have to look forward, I don't like people who have no love experience, as for please drink happy wine, I will talk about it later). ”
After this incident, Chen Farong came to the inland to shoot a scene.
If all the people she had met before were bad people, then the Yang Junyi she met in the inland was her mr right.
Yang Junyi was not as rich as the previous ones, and his fame was not high, but he spoiled Chen Farong everywhere and loved her very much, but in the end, love was still invincible to family affection.
Yang Junyi's mother did not look up to Chen Farong, felt that she had too many scandals, could not afford Yang Junyi, and the 4-year relationship ended without illness.
Later, the news that Chen Farong was wearing a wedding dress was again with her fourth boyfriend, Zhu Ming.
At that time, Zhu Ming was the oil king of Hong Kong, worth billions, and was very generous to Chen Farong, luxury cars, bags, and new clothes, all of which were well matched and sent to Chen Farong's home.
Zhu Mingren is fat and very honest, Chen Farong is also very satisfied with him, taking him to see his father and brother, and even handing over his own property to Zhu Ming to take care of, the two set up a wedding dress, and discussed a good day.
But on the eve of the wedding, Zhu Ming ran away, disappearing without a trace with Chen Farong's property.
Not only that, but also left a large amount of debt to Chen Farong.
It turned out that Zhu Ming was not a rich man at all, he was a proper liar, and all the information was false.
After this matter was exposed, Chen Farong was also pushed to the cusp of the storm and was scolded: Money slave, see money eyes open, be deceived!
This time being deceived became a pain in Chen Farong's heart, so she suffered from depression, but fortunately finally got out of the predicament with the help of friends and relatives.
However, the wound in the heart is always there.
She said: That person's name can't be spoken out of my mouth until now, and my heart hurts when I say it.
In these few relationships, Chen Farong is the one who is hurt the most, but although the predecessors are no longer good, after separation, Chen Farong has not denigrated them a word.
In "Quiet Distance", she said this: "I will feel that two people who have loved each other, if they break up in the back, it is a pity to say that everyone is not good, after all, two people have loved." 」 ”
After being abandoned by Zhu Ming, there are also many people who pursue Chen Farong, but in the face of feelings, she said: As long as a woman is healthy, her parents love you, and she has many good friends, although it is quite lonely during the festival, it is better than being with someone who makes you unhappy.
Ning Que is not indiscriminate, a trip to the next world, why should he wronged himself.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" >04 alone beautiful</h1>
Today, Chen Farong is 54 years old, but she is still beautiful alone.
After the precipitation of time, she became wiser and wiser, and when she had time, she met with three or two confidants to talk about the latest situation.
It was really boring, so I joined a group with my girlfriend to participate in the show.
Not only that, she also cooperated with Zhu Yin to open a company and became the boss herself.
In the face of the past chicken feathers, she accepted it calmly and faced it calmly.
As she said on social software: there is no age in the world that must be married, only the object that must be married, do not start casually, do not rush to compromise, single or married, life is your own, how to be happy and how to live.
Life is always ever-changing, and I hope that happy heart will never change.