The author | Xie Minghong
Editor| Li Chunhui
Mestrovich's post-emotional theory argues that in contemporary societies where consumerism is prevalent, "emotion" is becoming an emotion that is rationalized and manipulated. It is not a spontaneous real emotion in the traditional sense, but a form of social emotion produced by the mass media.
The "beautiful love" in the sweet pet drama has a very low probability of appearing in reality, but the love imagination is deeply rooted in everyone's heart. So that whether it is art imitating life or life imitating art, it is difficult to say, the only thing that can be quickly clarified is that it is becoming more and more difficult for young people to get married.
Looks like Aquaman, in fact, is the mother single, for the "per capita social fear" of the post-95s, blind date is still a just need. And compared with the previous generation, the post-95 generation still faces new problems in blind dates: how to bridge the small gap between their own values and family orientation or social habits? In other words, who should they listen to in a blind date, who should they listen to?
You think people need material security, but in fact she needs a sense of spiritual security. You think that people look cool and cool, but in fact, she has the values of her mother's generation. "China's New Blind Date", which has come to the fourth season, is like a sample library of contemporary young people's concepts, which not only allows people to see the attitudes and choices of young people for marriage and love and life under the intertwining of new and old concepts, but also carries multiple values, so it also triggers a wide range of emotional resonance.
"China's New Blind Date" is an intergenerational dating program produced by Oriental Satellite TV, and "Eros Sister" Zhang Meng and Si Wen have joined in. The fourth season observes the life status of the post-95s to gain insight into their concept of blind date.
And when the post-95s who once watched the brothers and sisters of the post-80s also came to the front of the stage, what kind of discourse system and intergenerational characteristics do they have? Hard Candy Jun even trance feels that he is not watching a blind date show, but a social picture book - it is the fear and love of this generation and the previous generation.
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The closing night (July 10) was indeed wonderful, and the two female guests of the 12th episode of the fourth season of "China's New Blind Date" made Eros sister Zhang Meng and Siwen shout directly "No wonder the last issue appeared." The savings view of the electric musician Sun Lingju and the life of the housewife of the ancient beauty Lou Nanjun all left a deep impression on the audience.
In the face of beauty, everyone is eager to break the casserole and ask the end. Sun Lingju said that he was 23 and a half years old, and when he asked, he knew that it was the end of 97 years, almost a special birthday in 98, so he added a half year old.
There are also questions that the masses have wondered for many years: the DJ does not rub the dish, can the disc be put normally? Sun Lingju said that it can also be put, and the rubbing dish is purely to create an atmosphere. Don't look at Sun Lingju's young age, people have a clear plan for marriage at the age of 28. If the show doesn't work out, she plans to make money for the next four and a half years to see if she has any favorites. Yes, it is the post-95s who are calm and rational at the same time.
Xiao Sun's requirements for her boyfriend are also stuck, can dance but don't dance too well, dance better than her, she does not obey. Such a maverick and a little bit of a strong girl, from the beginning of the debut, let the male guests have a tense atmosphere. Baikly complained: "In order to be close to girls, you have disregarded the bottom line of business!" "Yes, the boys only have a marriage line with the female guests!"
The three male guests' brave confessions to Sun Lingju made pink bubbles fly all over the screen on the closing night. Gao Qinghui's confession is very poetic: "My Martian world still lacks a hostess, are you willing to become the hostess of my Martian world?" Yang Fuxiang's sincerity overflowed into words, and Deng Shiwen proposed that he could create a better life with female guests.
If the hard candy jun is a small grandson, it is definitely "random flowers and charming eyes". But Xiaosun firmly chose Gao Qinghui, and the reason was simple: "I feel that you and your friends are the people who will appear in my life circle, and I can talk a little." In fact, no matter how beautiful the idea is, will it fall into reality, and didn't another female guest, Lou Nanjun, also choose Shen Zhinan, who is also a fellow Shaoxing? When the two of them communicated in Shaoxing dialect, the eyes of the other male guests were no longer fighting.
Shen Zhinan's father of the relatives and friends group carefully analyzed the matching degree of the two in their careers. "My son is similar to the business you do, he is doing makeup, making up is not to shoot short videos to take photography, just this you take a photo, take a photo place do not have to find." 」 This god assist made Bhakli ridicule: "Let's leave a living road for No. 1 and No. 2." ”
Li Ziyu, who snatched the female guest as a group of relatives and friends last time, returned with the mentality of wanting to make up for it, because he would mistakenly dig a "pit" for his brother Zhao Shoupei. Zhang Meng hurriedly stopped: "You stop, he didn't say that." "On the stage of "China's New Blind Date", the group of relatives and friends can not only help but also "cut off the beard", and it is not the first time that the hard candy Jun has met.
If parents represent the marriage concept of the previous generation, then brothers and girlfriends can give suggestions from the perspective of peers, and the family and friend group of "China New Blind Date 4" has found the common denominator of the two in a way that integrates generations. It can attract young people to watch, but also allow parents who "master the remote control" to maintain a high degree of excitement.
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In the previous blind date show, the employment introduction column of female guests was enough, and now a few pages of PPT may not be comprehensive. As girls' careers become more diverse, will their marriage choices change?
Most of the post-95 female guests who showed their style in "China's New Blind Date 4" are slash youth with multiple occupations. They have a stable income, a wide range of interests and hobbies, and are confident in life. Not only can you live out to maintain independence, but also find a position in social life.
The most beautiful charter wife Wang Jiaxin also opened a clothing online store and worked part-time as a model while running an apartment; Xu Huan also worked part-time as a singing anchor while studying for graduate school; Wu Yubei, a lawyer and a barbecue shop owner, and an anchor in one; Sun Lingju learned various skills in his leisure time, and he could also pour videos on his own.
As a sample rich mine for post-95 girls, the lens of "China New Blind Date 4" is not limited to their marital life, but uses marriage and love as an incision to provide them with a discourse space to express multiple values. The reason for the resignation of Tang Minyue, the swimming coach of the Moonlight Clan, was to take advantage of his youth to do something he wanted to do, while Sun Lingju, who was obsessed with savings, wanted to have savings as a guarantee for the future.
For the attitude of love and career, the post-95 girls show super professionalism while also retaining the expectation of sweet love. Media person Jinbo is busy with only three hours a day during the rising period of his career, and he hopes to find a boy who stays up late and works hard together. Enough of the bitterness of entrepreneurship, a little sweet spice of love is also good.
Wang Jiaxin said frankly: "Girls must have their own careers in order to give themselves enough security. What is even more admirable is that she always keeps her own delicacy, and always pays attention to her makeup even when she does not go out. Not only for the appearance of those who are pleasing to themselves, but also for the makeup to please themselves. Regarding the topic of whether the recent hot makeup on the Internet is "flattering" or "pleasing to himself", it is actually a blind date show that takes the lead in giving the answer.
In addition to wanting to open her own yoga studio, Luo Jiangping is also willing to give the money to the man to take care of. Where did this virtuous girl come from? However, giving money to a man is not as "feudal" as we think. If the woman earns more than the man, isn't the man in charge of the money a second to become a "housekeeper"?
In a stereotype, it is believed that girls will tend to reproduce the template of parental love. For example, if the father spoils the mother for decades like a little princess, will the girl grow up and also want to find a boy who can take care of herself? But the choice of "code farmer" Li Qian is surprising, and she is more eager to grow up with her partner.
There are also some strange and cute love standards, and post-95 girls don't have to worry about being "too niche" when they say it. "Hand control" Lou Nanjun directly on the mud film, hands are not good to see on the spot pass; Argentine beauty Mo Hanxi does not like the European and American tough guy style, people love our Asian specialties of small fresh meat; Ding Jiaying does not want her boyfriend to be smaller than her own face, and even formulated a clear face to width ratio.
The strong love in the big female lead drama is particularly vividly reflected in the post-95 body. The male guest burst the lights to grab the kiss, and Wu Yubei was not afraid to take a back: "I think he is a bit familiar, and it is possible that he has seen it in his dream." Zou Mengqi does not need her boyfriend to coax and accept the boyfriend who "raises the bar with mutual intimidation". That kind of routine of admitting mistakes regardless of everything is not passable in her.
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Why do people watch blind date shows? Maybe it's not just the joy of messing around with the mandarin duck spectrum, but also the potential psychological expectation of getting a life revelation.
"China's New Blind Date" explores topics such as "should notarize property before marriage", "whether girls need to take the initiative in the face of love", "couples do not look at each other's mobile phones", "is the love master a good thing or a bad thing", etc., so that the audience can get more perspectives on the problem, so as to treat similar situations in life more rationally.
American psychologist John Gray once attributed the contradiction in marriage and love to the difference in thinking between men and women. But in fact, the situation encountered by each generation has differences in specific content.
Female guest Chen Qian wants to understand the male guest, directly to check the other party's vibrato like video, technical means to speed up efficiency. Wu Yubei felt that the notarization of property before marriage was a precaution, but Zhang Meng said that love should not be too rational, and notarization seemed to have made a good retreat for the breakdown of feelings at the beginning.
Usually boys with rich experience in love will be disliked by the Aquaman routine, but the mixed-race school Flower Zhou Nixue likes the "love master". Everyone is so busy, who needs to accompany the boy to grow up, and then let him serve the experience to the next person? Before the people planted trees and then people cooled down, why can't I be a "cool" person. This logic is full of points, and the hard candy jun shoots the case.
Since the development of blind date programs, there is not much room for new tricks in the form process. "China's New Blind Date" this season pulled the male guests back to the blind date "in the field" through the setting of the glass house on the top floor, and the setting of the link of grabbing wheat and robbing relatives made the whole process more dramatic conflict and unknown.
Compared with the previous three seasons, this season has increased to three doors, and the two male guests selected by the female guests will wait behind the two happy doors in red and blue. Impulse is the devil, and it is true that the plot of robbing relatives is good, but the "waste guest" is also true. In the first episode, three guests were scrapped, and the heart of the program team was probably dripping blood.
Shao Zhiyu, an independent producer of the Oriental Satellite TV Center and the general director of "China's New Blind Date", summed up in an interview: "Although there are many degrees of freedom, we have a relatively scientific rule or play, after you come, it will naturally stimulate all your thinking and ideas, in this process, we slowly see some topics, social phenomena, and the thinking of a generation, I hope to be so subtle." ”
Setting up a process that allows guests to reveal their emotions and find the right people for them, the fourth season of "China's New Blind Date" uses a new discourse system to build bridges with young people. From "parents are more assured" to "like you, positive youth", behind the change of slogan is a turn in production thinking.
Peel off the cloak of blind date, from Gao Jiabo's mother who teaches at the university to Shen Zhinan's father who can enjoy lotus flowers. The program depicts the vivid life from parents to young people, and also witnesses the quiet flow of social concepts. Emerging careers are no longer misunderstood, and multiple choices are acceptable.
While the love network has become extremely dramatic, Oriental Satellite TV insists on using the fourth season of "China's New Blind Date" to gain insight into the true appearance of young people, which undoubtedly completes the docking of personal emotions and socially oriented values. It also ended with a perfect ending to prove once again that the construction and dissemination of the concept of marriage and love that is in line with the mainstream ideology and modern civilization is the prospect of "upgrading" intergenerational dating programs.