| Miss Liu Education Classroom
"The university is a small society."
In junior high school and high school, the first task in school is to get high scores, rush to famous schools, and have no worries except for learning and physical health.
But when it comes to college, the situation is very different from the past, there are many "unspoken rules", and there are often new college students who suffer losses because they do not understand these rules.
These "social unspoken rules" are formed in the school for a long time, and the counselor will not explicitly say them, but freshmen need to avoid being disturbed by these "unspoken rules", and it is necessary to understand them in advance.
<h3>▋ The "unspoken rules" of the college campus are exposed, the counselors will not "say it explicitly", and most of the losses are new students</h3>
The first point: Counselors and subject teachers may decide everything about you at university
In college, learning is still a top priority, but many people will think that learning is their own business like middle and high school, so there is no excessive communication with the classroom teacher in addition to studying. Thus neglecting to communicate and get along with the teacher.
But the neglected parts often have a profound impact on university life.
University scores are divided into usual scores and test scores, some unimportant subjects usually account for up to 70%, while test scores account for only 30%, which means that the level of the usual score determines the level of the final score, and the usual score is based on the teacher's impression of the student and attendance rate to determine.
So in a way, the teacher determines the level of the final grade.
In addition, there are several key points in university life, including: joining the party, graduate school and some students' advancement.
And these are the need for teachers to recommend, the degree of relationship between the teacher and the classmates determines how much effort he will contribute in it, the examination and research needless to say, the push and approval of the application for joining the party is directly handled by the counselor, so the counselor's pass is a must.
The counselor will decide whether it can be achieved through daily interaction, understanding of you, and analysis of learning status.
So the teacher also determines whether your major events in college will be successful or not.
● Second, the roommates get along, do not devote themselves wholeheartedly, be careful of being hurt by interests
In addition to the teachers at the school, it is also necessary to pay attention to the relationship with classmates and roommates, and in the dormitory, there is more to the future and various interests in school life than the simple competition for grades in high school.
Especially in recent years, dormitory bullying incidents have occurred not in the minority, everyone's heart is complex, and the appearance on the surface must be real.
And new students should keep an extra eye in the process of making friends, in case the future because of a place and fight for the head and blood flow leads to the rupture of friendship and sadness.
●Third, respect the seniors in school and may help you in times of difficulty
College life is different from high school, and the relationship between roommates is not so good, but the seniors who do not have a good relationship in high school are likely to help you at critical times.
In the life of the university, respect for the elders is very similar to the workplace, and in the face of the seniors, because of the year of admission, they will be called by honorific titles.
But students who have just entered the university will generally be more self-sufficient, have not yet been accustomed to the orderly way of growing up and down, if at this time your modesty and politeness have become their memory points, coupled with the stability of academic performance and the ability to do things, when they encounter difficulties, they will definitely help.
● Fourth, the game may not be to see the ability, but more to see the popularity and relationship
In addition to the above points, the most critical thing is that the development of networking in the university is not after all, many universities in the competition, the school is directly held, which means that the so-called fair and just competition will only face the final review.
In college, many competitions are initially voted to advance, there is no strong popularity, perhaps the teachers have not seen the ability has ended, so popularity is very important for college students.
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▋ Conclusion
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Although there are still many unspoken rules in college life, no matter how many unspoken rules are based on their own abilities.
College is a condensed society, it is relatively simple relative to society, but also a transitional stage towards society, so in order to avoid new students in the face of major changes with high school is difficult to accept, I hope that you can have a preliminary understanding of this small society through this article, so that you can better accept university life.
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