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Women all hope that they can marry a good person, live a life without worry, and live happily through this life.
However, many things can not follow their own wishes, there will always be too many accidents that cannot be predicted, usually we call this fate.
Some people decide to stand on the pyramid as soon as they are born, and some people are doomed to a lifetime of unfortunate fate as soon as they are born. Some people are born with talent, and some people rely on sweat to survive.
In marriage, we usually divide women into two types: women with good fate and ordinary women.
No matter what kind of woman will have her own way to go, although life is completely different, but you can rely on your own efforts to get happiness.
No woman wants to be a woman with a "bitter fate", so everyone will be particularly cautious in their marriage choices.
In fact, the really good woman is not because of how good the man is to her, but how hard the woman with the good fate is.
Therefore, ordinary women complain that their fate is not good, because a woman with a good life is not an occasional, but an inevitable phenomenon, don't believe it.
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I don't know if you have found that women with good fate usually have these common points, they are hard and self-motivated, full of hope for life, they can withstand the wind and waves, and they can enjoy happiness, so they will have a good life.
In marriage, there are usually four differences between a well-appointed woman and an ordinary woman, so let's see what kind of woman you are.
Difference one: a woman with a good life is not afraid of hardship and is full of hope for life.
Positive and optimistic women will not be overwhelmed by the pressures of life, and they will only feel that the suffering that life gives them is a kind of wealth given by fate.
Women who are not afraid of hardship are generally very much able to get the love of men, because for men, this type of woman is suitable for marriage, so they will also be cherished by this type of woman.
Women who are not afraid of hardship and are full of hope for life can get the most favor from the god of fate, so they will live happily in marriage. And the life of an ordinary woman is destined to be unremarkable.
Difference two: women with good lives have a clear plan for the future, and ordinary women only care about the immediate situation.
The biggest difference between a woman with a good life and an ordinary woman is that the pattern of the two people is different, and ordinary women only care about their own gains and losses every day, and put themselves in a dull state all day long.
And the woman with a good destiny is planning her future every day and working hard for this goal. When the quantity changes to the qualitative change, they naturally become women with good fate.
Fate is in their own hands, and women with good fortunes never have the idea of wanting to rely on men, and they do everything on their own, because they know that no one can be relied on.
Difference three: women with good lives know how to be grateful, and ordinary women will only feel that what others have given is not enough.
For women with good fate, they are particularly easy to satisfy, and they always feel that a drop of water from others should be repaid by themselves.
And for the average woman, they only care about whether they get enough or not.
Women who know how to be grateful are generally lucky, because they are kind and intelligent, so fate will be extra tolerant of such women.
After they repay the kindness of others, they will burst out of a sense of pride from the inside out. Then good luck comes, so such women will be happier for the rest of their lives.
Difference four: a woman with a good life sets up principles and bottom lines, who can't touch it, ordinary women can change their minds at any time.
In marriage, women with bottom lines and principles are often cherished by men because such women are self-disciplined and principled.
And those women who listen to the wind and rain and change their minds at any time will only end up with nothing left.
Fish and bear paws can not be both, when you greedy want both, you are doomed to both you may not get both, so have your own principles and bottom line, and stick to it from beginning to end.
Only when a woman has the ability to get the favor of her husband, will she manage the family better, and the marriage will be happier. At this time, the principle and bottom line are particularly important.
-03-
Many ordinary women often complain that their marriage is not happy and their fate is not good. In fact, this is only because they are not willing to try to change the status quo, but they complain about the unfair fate all day long.
There is such a line in the incarnation of the Demon Boy of Nezha: "My fate is up to me, and it is the devil who is God who says it myself." ”
Our destiny is never in the hands of someone, when you have a goal yourself, you work towards the goal, when you want to get rid of what status quo, you have to change. Someday, dripping water through the stones, there will always be where you want to be.
When women themselves admit that they can only live such a life, they are really bowing to fate. So this is why ordinary women get more and more bitter, and women with good fate are always lucky.
In fact, there is no good fate, but some people are moving towards their goals, day after day.
When you pay attention, you will find that there are four significant differences between good luck women and ordinary women, don't believe it, you can see these two kinds of women around you. I hope that every woman can live a good life and control her own life.