Yesterday, a young man from Xiaoshan posted on the Xiao Intranet App:
At that time, I advised him not to believe in TV shopping, and he couldn't listen to it and bought a bunch. Recently began to speculate in stocks again, 10 million in the beginning of the earned, now almost lost, the most important thing has not been touched before.
Our family originally had no money, so old, they didn't think about me.
"I was working hard for my life, and suddenly let me see this kind of thing, and I couldn't say it, so I just grumbled..."
The guy added in the comments that he is 28 years old, he is not married, he has just bought a car, he has built a self-built house, and his family still has debts.
He felt that there were still many places to spend money in the future, and the family worked hard towards a goal, and life would always get better and better, but now this situation made him very discouraged.
Some netizens in the comment area said that they also have the same parents, some follow the trend of stock speculation, some do micro-business, and the money is not earned but also loses a lot.
What is even more troublesome is that parents are quite stubborn and ignore how to persuade them.
Netizen @ anonymous: Yes, no culture and no insight and do not listen to advice, wrong and do not reflect, all kinds of reasons.
Netizen @ social phobia patients: My father lost more than 300,000 yuan.
Netizen @ is a bit ridiculous to say: it's quite miserable, this kind of parents are quite many, my mother is also like this, do things without considering the overall situation how to come.
Netizen @@ anonymous: The same, my mother speculated in stocks and did micro-business, damn micro-business products and pyramid schemes, home goods are piled up and can not be sold, she also said that self-use is good to do agent cheap. In the New Year, he also asked me to borrow money and wanted to sell insurance, saying that I would buy one myself before selling. In the past few years, I have asked me to take fifty or sixty thousand, and I am really speechless about this kind of mother.
Netizen @ little red ant: those who say spend your money or something really can't listen to it, emotional things did not happen in your home, the heartache is not you, it is not easy to make some money this year, not to mention a handful of old stocks, money is equal to throw away in vain, this unreliable old man My family also has one, but also nine cows can not pull back the investment stock, more than 10 years ago lost more than 100,000, now a little money and go in, just like the landlord said, the whole family are working hard to live a better life, Encountering such a thing really affects their work mood, anyway, my family's loss is almost the same, unreliable people will never have a long memory, keep their own money, after he is old, there is no medical pension money and only with him.
Some netizens said that the boy can suggest that parents play small on the line, mainly interest.
Some netizens pointed out that communication with parents needs to pay attention to ways and methods, do not blindly accuse - the wood has become a boat, the matter has reached this point, slowly communicate, I believe that parents can also understand.
Netizen @兮: He wants to make money in the stock market just for your consideration, but unfortunately the level is not enough.
Netizen @Muyi: Just teach them a lesson.
Netizen @ Da Li Daxia: Hey, or don't fry, there is no such skill.
Netizen @ anonymous: small play can be, interest-based.
Netizen @ Dandelion - Kan Kan: It seems that the landlord is helpless to the point of going crazy, it is recommended that the landlord pay attention to the way of communication, blindly accusing will only make you more and more distant. When encountering problems, tell yourself that the wood has become a boat, the matter has reached this point, first solve the emotions, then solve the problem, and often go home to see.
Netizen @ Wenyan steel straight man: want to persuade others not to insult and accuse, have to come up with data, principles, cases, so that there is convincing, just like when I was a child, reading is not good to read, can not blindly let go, you have to let the child understand the role of reading, meaning, interests, and then let him go outside to suffer setbacks, and finally understand.
Source: Xiaoshan Forum