Everyone has an unforgettable feeling in their hearts, which may be the crush when they are ignorant and ignorant, or they may be their former lovers in college.
At the best time, we met him or her, but it was also at the best time, and this young relationship often ended in the end, all of which were fruitless.
When we look back on the past, will we still remember the bits and pieces of that person, and will we give up everything to find the love of the past?
The answer to this question varies from person to person, so let's take a look at the stories of three men.
01. Mr. Lee
Who said that when old lovers meet again, they must be dry wood and meet fire? My situation is completely different from the romantic encounters that everyone usually imagines.
Because I was not too happy to break up with the previous one, after we reunited, instead of letting go, we became enemies.
We both met in college, and I chased her first. I thought I was acting quite obviously, but she didn't seem to know that I was chasing her and never gave me a clear answer. Later, with the help of her friend, the two of us successfully got together.
After graduating from college, we both agreed to stay in the city to work and struggle together. But when I graduated from college and came out of society, I found that the reality was not as beautiful as expected.
We lived in a very small house, shared with my two brothers. Although it is not particularly convenient, I really don't have any money after graduating, so I can only be so exquisite. But she didn't understand, and every day she clamored to live in a different place.
I know that this small house is a bit wronged by her now, but the financial ability is limited, and I can't always steal and grab it.
For this matter, we did not quarrel less. Originally, the living was not smooth enough, and the work did not let me worry.
Not long after I joined the company, I received a project on assignment. I thought this project was an opportunity, so I agreed to the leadership.
When I went back to discuss with her, she didn't agree. She felt that I borrowed this project because I wanted to stay away from her.
We had another fight over this. Originally, the contradictions accumulated over the years were not less, so a quarrel, the new accounts and old accounts were all said, and the two of us broke up in the quarrel.
When we broke up, she blamed me for delaying her youth for so many years. However, when she said that it was a common decision between the two of us to stay, she said so, and I was very uncomfortable in my heart.
Later, about her, I listened to what our former classmates said.
She said that she left the city, returned to her hometown, and it didn't take long to marry a civil servant.
I thought that we would never have any more intersection in this life, but I didn't expect that fate was such a coincidence. When I came home for the New Year, my parents had to go to the government unit to get a certificate and get the house in my hometown.
The unit is dead or alive is where her husband works, and I didn't know until after I went.
It just happened to be last Friday, and I was about to leave work, so I ran into her to pick up her husband and go back.
Originally, I didn't think about what to do with her, but after she recognized me, she showed no mercy to me.
Implicitly and implicitly, I am not only sure how well I am doing, and what a correct decision to leave me.
I saw her talking yin and yang weirdly, and I couldn't help but say two words. After her husband came over, she generously talked about my relationship with her, and then her husband said directly to me, if you open the certificate, next month, now off work.
This sentence made me confused enough, and by the time I came back, the two of them had already gone far.
Therefore, not all old lovers will definitely rekindle old feelings when they meet.
Unpleasant noises like mine abound, and when we meet again, there are few who can put it down, and don't you just take the opportunity to humiliate each other.
02. Mr. Xia
The separation of the two of us was entirely due to the pressure of our parents, and now that we are reunited, we cherish it.
When we first fell in love, her parents were very opposed. The reason for the opposition is because my family is not well off, and they don't want their daughter to marry and suffer hardships.
Her father was very strong and forced her to break up with me.
I talked to her father, but her father felt that if his daughter married me, she would not be happy, and it would be better to make a decision sooner.
I came from the countryside, and my parents were not very literate, so I was able to gain a foothold in this city all by my own ability. She is a lady in town and has a good family.
Her father is the owner of a listed company, and she is an only child, so she has been the pearl in the palm of the family since she was a child.
I know her in the company, she is a big miss, so coming to the company is just a trial. But I'm different, I have to work hard to get a commission.
So sometimes when I work, my attitude towards her is not particularly good.
And before I got to know her, I always thought she was the kind of big lady who couldn't do anything, and the stereotype of her made me not very close to her.
But then, when we were working on a project, she almost missed the project because she was late in delivering documents, and I was furious with her. She went to the airport and went to the community, and during that time she had been blocking customers and trying to do everything possible to remedy it.
It was raining heavily when she waited for her client, but she waited in the rain for a long time.
In this way, slowly my opinion of her also changed. I started to notice her, I noticed her who was completely different from what I knew.
When I separated from her, it was also very uncomfortable. Because of her parents' objections, I am understandable. It is because I love her that I cannot make her unhappy.
I didn't tell her I talked to her about it because I didn't want her to blame her parents anymore. After we broke up, it was also quite embarrassing at the company.
Later, I offered to transfer to the branch office, in order to stay away from her, and not disturbing her was my best blessing.
I thought that this life was like this, and I missed her like this.
But unexpectedly, now we meet again.
It turned out that she knew that their family was against it, and after breaking up with me, she had a good chat with her parents, hoping that they would also respect her decision.
But the wrong thing is that I was already out of the city by then. Fortunately, I came back a year later because of the personnel transfer.
Fate is such a trickery, I thought I lost it, but I can get it back, and it is enough to have such a lucky thing in life.
03. Mr. Hu
I'm probably not as lucky as the previous two, I'm married, and I'm with someone I don't love.
I also broke up with my ex because my family opposed it, and I couldn't force myself to make the decision to separate. After the breakup, I obeyed the family's arrangement and married my current wife.
I don't have any feelings for her, it's just because my parents like it.
After I separated from the people I liked, I didn't aspire to anything, so it was the same for me whoever I married. But unexpectedly, now the person I like is back and has taken the initiative to contact me.
She has always been a regret in my heart, so I have always wanted to make up for this regret. But I knew that it was impossible for me to talk to her anymore.
My wife is a very strong person and manages me like a son. Every day when I come back from work, what I eat, what I drink, what I wear, she arranges it all.
The credit card password and mobile phone password are all in her hands. By her side, I lived like a transparent person, with no secrets and no dare to have secrets.
So, when my ex contacted me to meet and have dinner, I struggled. I wanted to go in my heart, but I was more afraid of being known by my wife.
Because my current job is arranged by their family, if I am known to him, the second half of my life can be said to be cold.
Just when I hesitated, my wife called as usual and asked me what I was eating that night.
Saying that he cares about me is actually a disguised chagang. Her phone call also made my heart that wanted to go, and I took it back. It doesn't matter to me myself, but if I let my wife see my ex, with her character, I don't know what I'm going to do.
Since it is a regret, let it remain in your heart forever, or it is better than making a chicken and dog restless when the time comes.
epilogue:
There are various reasons for the end of every relationship, and we can't say that two people who are separated have no love at all, because the reason they are separated may be because they love too much.
So since a relationship has ended, whether to save it is the question we really want to ask.
Feelings separated by reality may sound like a pity, but in real life, even if you are not separated now, you will be separated in the future because of this problem.
Therefore, since you have chosen to end, you can't go through the rest of your life with this person. It is better to simply be a little more elegant, and stop fantasizing about what contact there will be in the future.
The best way to have an ended relationship is when the other person is dead and never existed in your world, so that both parties can find true happiness.
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