Qianjiang Evening News Hourly News reporter Shen Menghe
What is it like to be "proposed" by the children in the class? Teacher Wu Jing of Hangzhou Yuqiao Primary School encountered such a "sweet critical hit" in the first year of his employment.
One afternoon, Mr. Wu was grading chinese homework in the office, and approved the classwork book of the second unit of the second unit of the first grade, "I want to see more", and there was such a question on the homework book: Please write down your wishes at the beginning of "I think more".
Most of the students' answers are related to the desire to eat and play, and suddenly, a different or even somewhat out of place answer comes into view.
"I want to marry Wu Jing (Teacher Wu's name).
Flipping through the cover of the homework book, sure enough, it was still the naughty bright classmate.
"I was just starting out at the time, and although I was also more cheerful, I would often play with the children in my class in my spare time. Before the batch of homework, I will also receive innocent confessions from children, saying 'like you', but 'marriage' is really unseen. Teacher Wu, who was not yet married, saw this unexpected answer and was momentarily overwhelmed.
But thinking of the daily words and deeds of Liang Liang's classmates - sometimes saying some strange words, causing the whole class to laugh, Teacher Wu guessed that this was probably a joke made by Liang Liang's classmates in order to attract the attention of the teacher.
Teacher Wu was angry and funny, and drew a simple and clear embarrassing expression next to the bright answer.
I thought that this matter would end here, but I never expected that there would be a turning point after the mid-term parent-teacher conference.
According to the school's schedule, that morning is a "parent open day" – parents can go into the classroom to listen to the lessons together, and in the evening it is a parent-teacher conference.
After the parent-teacher meeting, Liangliang's mother quietly walked to the podium and asked nervously, "Teacher Wu, is my child more introverted in school?" I didn't raise his hand much when I saw him in class. ”
Hearing this question, Teacher Wu was a little surprised, and quickly explained to Liang Liang's mother: "The Liang Liang I know is a very lively child, usually speaking very positively in class, today's class may be because there are many parents in the classroom, but it is a little restrained." If you don't believe it, you can read your child's usual homework book, and the homework status can best reflect the child's class status. ”
Teacher Wu picked up the bright homework book casually and inadvertently turned to the ridiculous answer.
Teacher Wu half-jokingly said to Liang Liang's mother: "You see, the child who can write this kind of answer will definitely not be an introverted child, but very lively." ”
Liangliang's mother hurriedly read it, and she was also relieved, and said in a loud voice, "That's good."
But at nearly 11 o'clock that night, Teacher Wu received a message from Liang Liang's mother, which surprised her:
"Hello Teacher Wu, on the way back, I realized what that sentence was, my pinyin learning is really poor, he also told me that "I want to marry my grandmother" and "I want to marry my mother.". I asked him why, and he said I liked my grandmother too much, I liked my mother too much, and when I got married, my grandmother and my mother would be with me and not be separated. It seems that he likes You Too Much. I am happy and happy for my child to have such a good teacher as you, thank you! ”
I see!
"The little boy I thought was naughty had such a sincere idea hidden in his heart. It turned out that my previous view was not comprehensive, and I re-realized a completely different brightness. Teacher Wu's first reaction was to be moved, and it turned out that the child's emotions were so delicate and sincere.
But then Teacher Wu also reflected that the children's ideas are different from those of adults, and the "marriage" that an 8-year-old boy thinks is different from the concept understood by adults. "My misunderstanding of Liang Liang's words is, in the final analysis, a misjudgment made with a 'preconceived' first impression, and naturally I think he is deliberately joking. What I thought was a joke was just what I thought. ”
"I am very grateful to have met such a bright classmate in my first year of taking over." Always looking at students from the perspective of development and always treating problems from the perspective of children is a valuable "lesson" that Teacher Wu learned from Liang Liang.
Recently, she shared this special experience with new parents and novice homeroom teachers, hoping that everyone would have the patience to read the child's heart.
Liang Liang is a naughty and active little boy he met in 2018 when the newly hired teacher Wu took over the first grade.
For novice teachers, the brightness at that time was not very worrying: they did not like to raise their hands to speak in class, but they always liked to whisper something unrelated to the content of the class; although the homework was completed, it was always perfunctory and the handwriting needed to be recognized repeatedly.
But Liang Liang's advantages are also prominent, for example, his sports are particularly good, every run is always the fastest one; every cleaning is the first to rush to the front; classmates will rush to the infirmary when they are injured.
Liang Liang is such a naughty child who is energetic and often gives the teacher a headache.
Now, Liang Liang is already in the fourth grade, still lively and enthusiastic, but he understands a lot. After Teacher Wu took them for three years, he went back to take the first grade after the summer vacation, because the two grades were in different campuses, and Teacher Wu had a lot less opportunity to meet with the children.
But as the first batch of students he brought, Teacher Wu and the children's feelings are very deep. Recently, to attend open classes, Teacher Wu often travels between Hushu and Wenhui campuses. Sometimes in a hurry, the children in the class saw Teacher Wu and hurriedly called on their friends to call their classmates, just to meet with Teacher Wu.
"Once when I was near the playground, a child who participated in a football club saw me and called out all the classmates, and many classmates surrounded me, holding candy, hair rings, hand ropes and small notes that they had woven themselves, and gave them to me as a souvenir, which I have always collected." Teacher Wu said with some choking, "Every time I pass by their class, I have a feeling of 'homesickness', and I am also very reluctant to this group of children." ”
It is precisely for this reason that Teacher Wu turned over the notes collected when he took the class before, sorted out this teaching case, and brought us a heart-warming teacher-student story in the autumn when the weather was getting cooler.
Partially integrated from the class teacher style (ID: ebanzhuren)
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