It is often said that loving mothers are many losers
But in the Bao family father and son
Loving Father, it seems, is not to be let go
Lao Bao lived in the water town of Jiangnan in the 1930s
He lost his wife at an early age and raised his son by himself
He worked as an errand boy in qin for decades
The only idea is to cultivate his son Bao Guowei into a talent
To this end, he saved money and earned money everywhere
In order to provide the best education for his son
He even borrowed usurious loans to send his son to school
In his opinion, as long as his son can soar and become a high official
Then all his hard work and efforts are worth it
But the ideal is very full, but the reality is very bone
The son Bao Guowei not only did not grow up to be what his father expected
On the contrary, he also developed the habit of feeling poor and loving the rich
No matter where you go
He likes to wear a long shirt and comb his polished oil head
It seems that in his eyes, this is what a superior person should look like
Walking down the street, if you come across a shabby-clad childhood playmate
He would immediately avoid it with a look of disgust
When you can see the bright and beautiful rich classmates
He would smile and talk to the ground again
Even if it's a hot face sticking to someone's cold ass
He didn't care, he didn't even tire of it
It seems that the four words of feeling poor and loving the rich have been deeply rooted in his bones
On this day, the Lunar New Year is coming
The streets are bustling with people
But the old bag couldn't laugh at all
Because the school sent the transcript on
My son counted down to four homework subjects
This filled his heart with sorrow
It's not just about my son's grades
He was even more worried about the tuition fees for his son's repetition of grades
He already had a bunch of debts
Now the money is undoubtedly worse for him
He asked the chef of the Qin Mansion to discuss
But before he could say a few words, his son returned
As soon as he entered the door, he looked like he was on his toes
The greeting of the qin cook was also ignored
It seems that talking to such a person would lose his identity as a literati
After the cook left in embarrassment
The old bag rushed to his son
Carefully asked his son about repetition
But the son is not ashamed
Instead, he replied with a straight face
Can't you? Guo Chuan also relegated the grade
He also kept two levels
The old bag who heard this was anxious
Guo Chuan is the young master of a wealthy family
Even if you don't study, you can have a way out
What is the comparison between the low-level people like them?
So he began to persuade his son
It's not easy for you to get into this middle school
You can't compare yourself to other people
Those were all young masters of rich families
You can't be greedy, you have to fight for breath
But the son on the side was already immune to these words
He casually pulled out a villain book
Pretended to look at it
He no longer pays attention to his bitter father
Old Bao saw his son like this and did not dare to say anything more
I thought that my son's tuition had not yet been settled
He began to ask his son again in a consultative tone
Can you go and ask the teacher for a favor, and pay the tuition fee later
But this made his son furious
I'm going to go, I'm not going
I interceded with the teacher and threw away the dead
Lao Bao was frightened by his son's sudden temper and was overwhelmed
Hurry to say well, I go, I go
The next day, Lao Bao came to school with a cheeky face
Ask the accountant if the tuition fee can be paid later
But Uncle's attitude is also very clear, no
This made Lao Bao very discouraged, but he refused to give up
He repeatedly pleaded with the other party to do well and sympathize with himself
His monthly salary was only seven yuan
In order to provide for his son's study, he did not even want to change a cotton coat
Inside and outside the words, they are all telling how difficult it is to talk about themselves
But Uncle is also very helpless, you tell me what is the use
The school is not a charity, so why should it always be for you?
When all was said and done, the old bag still refused to leave
He flipped it over and over again
I'm poor, I don't have any money, but my son has to go to school
It's almost like letting the school solve the problem
The accounting uncle was really annoyed, and directly pointed at the nose of the old bag and scolded
I still want to go to school when I don't have money, dream about it, and then Slam the door and leave
Looking at the back of the uncle leaving, the old bag was very sad
But in order to make up for the tuition, he also had to find someone to borrow money
He came to the barbershop, intending to ask his friends inside to borrow money
But his friend advised him to learn a craft for his son, at least to support himself
Old Bao looked at the apprentice sweeping the floor and fell into thought
He couldn't imagine what it was like for his son to do all this dirty work
In his heart, his son should be the section chief who is high above
Instead of being as useless as he was, he firmly refused
When his friend saw him insisting, he didn't say more, borrowed him a sum of money, and sent him away
Here the old bag is whispering for his son's tuition and begging for people everywhere
The son over there was mixed up with the young master of the rich family
See people living in luxurious houses and smear high-grade head oil
He was so envious that as soon as he got home, he yelled at The Old Bag for head oil
And Lao Bao has always spoiled him, and he agreed without even thinking about it
The next day, Lao Bao went to the bank with the tuition fees that he had worked hard to make up
When paying the fee, the staff found that Xiao Bao was a repeat student
No need to buy books twice, but also returned the old bag for 9 yuan, which can make him happy
But with the money left, his first thought wasn't to pay it back
Instead, he finally had the money to buy oil for his son
However, the head oil used by Guo Chuan is too expensive
Old bags can't afford to work for a year
So he retreated to the second place
Used the rest of the money to buy a pair of leather shoes for his son
As for head oil, he didn't quite understand
So I went to the barbershop and asked my friend
But friends can't say why
Finally, he was simply given half a bottle of hair oil
The old bag was overjoyed, and took the bottle to find his son
Coincidentally, I just came out of the barbershop
He met his son and the rich young master by chance
So he hurriedly called out to his son and handed him the oil
But the son ignored him
After taking a look at the head oil, directly push the old bag away
Saying it wasn't the head oil he wanted at all
He also viciously reprimanded the old bag
Let the old bag not call him on the street later, he feels ashamed
After saying that, he quickly caught up with Guo Chuan
Guo Chuan asked him who the old man was
He replied indifferently
Leave him alone, irrelevant people
These words deeply stung Lao Bao's heart
He went back to complain to his colleagues about how he had become an irrelevant person
Colleagues advised him to relax
It is also normal to say that children of this age have a little vanity
The rich young master does not worry about eating and wearing and making trouble every day, and the small bag is already sensible enough
When he becomes the section chief in the future, the days of happiness are still ahead
This is exactly what the old man is carrying
In an instant, he felt that he had a glass heart, and he should be more considerate and considerate of his son
So that night, he prepared a sumptuous dinner
I want to replenish my son's body
But the son had no time to pay attention to him
After flirting with Guo Chuan on the road during the day, he finished flirting with his female classmates on the road
He came back with a love book from his house
At this time, I was watching with relish, and I had the kung fu to take care of the old bag on the side
But the old bag is not only not angry, but also very pleased
The son finally knows how to read, how can this not make him happy
He sat in front of the bed and watched his son sleep and forget to eat
It was as if I had seen my son's success many years later
I was in tears with excitement
But where did he know that what his son was reading was not a serious book at all
In order to reward his diligent and studious son, he even sneaked into the young master's room with an open conscience
Stole a bottle of head oil for him
This day
Xiao Bao was in class, but the director of education called him out
It turned out that the last time he flirted with a female classmate, the director knew about it
The director called xiao Bao and asked him who his accomplices were
But Xiao Bao was still quite moralistic, and he refused to give Guo Chuan a few people
This made Guo Chuan very happy, so he invited him to the restaurant to have a big meal
He also agreed to let him join the basketball team, but to join the team, you have to have a jersey
So when I got home at night, Xiao Bao opened his mouth and called out to his father twice
This made Lao Bao excited and a little incredulous, after all, his son had not called him daddy for too long
But the smile on his face had not yet had time to open
I heard my son say happily
He joined the school basketball team and wanted to buy a jersey
This made lao Bao a little embarrassed, but he could look at the smile on his son's face
The old bag was once again fierce and bought a jersey for his son
Just like that, Xiao Bao went to school in a jersey
Lao Bao was blocked at home by the loan shark creditor
They want the old bag to pay back the money quickly
But lao Bao has spent all the money on his son
He sniffed for half a day without uttering a few words, and finally began to cry again
Just then, news came from the school
It is said that Xiao Bao seriously injured a classmate
Let him hurry up and take a look
The old bag rushed to the school and did not know until he asked
When Guo Chuan was playing, he had an argument with his classmates
As a little minion, Xiao Bao wanted to go up and teach each other a lesson
Guo Chuan also said that he was responsible for the damage
So in order to please Guo Chuan, he desperately wrestled with the other party
The last heavy punch threw the man into the hospital
But Guo Chuan, who had previously said that he would take responsibility, was gone
Xiao Bao, on the other hand, faces the double trouble of dropping out of school and huge compensation
The old Bauton who knew everything felt five thunderbolts
He just asked the principal in a daze
If you pay for medical expenses, you don't have to be expelled
After getting a negative answer, the old bag collapsed instantly
He did not understand, they were all expelled, why they still had to pay for medical expenses
But the headmaster did not want to explain it to him anymore, so he hurried to raise money
But the old bag really has no money, and the loan sharks have come to the door
In the end, there was no way, and he began to repeat the same trick
Kneeling on the ground and holding the principal's thigh, he pleaded bitterly
Begging the school not to expel the small bag, that was his only hope
Then he talked about how he was not easy
But the principal did not eat this set, let him borrow it when he had no money, and even wanted to kick him out
The old bag is full of ashes
He glanced at his son, who had a blue nose and swollen face
His eyes were full of disappointment and regret
Finally he staggered out of the gate
He was followed by a group of creditors
No one knows where he's going
No one knows how he's going to pay back that huge sum
The movie "Bao's Father and Son" is based on Zhang Tianyi's novel of the same name
It was filmed by Beijing Film Studio and released in 1983
The film is directed by Xie Tieli and starring Guan Zongxiang and Liu Changwei
Many people say that this is a buried domestic masterpiece
Although it is a story from the 1930s
But today, it still does not appear outdated, and even makes people feel empathetic
It is often said that no matter how hard you are, you can't suffer your children, and no matter how poor you are, you can't be poor in education
The old bag in the film can be said to take this sentence to the extreme
No matter how difficult he was, he did his best to give his son the best education and care
But in the end, the end of the father and son is lamentable, why is this
As the old saying goes, to learn, you have to be a man first
The old bag in the film, although pitiful, is not sympathetic
Compared with his son's hatred of poverty and love of wealth, he can be said to be more than that
Likewise, as a poor man, he would look down on the beggar who asked for food
But in front of the senior section chief, he was also a condescending and servile look
They will even cry about the poor and sell the poor to win the sympathy of the public
Ask such parents how to educate excellent children
Not to mention his unprincipled doting on the small bag
Most parents in life are like old bags, and they have ardent hopes for their children
It is human nature to hope that they can reach heights that they cannot reach
But there are some problems with the way many people are educated
Or strictly practice filial piety under the stick and constantly do not put pressure on the child
Or it's like an old bag, infinitely spoiled, what to give
In fact, these are not advisable
Education is never a matter of being rigidly modeled after a cat
Instead, we should start from reality, and what suits you is the best