Du Jiang and Huo Siyan took their son Hum to participate in the "Teacher Please Answer" program after attracting the attention of many netizens, especially when Hum faced the interview program, frequently broke out golden sentences, emotional intelligence is quite high, causing people around to laugh.
Netizens couldn't help but sigh: "Hmmm is so young, there is such a strong language expression ability, and the thinking logic is also very clear!" ”
However, when Hum hum was mentioned as a classmate's nickname, the atmosphere suddenly became heavy.
Hmmm was very unhappy and said, "My classmates like to give me ugly nicknames!" ”
The host asked curiously, "What do they call you?" ”
Hmmm replied, "They all call me Navel Eye!" (Because The original name of Hum is Du Yuqi, which is very similar to the harmonic sound of "navel eye", this is the nickname!) ）
At that time, I obviously saw that Huo Siyan was instantly unhappy, because she didn't know anything about this matter, and Hmmm continued to bow her head and say, "When they called me Navel Eye, I was very uncomfortable listening to it, I didn't like them saying this about me, but they were still like that." ”
The host turned back to Huo Siyan and asked, "Does Mom understand this matter?" ”
Huo Siyan replied unhappily, "I just learned about it." ”
Then Huo Siyan turned to her husband Du Jiang and asked, "Do you know about this?" ”
Du Jiang replied, "I don't know either!" ”
Huo Siyan asked again, "Then what was your nickname when you were a child?" ”
Du Jiang replied very calmly, "I am also called Navel Eye." Huo Siyan smiled as soon as he heard it.
The host took the opportunity to say: "The nickname also carries the inheritance!" Everyone present laughed.
Hmmm didn't hesitate to explain, "Because Daddy is also surnamed Du!" ”
In the face of this topic, netizens have said that Du Jiang's emotional intelligence is really high! It not only eased the emotions of Huo Siyan and her son, but also laid a "reassuring needle" in Hum's heart.
In fact, it is often the case that children are nicknamed at school, and when we are young, we will also be nicknamed by the people around us with special problems.
Some nicknames are consonant, such as the nickname hum, which is how it comes from; others are to enlarge certain characteristics of the body, such as "old fat", "little short", "big tall" and so on.
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The writer in "Growing Up with Children" believes that giving others a "nickname" is a characteristic of children, because each child is very curious, likes to imitate, and gives nicknames to the people next to them, but for the situation of nicknames, parents should also pay more attention, because this may hurt the child's self-esteem.
1, refuse to ignore, parents should pay attention to the child's emotional changes
Parents should always understand the emotional changes of their children in their daily lives, and try to grasp the things that their children experience in a day.
Because children's expression ability is not very strong when they are young, they cannot fully say what happened that day, and they will always remember things that they do not understand for a long time.
At this time, parents need to guide the child's psychological changes, on the matter of picking up the nickname, parents can tell the child that the good nickname is a kind of like for you, and the bad nickname you have to give back, can not silently admit.
2. Teach children to express themselves bravely
Some children are more introverted, you ask him not to talk, sometimes it is really very angry, the reason why the child is like this, is not that they do not want to talk, but dare not express it.
They lack positive language expression ability, are not good at expressing emotions and emotions through the right method, and accumulate psychology for a long time, which is very detrimental to the growth of children. Therefore, parents should teach their children to express their emotions correctly, vent their emotions, and do not hold them in their hearts when they encounter unhappy things.
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Love needs to be expressed, whether it is for a loved one or a child.
We can feel it from the Du family, and the three words "I love you" are daily to express every day, hum long-term living in a loving family, so his heart is also full of kindness, which will release the love in his heart to his parents.
In the show, he will help his mother wash her feet, pour water for her mother, go shopping with her mother, and know that it should be hot when buying coffee, and from these small events, it can be seen that his emotional intelligence is very high, and he expresses his love for his mother all the time.
Children with high emotional intelligence and high IQ are enviable, and the reason why Hum is so good is inseparable from Du Jiang and Huo Siyan's education methods and family atmosphere.