The illusion of love, the truth of pain - psychological counseling has a feeling

The Illusion of Love

Text/Xiaodong - Daddy & Psychologist

She didn't explain anything.

Just keep you quiet.

You can't be quiet,

Refuse to endure a minute in confusion.

You imagine her coordinates at every moment, every expression in the distance,

Everyone you meet,

Every story that goes on and on

So the prelude to the last lover leaving you is back,

Familiar and painful.

The illusion rose and spread:

You don't want to die,

What hurts is the loss of a lover who can no longer be found,

What I feel afraid of is that I dare not give so much to love someone.

In fact, the truth of the pain is,

Angry that the other person no longer belongs to himself,

Angry at your own powerlessness,

Angry that you can't control a person,

Angry at yourself as a loser.

It's a mirror with light and heat.

See your own lusts and greed;

It's a gift of life,

See what you are chasing after when you are chasing "love".

She just didn't explain for a moment,

She just keeps you quiet for a while.

No reason, no question of right or wrong,

That's the real her.

Your reaction is also the real you,

That's the real story you're going through.

There is nothing more worthy of your love than the truth.

All the present is writing the story of your future.

She just makes you quiet for a while,

Do you allow her to have a grievance that you can't understand?

Did you allow her to come back to you without explanation?

Will you allow her to leave you?

Do you allow yourself to think nothing?

Are you allowed to eat and work and sleep normally?

Do you allow yourself to live in disobedience and loss of control?

When you allow it all,

The answer will become clearer.

True love will come to you,

Like a spring breeze,

Warm, quiet.

[Xiaodong Daddy Psychologist: Psychological counselor, second-child daddy, focusing on family education, learning strategies and marital feelings. 】

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