A girl on the American social news site Reddit asked: "Girls, how do you deal with the 'bad looking' thing?" ”
Many girls quote famous quotes, such as: "Beauty is not my responsibility." That's not what I'm alive for. I wasn't born to seduce people. "Others have replied that confidence shouldn't be based on looks, or something like that we're all familiar with. But here's the point.
As the saying goes, women are pleasing to themselves, girls are good-looking, in addition to enhancing their confidence, it is very important to be able to successfully obtain the attention of the opposite sex. One person's comment did not say the role of beauty in love. Instead, it is very detailed to say the whole process of a man falling in love with a woman, which can be described as very exciting.
I believe that this girl who is not confident in her appearance will look at herself more objectively and truly accept herself after seeing his message. After all, no one is perfect, but everyone is likely to harvest their own love, and this is not particularly directly related to appearance.
Sometimes, a boy meets a girl, and he doesn't have a single ripple in his heart, she may be a colleague, a classmate, or a buddy friend. In his mind, they were classified as "women, acquaintances, dislikes and dislikes" category.
Then he began to get to know her better, if the gears of their personalities just stuck together perfectly. In the man's head, something magical happens.
He began to pay attention to the girl's appearance, all kinds of pleasant little things.
Li Chuan: Xiao Qiu, that car is not empty!
Li Chuan: Xiao Qiu's expression of eating is too funny!
Starting from very subtle points, one day he found himself particularly fond of looking at the lines of her nose, or the junction of her earlobes and face.
This feeling is difficult to explain and difficult to describe. The man only knew that looking at this part of her made him feel particularly happy.
Li Chuan, what are you laughing at?
He wanted more of that pleasure. He began to notice her expression, which could be her hilarious laughter, or her frown when she was anxious. He felt his heart melt.
They made friends for a while and got to know each other better. Then one day, they hugged each other as they separated. After she left, he still had to think about the hug he had just given. When I drove out, what came to my mind was no longer the daydreams I had before, but all of her figures, and I couldn't help but build up various scenes about her in my mind.
Soon, the man found that he felt particularly wonderful just by looking at this woman himself. He loved her curves, her voice, her taste... She gradually changed from a black-and-white photo to a 3D color movie with surround sound, a perfect movie that would make him happy.
He began to think about how he could keep her by his side and how he could make her happy.
He realized that he enjoyed looking at her more than anyone else on earth. To him, she was perfect and beautiful.
Xiao Qiu, all in my afterglow is you
When a man falls in love with a woman, there is a layer of filter in the middle. He saw her, not her in the mirror. Rather, a beautiful, perfect, sublime woman. It was one of the most intense feelings he felt in his life.
Go and see the old couples who have been married for decades and look at the look in the man's eyes. Of course, he may still appreciate the perfect hip shape in those yoga pants. But look at the look in his eyes when he looks at his wife. If you look closely enough, maybe you can see the opening of the filter in his eyes. At that moment, he saw empty nesters who were not the sloppily dressed old men we saw. What he saw was something incredibly beautiful.
[The above text content comes from the WeChat public account Kaka Classroom, invaded and deleted]
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[Breeze] "Meet Wang Lichuan" was originally just a very ordinary story of a rich and handsome man falling in love with Cinderella, but after the true love of the two protagonists, this drama bloomed with infinite light. Under the adaptation of screenwriter Shi Da, the two characters in the novel slowly walk from the screen to the audience: Li Chuan is from an architectural family, his family background is not to say, he is handsome, gentle, good conduct, approachable, even treats his driver like a friend. But no one is perfect, and this man, who combines all the good things in the world, was amputated due to illness and had only one leg. Although Xiao Qiu is only a poor student from a small county, she is self-reliant and self-reliant, working hard to earn money and giving her brother living expenses. Although her life is ordinary, she is always optimistic and cheerful, and faces life positively. They met by chance, and Xiao Qiu's enthusiastic smiling face shone like a warm ray of sunshine into Li Chuan's dark and closed heart.
Before meeting her, he was faced with only boring work every day due to physical reasons, often traveling around the world for business and staying in different hotels. Maybe deep down in his heart, he felt that he should not find the one who could understand him.
But after meeting her, he saw another world that he had never been exposed to: they went to other companies together as temporary translators, took the bus together, ate food stalls together, watched midnight movies together, ate Yunnan rice noodles together, visited Kunming together... Xiao Qiu helped him realize the ordinary couple life he wanted to pursue and experience. After he lost a leg, he closed the door of his heart, and it was Xiao Qiu who reopened the door to the depths of his heart.
She taught him Chinese, she made breakfast for him, he didn't like to look in the mirror because of the inconvenience of his legs and feet, but because of one of her words, he bought the mirror again. She quarreled with her father Chinese New Year's Eve for him; others only cared about how his legs were gone, and she only worried about whether he still hurt. She took good care of him when he was sick and allergic, and she didn't give up when he was in a coma.
Fearing her cold, he gentlemanly took off her blazer and draped her; she had a hemorrhoea, and he encouraged her to undergo "desensitization therapy." Worried about her, he secretly put a bank card in his suitcase; in order to get closer to her, he flew to Kunming as soon as he finished his work; in order to accept his aunt's test, he dragged a prosthetic leg up to the seventh floor; he did not hesitate to argue with his grandfather in order to defend her. In order not to drag her down, he chose to leave when his illness worsened.
In the years of separation, if there were no thousands of emails from Xiao Qiu, Li Chuan might not have had the courage to live at all. Without knowing it, how many people can do something like Xiao Qiu? They have all done a lot for each other, and their love is evenly matched and given in both directions.
[Breeze] Some viewers do not understand why Li Chuan must be Xiao Qiu move on. In fact, as he said: "You are only in your 20s, how long can I delay you?" You don't have to follow me, the half-dead man. ”
[Breeze] He knows the seriousness of his illness, and he knows even more that Xiao Qiu will never abandon him. Because of this, he has been inseparable, and he can't simply break up. His self-esteem does not allow Xiao Qiu to see himself lying sick on the hospital bed, and he hopes that in front of the people he loves deeply, he will always remain handsome, windy and perfect.
[Breeze] loves to the depths like they are, can do anything for each other, even give up their lives: Li Chuan quietly runs to the Green Lake Hotel to let Xiao Qiu leave herself and waits for death; Xiao Qiu decides to move on in order for Li Chuan to be able to receive good treatment.
[Breeze] Xiao Qiu believes that love should be pure, and her love is selfless and does not mix with any material components. When she naturally squatted down to tie the shoelaces for Li Chuan, could this scene not touch his heart?
Those who say that Xiao Qiu is not worthy of Li Chuan, may be in their eyes, love is to be the right door, in their hearts, appearance is supreme, money is supreme, and even, can transfer the prejudice against actors to her role. Aside from that, I can't think of a reason why they don't feel worthy.
But love also needs to be equal, to play against each other, to give each other. Love has nothing to do with appearance, wealth, status, and unworthiness, "love is the attitude of one soul to another soul." Sometimes love is so wonderful, two beautiful people meet, know each other, love each other. Although it may not be able to accompany the old, but the beauty that was once there is worth spending the rest of your life reminiscing.
The combination of South Korean female singer Lee Hyo-ri and her husband Lee Sang-soon has been described by the media as a combination of beauty and the beast. Whether it is fame, appearance, status, or money, the man is not as good as the woman, but they still fall in love. They have complementary personalities and share a common hobby: music. They all love small animals. Li Shangshun is a very talented musician, simple and kind, thinking about her everywhere in life, and Li Xiaoli is also very dependent on him. If it weren't for Li Xiaoli, probably few people would know him, but fans who know them all think they are a good match.
[Breeze] Those trolls who judge whether two people are suitable based on appearance and family background alone are simply superficial! Their vendetta mentality is also exposed. Just a little confused, the same as women, so spare no effort to smear and hate an actress who has nothing to do with you in real life, can't help but make people doubt their motives.
[Breeze] Some people's three views are so strange: strong women and weak men, she will not say anything, but if men are strong and women are weak, she will absolutely export "dirty" and say ten thousand reasons for not liking you. For such people, they must not argue with their reasoning, because in their minds, there is never "reason" to speak of. Regardless of men and women, all men and women are born free and equal, all in the 21st century, can the concept of equality between men and women not yet penetrate the hearts of the people?
Whether it is Li Chuan in the play or GG outside the play, we can't see him holding the hand of his beloved and walking into the palace of marriage together. At least one thought is left for the audience in the play, but the wishes of the fans outside the play are forever empty! Although it is much late, the following picture is regarded as the wedding photo of Li Chuan and Xiao Qiu that has not been taken [heart]
[Breeze] and those trolls who constantly attack the appearance of the heroine, no matter how unhappy you are, how unaccustomed to it, in the play, she will always be Li Chuan's favorite Xiao Qiu. Outside the scene, she will always be the tacit partner that GG praises when facing the media. People like Li Chuan and GG are all encounterable and unattainable, and even if they do, he is also a dream that you trolls can never reach, because you really don't deserve it!
[Breeze] South Korean actor Yoon Yoo Sun talked about an interesting conversation with her husband on a variety show:
[Breeze] How many people have admired your youthful appearance? But who can stay young forever? As your face grows older, your significant other will grow older. How lucky it is to be able to stay together to the white-haired sky! Who can say that the old man holding hands in the sunset is not beautiful?
[Breeze] was able to meet you in the instant of my life, and it took me all my luck. Let's end this article with two sentences that our favorite Li Qiu couple said!
Even if I missed you in this life, at least I didn't miss your birthday. — Love your Li Chuan
Even if the waves of love drown me, as long as I can surface, I will still love you desperately.
— Always love your little autumn
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