Stars have always had a high status in the hearts of young people, and almost every teenage child will have their favorite stars, of course, there are many star chasers.
This is not something that must be stopped, after all, children should also have their own space properly, but if they are too fanatical about celebrities, it will obviously affect their normal lives.
In the metamorphometer three years ago, there was a girl named Chen Siyuan, and the reason why she let her children participate in this reality show was that her parents also had their own helplessness.
Although Chen Siyuan's personality is decent, not weird or rebellious, her academic performance makes her parents very worried, not because she is not smart enough, but because she spends almost all her energy on chasing stars.
Chen Siyuan definitely belongs to the brain dead fan, because the star chaser her academic performance continues to decline, and we often see the fanatical star chasers, Chen Siyuan will also skip class to pick up, as long as there are stars to attend the event, she will find ways to participate.
This naturally made her gradually abandon her studies, and her parents, who had exhausted all kinds of methods to no avail, seemed to pin their last hopes on the Metamorphosis.
What they didn't expect was that the child actually felt a lot in this show, perhaps having experienced the hard life in the countryside, so that Chen Siyuan grew up overnight and finally knew what he really should pursue.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-center-line" > now that three years have passed, what changes have there been in Chen Siyuan now? </h1>
After participating in the metamorphometer, Chen Siyuan began to treat her idol rationally, she used the energy of her previous star chasing on her studies, and even posted her Peking University admission letter, proving her growth with practical actions, which made people sigh.
< h1 class="pgc-h-center-line" > the harm of star chasing to children? </h1>
1. Affect children's learning
This is the most obvious impact on children, if children chase stars, it will naturally distract their attention to learning, not only when they are thinking about the dynamics of stars in class, but also skip class to participate in various activities of stars.
The impact on children's learning is huge, and it may directly lead to children being bored with school or dropping out of school.
2. Influence children's values
Stars in our country are definitely high-income people, and at the same time, they are always so bright in front of the camera, which will make children very envious of the feeling of being a star.
Of course, they only see the star's front stage scenery, and even think that the success of the star is only based on the image and luck, after they ignore the efforts of the star, they will naturally want to take shortcuts in everything and are not willing to make efforts.
3. Affect personality and psychology
The road to chasing stars is not smooth, many fans will be rejected when chasing stars, and over time will make children have self-denial and doubt, thinking that they are too mediocre, so they cannot get the favor of idols.
Especially after their behavior is repeatedly hindered, their mentality may even be distorted, and it is very likely to do something extreme.
<h1 class="pgc-h-center-line" > parents should guide their children to follow the stars correctly</h1>
1. Correct the child's outlook on life and values
Parents can properly enter the child's heart, calmly talk to the child, let the child know that the success of the star is also to pay sweat, only rely on the good-looking skin bag and grandstanding absolutely can not go further.
Only by being truly talented and have enough knowledge can they add light to their careers.
This will let the child know that there is no pie in the sky, and that if you want to succeed in everything, you must make an effort, even if the result is not necessarily what you want, at least you will not regret it.
2. Learn to let children use the power of example
The power of role models is often beyond our imagination, and parents can use this to guide their children to become better.
In the entertainment industry, there are some talented and worthy of people's respect, they have high education, high emotional intelligence, and are keen on charity, which are worth learning.
If parents can let their children see these shining points in the stars, then they can make good use of the power of role models and let children unconsciously improve themselves and become better in the process of chasing stars.