With the first batch of post-90s 30s that appear frequently on the hot search news, bald, divorced, divorced, and have no sex, you have finally come to this age that begins with the number 3. Thanks for the thoughts, but from the mirror, you have more stories except for your eyes, almost the same as when you were in your twenties.
You have not become the adult you once fantasized about, you still have a passion for blood, stubbornly let those little children change their names, don't call you old, you let him turn off the song about thirty years old in the arms of your lover, you may still have no direction, drifting between cities, seeing the hope of the pyramid tip when the tide rises, and when the tide recedes, you stay on the beach, except for your own favorite pair of shoes, and find nothing.
You waste some time on someone, and later you think that this waste is also very good, or maybe you are lucky to still hold hands with someone, although the future is not visible at a glance, but at least that future, there is another person living.
You water the plants on the windowsill, can the cat cubs, and look at the small house, which is the only place that will give you a hug when you are lonely. You blow out the 30th birthday candle, in the misty darkness, illuminating the person sitting opposite, the past you, and probably your loved ones accompanying you at this time.
You especially want to use the less intelligent experience of this age to leave thirty things you want to say.
1. Deeply realize that there are a small number of people who can change the world, and you will be relieved of a lot. Let those people change the world, and you are responsible for living well in the world they have changed.
2. Greed is sometimes not necessarily a bad thing, many people are not clear about what they want, then the best way is to have it all to be sure that this is not what I want.
3. Materialism has not decayed at my age, but to learn to see value, expensive is not necessarily good, and more is not necessarily right. The value of a thing is not determined by itself, but by the person who owns it. For a small child, you give him a glass of red wine and a bottle of Coke, and he will feel happier drinking Coke. Good things don't necessarily get everyone's affirmation, as long as you think it's good, it's worth investing in, no need to convince others, and don't have to explain too much for yourself.
4. Late-night economics tells us that we love to buy and buy at night, so we play less on our mobile phones at night and go to bed early.
5. Don't stomp your legs, it will make you ugly.
6. The pursuit of freedom is itself particularly unfree. People don't really have absolute freedom, just like the word "meaning of life." You talk about freedom, your parents talk to you about getting married, you don't get married, your parents say what kind of freedom you have. You don't even have a parent to solve it, and you still talk about freedom and ideals.
7. The only prerequisite for equal communication with parents is financial independence. In their eyes, the sign that you grew up is that they don't have to spend money for you anymore.
8. It's really easy to have a preference, and in this day and age, it's much easier to make money by liking than in the past.
9. Cherish those who talk to you about the present, and stay away from those who always talk to you about the future, work, love, and friends.
10. Invest in work, and be lazy when you have nothing to do, but be wary of people in life, that is, lazy and more real people, who are obstinately procrastinating, but they are extremely calculating about gains and losses, tangled, and finally send emotions to people close to them. Stay away from such people.
11. If you can't change your takeaway habits, put the takeaway on the plate and you will find that the takeaway is much more delicious. This damn sense of ritual.
12. Regarding the matter of friends, I once wrote a metaphor that friends are like trains, and some people stop under this station and some people stop there, and the destination is different. I now feel that friends are like organs of the body, naturally metabolizing, for no reason, and gradually drifting away cordially. From the relationship between eating and drinking, to the relationship of liking in the circle of friends, to finally disappearing in your circle of friends, becoming an avatar without chat history, it is not easy for everyone, and it is enough to see each other well.
13. Reduce unnecessary socializing.
14. Don't be afraid to be an unsociable person, can't speak on awkward occasions, daze and play with mobile phones, this year, not very easy to contact, is your best protective color.
15. Make a Lovely boy and Cool girl if you can.
16. Many people are wrong about love, because they are talking with their brains, and real love should be talked about with the heart. You shouldn't think too much about each other's standards, anticipate each other's reactions, and plan the future rationally, but rely on instinct.
17. Marry your liking, not age. Any passive decision in life will definitely be regretted in the future. The result of regret is that the people who forced you at that time have left you, and you yourself have to bear the regret day after day and year after year.
18. You and your partner determine your later life, not your children.
19. It is always said that our nation is implicit and not good at expressing itself, but "wanting to be rich" is very outward-looking, and blessings are all wishing to get rich and get rich. Use the energy you want to work hard to get rich and say "love" to the people around you, and you will find that your life is full of pink bubbles.
20. Spend as much time with your family as possible, be patient, and love them.
21. If you want to figure out the meaning of travel, go to your local art museum.
22. Don't punish yourself with other people's mistakes, and if you can't control your emotions, scold them. When you grow up, it's time to be an indecent adult.
23. Forget a sentence where you see it, to the effect that it is not your shortcomings that limit you, but that you are too accustomed to using your strengths.
24. People like to see bad success, but they don't like to see glamorous success, so there are always people who are hostile to those who are at the top of the traffic, and they feel that they are too light to be worthy. What you have to do is to understand and then evaluate, and if you can't do it, shut up. Nothing can ruin the next generation, except the mouths of the previous generation. Don't be the most hated middle-aged man we were when we were young, forcing Lai Lai.
25. When you have nothing, you instinctively work towards material things, but when you have everything, you must feel that it is still spiritually important, and there is someone around you who can love you and give you a hug. It is precious to know how much money you make, how healthy your body is, and how good or bad your emotions are.
26. How do you know that a person is the right person? Will it glow and make you a better person? I don't think it's all, when you accept a person's undignifiedness, that person is the right person.
27. There is an invisible energy between people, it is vibrating all the time, you don't know how long this energy has been resonating, how much effort it takes for two people to meet, and if they can still have a relationship with each other, the two souls must have merged. As you get older, the challenge you will definitely face is to say goodbye to your loved ones. The flesh will rot, it will turn into ashes, we lack the education of death, and the first reaction to death is to collapse, to cry. But even if the flesh is dissolved, the entangled soul will not be easily separated. If you think so, you may be a little more relaxed in the face of goodbye.
28. Be determined to be a good person. You are good to one person, even if this person does not know, there will always be another person, thank you for him.
29. Many people must have been a street lamp in their previous lives, so they like to stay up late. It doesn't matter, you boil, but take a health supplement, apply a mask, and don't embarrass young people.
30. There is never a standard of life, and even if God gives you a million solutions, human beings will always live in the stupidest way. So everyone lives their lives in their own way, which is very good, and it is better to compare less.
Well, hard mom, happy father's day, happy father's day, happy birthday to me.